Mipat hmeichhiatna lam ngaihtuahna pawh i tuar ve em? Hei hi sex addiction chungchang a ni em?

I rilruah mipat hmeichhiatna ngaihtuahna, duhna emaw, mipat hmeichhiatna lama thil engemaw lo thlengte chu i thunun thei lo ang maiin i inhria em, heng thilte hi i lu-ah a inher chhuak a, i nitin, i nun pum pui chu chutiang lam hawiah a inher chhuak niin i hria em? Hei hian lungngaihna, lungngaihna leh mualphona nasa tak a thlen che a, nitin hnathawhna te, chhungte nena in inzawmna te, hnathawhna te a tibuai a nih chuan vawiin hian i tan pawha pawimawh tak ni thei tur thupui kan sawi dawn a ni.

Sex addiction chu eng nge ni?

A awlsam zawngin sawi ila, mipat hmeichhiatna lama ruihhlo ngawlvei chu thunun theih loha mipat hmeichhiatna lama thil ngaihtuah, duhna, a nih loh leh thiltih lama buaina a ni. Hetiang dinhmun hian lungngaihna a thlen thei che a, i hriselna, chhungkaw inlaichinna, hnathawhna emaw, i nun kawng dang emaw a tichhe thei bawk. Mi tam zawk chuan "sexual addiction" tih hi sawi nan an hmang thin. Mahse, doctor emaw rilru lam hriselna lama mithiam emaw chuan ``Compulsive Sexual Behavior'', ``Problematic Sexual Behavior'', ``Hypersexuality'', ``Hypersexuality Disorder'', ``Sexual Compulsivity'', emaw ``Sexual Impulsivity'' tiin an sawi thei bawk. Mipat hmeichhiatna nunah hmuh theih thil nen a inzawm tlangpui. Chu chu masturbation, pornography en, phone sex, cybersex, sexual partner pakhat aia tam neih ang chi thil tihna a ni. Mahse, i mipat hmeichhiatna ngaihtuahna leh thiltih hian i nun pum pui a rawn luah khat a nih chuan mipat hmeichhiatna hmansualna a ni thei niin kan ngai.

Hei hi addiction dang ang em?

Ni e, a dik tak zet. Chu "addiction feeling" chu hei pawh hi a awm a ni. Zu emaw ruihhlo ngawlvei emaw chuan chutiang thil chu duhna nasa tak a neih ang bawkin, sex chungchangah pawh hetiang hian a awm a ni. Thunun theih loh a ni a, a tithinrim a, eng ang pawhin ti mah la lungawi theih a ni lo, car `autopilot`-a kal ang mai a ni. Hei hian rah tha lo a nei dawn tih i hria a, mahse chutiang bawk chu i hmang nawn leh fo thin. Mi thenkhat chuan zing atanga an thawh atanga zan mut thlenga sex chungchang ngaihtuah a, chu mi avang chuan an hnathawh leh chhungte theihnghilh ta se, eng ang taka buaithlak nge a nih tih han ngaihtuah teh.

Hetiang dinhmun hi engtiang chiahin nge a awm? Tu nge a tuar ber?

American statistics-a a lan dan chuan he natna hian mipui zawng zawng 3% leh 10% inkar a nghawng a ni. Hmeichhia aiin mipa zingah a tam zawk. Hypersexuality nei mipa pahnih zingah hmeichhia panga zinga pakhat chu a vei a ni. He natna hi kum 18 vel atang hian a intan tlangpui a, mahse mi tam zawk chuan kum 37 vel atang hian professional tanpuina an zawng thin a, chu chu he harsatna hi anmahni chauhin hun rei tak an hmachhawn tihna a ni.Tin, he natna vei zinga 88% vel hian rilru lam harsatna dang an nei bawk tih hmuhchhuah a ni bawk. Chung zinga ṭhenkhat chu:

• Mood disorder, Bipolar Disorder ang chi te pawh a awm thei.
• Lungkhamna (anxiety Disorder) a awm.
• Tun hmain mahni intihhlum tum tawh bawk.
• Mihring nihna lama harsatna (Personality Disorders) a awm.
• Addiction dangte pawh .
• Impulse Control lama harsatna awm thei.
• Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder ( OCD ) hi ngaihtuahna leh thiltih inrawlhna avanga natna a ni.
• Ngaihtuahna tlakchhamna (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) ( ADHD ) tih hi a ni.

Sex addiction hi rilru natna anga ngaih a ni em?

Hemi chungchangah hian inhnialna engemaw zat a la awm. American Psychiatric Association chuan an Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fifth edition (DSM-5)-ah Hypersexual Disorder telh tura rawtna chu an hnawl a ni. Hei hi a chhan chu finfiahna tling a awm loh vang leh mipat hmeichhiatna hman tam lutuk chu "natna" tia sawi a nih chuan a rah chhuah theih dan tur ngaihtuah a nih vang niin an sawi.

Hetiang mi hian eng ang thil nge a ngaihtuah a, a hriat?

Mipat hmeichhiatna lama addiction nei chuan hetiang rilru hi a nei thei a ni:

• Inthiam lohna, mualphona, inchhir tihna.
• Ruihhlo ngawlvei thiltih chungchangah beiseina nei lo, thunun thei lo anga inhriatna.
• Depression , mahni chauha awm.
• Hlauhna, lungkhamna.
• Miten mahni nunna lak duhna an neih hi thil mak a ni lo.

Ngaihtuah teh, i thil tih avanga zak leh lungngaihna i neih a, mahse i tihtawp theih loh chuan eng angin nge i tanpui theih loh ang?

Mipat hmeichhiatna hmansualna chhinchhiahnate chu engte nge ni?

Hypersexuality hriat theihna tur tehfung bik awm lo mah se, he natna vei mi pakhatah hian mizia langsar tak tak hmuh tur a awm a:

• Sex hi i obsess hle a ni . Mipat hmeichhiatna lama duhna i fantasize a, mipat hmeichhiatna lama i inhmang thin. Hei hian i nitin hun tam tak a la a ni.
• Ni khatah vawi khat emaw vawi engemaw zat emaw i masturbate thei.
• Pornography i en fo thin. Chumi awmzia chu video, puitling magazine, Internet-a website, webcam, etc. Pornography en laiin i masturbate fo thin.
• Mipat hmeichhiatna hman dan tur ruahmanna siam nan hun tam tak i hmang thin. I sexual "fun" lo awm tur chu khawiah nge leh engtin nge i neih theih ang tih ngaihtuah nan hun tam tak i hmang thin.
• Sex services i hmang fo thin a ni. Hei hi thil pawi tak a ni deuh a, a chhan chu tunah chuan mi pakhat chu i thiltih ah a inrawlh tawh a ni. Phone hmanga sexting, internet chat room hmanga inbiakpawhna , sex man pek, strip club-a kal, zan khat inhmu fo, kawppui tam tak neih ang chi thil a ni thei.
• I nungchang chu ngaihtuahna fim lo taka mipat hmeichhiatna hmannaah a zual zel a ni. Mipat hmeichhiatna hman hi ruihhlo hman, mipat hmeichhiatna hmansualna, emaw ``autoerotic asphyxiation'' ( sexual stimulation atana inthiarfihlim) ang chi thil hlauhawm tak takte nen a inzawm mai thei.
• I mimal nunphung, sakhaw rinna, a nih loh leh khawtlang pawm dan kalh zawnga mipat hmeichhiatna lama inhmang.
• `(Paraphilia)` tih dinhmun i sawi fo thin. Chûngte chu mipat hmeichhiatna lama thil tih, mi dang rilru lama harsatna, hliam, thihna thlenga thlentu a ni. Entirnan: `(Exhibitionism)`, `(Voyeurism)`, `(Sadomasochism)`, leh `(Pedophilia)` te hi a ni.
• He mipat hmeichhiatna hman dan hi i titawp thei lo, i sum leh pai, i inlaichinna, i hriselna leh i thlarau tan nghawng tha lo tak nei mahse.

Hei hian eng harsatna nge a thlen theih?

Sexual addiction hian harsatna a thlen thei a, chungte chu:

• I mipat hmeichhiatna hmanpui leh chhungte nena inzawmna pangngai, hrisel tak i hloh a ni.
• I hnaah i rilru i pe tha thei lo a, hnathawhna hmuna pornography en hian i hnathawh a tichhe thei a, i hna pawh i hloh thei bawk.
• Mipat hmeichhiatna hmanna atana sum hman hian sum leh pai lama harsatna a thlen thin.
• Hriselna lama harsatna a awm. Naupai lai, mipat hmeichhiatna hmanga kai theih natna (STI) HIV, Hepatitis B leh C, Syphilis, leh Gonorrhea te a awm thei.
• Ruihhlo hman emaw zu in tam lutuk emaw lam hawi.
• Rilru hriselna dinhmun, stress, lungkhamna, lungngaihna, leh mahni intihhlum duhna te.
• Mipat hmeichhiatna lama inhnamhnawih i nih chuan lung inah pawh i kal a ngai mai thei.
• Thil sual tihna, mualphona, leh beidawnna ang chi thil avanga rilruah phurrit rit tak nia inhriatna.

Mipat hmeichhiatna lama addiction awm chhante chu engte nge ni?

Scientist-te chuan hei hi eng thil nge a thlen tih chiang takin an la hre lo a, mahse theory thenkhat chuan hetiang hian a awm thei niin an sawi:

• I thluaka chemical thenkhat inthlauhna.Thluaka thuchah kengtu chemicals ``neurotransmitters'' an tih, ``Dopamine'', ``Norepinephrine'', leh ``Serotonin'' te level emaw activity tihpun hian mipat hmeichhiatna duhna leh nungchang a tipung thei a ni.
• Mipat hmeichhiatna hman dan thununtu thluak peng hrang hrang natna emaw, chhiatna emaw. Hetiang dinhmun hi natna hrang hrang `(Dementia)`, `(Epilepsy)`, `(Bipolar Disorder)`, emaw thluak hmun thenkhat `(Frontal lobe)`, `(Amygdala)`, `(Prefrontal cortex)` te tihchhiat vang pawh a ni thei bawk.
• Brain function a inthlak a, addictive behaviors te tan neural pathway thar a siam thin.
• Ruihhlo hman, a bik takin cocaine, amphetamine, leh zu te.
• Damdawi thenkhat side effect angin. Entirnan, Parkinson natna atana hman damdawi ``Levodopa`` hi a ni.

Engtin nge he dinhmun hi kan hriat theih ang?

Doctor emaw mental health counselor emaw i hmuh hunah chuan hetiang hi an zawt ang che:

• Tuna i hriselna dinhmun te, natna awm tawh te, i chhungkuaa natna te, leh damdawi, vitamin leh herbal product i ei te chungchang.
• Ruihhlo i hmang em, zu i hmang em?
• I mipat hmeichhiatna ngaihtuahna, i duhzawng leh i nungchang te, chutiang chunga i thunun theihna level te, leh mipat hmeichhiatna lama chhinchhiahna dang eng pawh an zawt ang.

Doctor chuan i chhungte leh i thiante hnenah thu hriat duhna dil phalna a dil thei bawk. Doctor hian natna dang, bipolar disorder, hyperandrogenism, lungkhamna, personality disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), leh Tourette’s disorder te pawh paih chhuah a tum dawn a, hypersexuality hi natna dang chhinchhiahna a nih theih avangin. Tunah hian hypersexuality hriat theihna tur tehfung inrem tak a awm lo. Mahse, rilru lam hriselna lama mithiam, ruihhlo ngawlvei lama tui tak takte chuan i nun tichhe thei mipat hmeichhiatna lam thilte chu an hmuchhuak thei a, enkawlna \ha tak an rawt thei bawk.

Engtin nge enkawl a nih?

Mipat hmeichhiatna lama addiction, a nih loh leh hypersexuality , enkawlnaah chuan damdawi, rilru lam enkawlna, leh mahni invenna pawla telna a tel a ni.

Damdawi chi hrang hrang

Sex addiction atana damdawi bik pawm a awm lo. Mahse, thluaka "duh leh nungchang" control tu hormone leh chemical te nghawng thei damdawi te chu i enchhin thei a, chubakah damdawi lam dinhmun inang chiah damdawi te pawh i enchhin thei bawk. I doctor chuan i rilru lam natna dangte pawh a ngaihtuah ang a, i tana damdawi \ha ber a pe ang che.

• Antidepressant: SSRI class-a damdawi (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) te hi sex addiction enkawlna hmasa ber nia ngaih a ni.
• Mipa hormone control thei damdawi (Anti-androgens):Hengte hian mipa sex hormone target-in hna an thawk a ni. Ngaihtuahna (obsessive thoughts) tihtlem nan an tangkai hle. Mi dangte tana hlauhawm thei khawpa mipat hmeichhiatna lama nungchang i neih hian hengte hi i enchhin thei a ni.
• Naltrexone (Vivitrol®, Revia®): He damdawi hi zu leh opioid addiction enkawlna atana hman a ni a, khelh addiction tan pawh a tangkai hle tih hmuhchhuah a ni bawk. Sex addiction-ah pawh a pui thei bawk.
• Mood stabilizers: Hengte hi bipolar disorder ang chi natna, mania emaw impulsivity emaw nena inzawm i neih chuan a \angkai thei a, hypersexuality hi chu natna langsar tak a ni. Entirnan, lithium, valproate (Depakote®), leh carbamazepine (Tegretol®) te hi a ni.
• Anti-anxiety medications: Lungkhamna hi i mipat hmeichhiatna thlentu a nih chuan heng damdawi te hi i enchhin thei ang. Buspirone hi entirnan pakhat a ni a, a pui thei ang.
• Damdawi dang: Ngaihtuahna lama harsatna emaw, buaina nasa tak emaw i neih chuan antipsychotics i ngaihtuah mai thei. Heng damdawi te hian mipat hmeichhiatna duhna te, harhtharna te, orgasm te a ti tlem thei a ni. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) (sexual risk-taking nena inzawm) i neih chuan damdawi methylphenidate leh dextroamphetamine te hi a \angkai thei ang.

Psychotherapy hmanga enkawlna

Psychotherapy hi kawng hrang hranga kalpui a ni. Hemi kawngah hian rilru lam hriselna lama counselor i biak thin . I hypersexual behavior thlentu leh tizualtu thilte hriatchhuah leh enkawl turin a pui che a ni. He enkawlna hi mimal, chhungkua leh nupa te bakah midangte tan pawh pek thin a ni. A chhan chu mi pakhatin mipat hmeichhiatna lama a addiction hian mi zawng zawng a nghawng a ni.

• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): He psychotherapy hian zawi zawiin i ngaihtuahna leh nungchang tha lote chu i mipat hmeichhiatna lama i duhna tihziaawmna tur leh a hmachhawn dan tur kawng dang hmangin a thlak zauh zauh thin.
• Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): Hei hian pawm dan leh ngaihtuahna fim tak hman dan a hmang a. A tum ber chu miten an rilru hahna an tawhte pawm a, chu ngaihtuahna nena an inzawmna tihdanglam a, an ngaihtuahna thlak danglam ai chuan a ni.
• Motivational Interviewing: He psychotherapy hian i mimal thil tum leh hlutna nena inzawm hian i sexual addiction chu nangmah ngeiin i chhui chhuahna kawngah a kaihruai che a ni.

Mahni in\anpuitu pawl hrang hrangte

Hengte hi Alcoholics Anonymous-in step 12-a an kalpui program aṭanga model-a siam a ni. Pawl engemaw zat a awm a, chungte chu Sex Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous, Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, leh Sexual Compulsives Anonymous te an ni. Heng pawlte website-ah hian i bula branch awm chu i hmu thei ang.

Hei hi ven theih a ni em?

Sexual addiction i ven theih leh theih loh chu a chhan (s) bulpui (s)-ah a innghat a ni. A chang chuan thluaka chemical imbalance a awm thei bawk. A nih loh leh, hriselna lama harsatna dang side effect emaw symptom emaw a ni thei bawk. Mipat hmeichhiatna lama addiction lo awm chhan hi thil tam tak a awm a. Mahse, i thunun vek theih loh laiin, i ngaihtuahna, i duhzawng, i duhna leh i thiltih tichhuak thei thil thenkhat chu i thunun thei a ni. Chung zingah chuan:

• Sexual addiction emaw hypersexuality emaw chungchang zir rawh. He thuziak hi chhiarin hmahruaitu i ni tawh!
• I doctor emaw mental health counselor emaw hmu rawh . I tanpui turin an awm a, zirna lam atang pawhin.
• Thil in on tih i hriatte chu thlak rawh. I computer-ah pornographic website leh sexual website dangte block rawh. Strip club awmna kawngpui chu pumpelh la, kawng dang zawh rawh. Eng thil dang nge i tihdanglam theih tih ngaihtuah rawh.
• Substance hmansual chungchangah tanpuina dawng rawh. Zu emaw, ruihhlo emaw i hman chuan mipat hmeichhiatna lama i duhna thunun theihna chu a tlahniam thei a ni. Heng thilte tihtawp nan doctor hnenah tanpuina dil rawh.
• Rilru hriselna dinhmun dangte pawh uluk takin enkawl rawh. Rilru lam natna dang, lungngaihna, lungkhamna, a nih loh leh bipolar disorder i neih chuan, chutiang natna enkawl dan tur i doctor-in a pek zawng zawng chu zawm ngei ngei tur a ni. I dinhmun a danglam tawh nia i hriat chuan doctor pan turin appointment siam rawh.
• I chakna chu thil hrisel takah dah rawh. I taksa chu thil dang a ngaihtuah chuan i rilru pawh a inthlak thei a, a ngaihtuah thei bawk. Busy takin awm rawh. Infiamna khel la, club-ah tel la, hobby i tan la, midangte tanpuitu pawl hrang hrangah volunteer la, exercise la, meditate la, yoga ti la, a nih loh leh stress tihziaawmna tur kawng dang enchhin rawh.
• Dawhthei takin awm la, i thil tumte chu ngaihtuah reng rawh. Sex addiction enkawl hi dam chhung zawnga tih tur a ni. I nunah thil pawimawh ber berte ngaihtuah tur leh inlaichinna chhia siamthat chu nangmah ah a innghat. Hei hi i ti thei ang. I healthcare team zawng zawng chu i tanpui turin an awm vek a ni. Anmahni pui rawh se.

Engtin nge sex addiction ka neih leh neih loh ka hriat theih ang?

I mipat hmeichhiatna hman dan hian i rilru a ti nuam lo em, i nun kawng pawimawh tak takte a tibuai em? Heng thilte hi i chungah a thleng em?

• Mipat hmeichhiatna lama ngaihtuahna emaw, thiltih emaw avanga i muhil lo em ni?
• Hnathawh tur i tlan tlai em?
• I mawhphurhna i shirk em?
• I chhungte hnenah dawt i sawi em, thuruk i thup em?
• Sexual stimulation emaw satisfaction level inang i neih theih nan sexual activity nasa zawk i mamawh em?
• I mipat hmeichhiatna duhna avang hian mi emaw, hmun pangngaia i thlan loh tur hmunah emaw in inpawl thin em?
• I thawh hun chhung hi pornography enin i hmang nasa em?
• I mipat hmeichhiatna avang hian dan lama harsatna emaw, sum leh pai lama harsatna emaw i tawk tawh em, i nei thei em?
• I sexual fantasy, i duhzawng, emaw, i nungchang emaw hian rilru, rilru leh/ emaw taksa lamah a tichhe che em?
• I mipat hmeichhiatna hman dân chu i mi mal nunphung, sakhaw lam, a nih loh leh nungchang lama i rinna nên a inkalh em?
• I mipat hmeichhiatna hman zawhah mualphona, inchhir, beidawnna, sualna, mahni chauha awm emaw, mahni intihhlum tumna emaw i nei em?

Heng zawhna zawng zawng hi "yes" tih i chhan chuan doctor nen appointment siam a tha. Psychiatrist emaw psychologist emaw hnenah a refer thei che a ni. Mahni intihhlum tumna i neih chuan Doctor pan nghal la, a nih loh leh 1926 (the National Mental Health Helpline) ah call rawh.

Sex addiction leh depression hi inzawmna a awm em?

Inzawmna a awm thei. Mood hniam leh lungngaihna hun lai hian hypersexual behavior a pung thei. Antidepressant damdawi hian depression symptoms a chhang thei bawk.

A tawi zawngin, kan hriat reng tur thilte

I mipat hmeichhiatna lama i duhna leh thiltih hian lungngaihna a thlen che a, i nun a luah khat a, i mimal, hnathawhna leh/ emaw chhungkaw nun a tichhe a nih chuan tunah hian i doctor nena inbiakna hun a ni. Mi tam tak chuan mualpho vang emaw, sual vang emawin enkawlna an zawng ngai lo. I healthcare team hian i sexual behavior chungchangah hian rorelna an nei lo. I tanpui turin an awm reng a ni.

Nangmah chauh i ni lo tih hre reng ang che. Hetiang dinhmun hmachhawn tur hi mi tam tak an awm a, tanpuina dawn dan pawh a tam hle.

Mi zawng zawng – i chhungte, i kawppui, i medical team, leh a pawimawh ber chu nangmah leh nangmah nena rinawm taka thawh dun atanga rah tha ber a chhuak thin. I tanpui theih nan enkawlna kawng hrang hrang a awm a. I mualphona leh hlauhna chu dah bo la, tanpuina dil rawh.

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