Ngaba umntwana wakho ngamanye amaxesha ukhwaza kakhulu aze alahle yonke into xa ebona into encinci? Ngaba emva koko ujika ngequbuliso egumbini lakhe aze enze izinto ezibuhlungu? Ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba iimvakalelo zomntwana azizinzanga, ngequbuliso ziya zisuka phezulu ziye ezantsi, zize ziphinde zibuyele ezantsi ngequbuliso? Namhlanje sithetha ngemeko yengqondo ebizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder , enokubangela ezo zenzo.
Le meko idla ngokubonakala kubantu abadala abancinci okanye kubantu abadala, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha inokuvela kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-6 ubudala. Kodwa le yingongoma ephikiswana kakhulu phakathi kwabantwana abancinci. Ezinye iingcali zonyango zithi ayiqhelekanga kakhulu kubantwana abancinci, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ixilongwa kakhulu. Abanye bathi okuchaseneyo. Ke ngoko, kunzima ukutsho ukuba ixhaphake kangakanani na ngokwenene.
Ngoko ke, musa ukutsiba ufikelele kwizigqibo ngokusekelwe kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba imbangela yokuba umntwana wakho abe nomsindo ogqithisileyo kunye nokucaphuka akubangelwa yi-bipolar, kodwa yimeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-'Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD). Ngoko ke , kungcono ukubonisana nogqirha onamava uze uthethe ngale nto . Ukuba kuyimfuneko, kuyafaneleka ukufuna uluvo lwesibini komnye ugqirha ngaphambi kokuba uqale unyango.
Imingeni ekuchongeni isifo se-bipolar kubantwana abancinci
Kunokuba nzima ukuxilonga ngokuchanekileyo isifo se-bipolar kumntwana omncinci kuba iimpawu zinokufana kakhulu nezo ze-attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), okanye ukuziphatha okubi. Ngamanye amaxesha, sinokucinga ukuba ezi ziindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha okubi ebuntwaneni.
Eyona ngxaki inkulu apha kukuba ezinye izinto ezikhuthazayo ezinikwa umntwana one-ADHD zinokwenza kube nzima ngakumbi ukuxhathisa umntwana onesifo se-bipolar. Yiyo loo nto ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo kubaluleke kangaka.
Kukho umahluko ocacileyo phakathi kweempawu ze-bipolar zomntwana omncinci kunye nomntu omdala. Masijonge ngale ndlela.
| Uphawu / Ithuba | Indlela yokubona abantwana abancinci | Indlela ebonakala ngayo kubantu abadala |
|---|---|---|
| Isigaba seManic | Endaweni yokuba bonwabe ngendlela engaqhelekanga, babonisa ukucaphuka okukhulu nomsindo ogqithisileyo . Banamathuba amaninzi okuba nemibono (iimpawu zengqondo), njengokubona nokuva izinto ezingekhoyo. | Ubonisa ulonwabo olugqithisileyo, amandla, kunye nomsebenzi. Ukucaphuka nako kunokwenzeka. |
| Isiqendu Esidandathekisayo | Endaweni yokuthetha ngoxinzelelo lwengqondo, bahlala bekhalaza ngeempawu zomzimba ezifana neentlungu zomzimba kunye nentloko ebuhlungu . | Ubonisa usizi olunzulu, ukuphelelwa lithemba, kunye nokungabi namdla ebomini. |
| Isantya sokuBhayisekile | Ikhawuleza kakhulu. Iziqendu ezininzi ze-mania kunye nokudakumba zinokwenzeka ngokutshintshana ngosuku olunye (i-Rapid Cycling). | Ihlala icotha. Kunokubakho isithuba seeveki, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka phakathi kweziganeko zokudakumba kunye nokudandatheka. |
Njengomzali, ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam?
Ukuba ngumzali womntwana onesifo sengqondo esibizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder akulula. Kodwa inkxaso yakho kunye nokuqonda kwakho kunokuba luncedo olukhulu kuhambo lomntwana wakho lokuchacha. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzenza.
1. Nika amayeza ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Oku kuyimfuneko . Kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu ukunika umntwana wakho amayeza anikwe ngugqirha (afana nezinto ezigcina iimvakalelo zakhe ziphilile, amayeza okuthintela ingqondo) ngokuchanekileyo nangexesha elifanelekileyo. Ungasebenzisa izikhumbuzo, iipilisi, njl. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuthatha amayeza esikolweni, thetha notitshala weklasi okanye umongikazi wesikolo ngaloo nto uze wenze amalungiselelo asemthethweni.
2. Qaphela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zamayeza.
Amayeza amaninzi e-bipolar disorder aqala ukuvavanywa kubantu abadala, ngoko ke abanye abantwana banokuba nemiphumo emibi ngakumbi. Qaphela ngakumbi ukunyuka kobunzima kunye notshintsho kwiswekile yegazi kunye namanqanaba e-cholesterol . Buza ugqirha wakho ngazo naziphi na iimpawu ekufuneka uzazi. Kusenokufuneka wenze uvavanyo lwegazi rhoqo.
Kubalulekile: Amanye amayeza okudakumba alumkisiwe ukuba anokunyusa iingcinga zokuzibulala ebantwaneni nakubantu abancinci abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-24 ubudala. Musa ukoyika oku. Kodwa qaphela oku kwaye uthethe nogqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubona naluphi na utshintsho kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo.
3. Thetha nootitshala bomntwana wakho
Umntwana onesifo sengqondo esibizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder unokufuna uncedo olukhethekileyo esikolweni. Umntwana wakho unokufuna ixesha elongezelelweyo lokuphumla ngamaxesha anzima, okanye umsebenzi wesikolo omncinci. Thetha nootitshala okanye inqununu yesikolo ukuze nize nesicwangciso sokuxhasa umntwana wakho. Kwezinye iimeko ezinzima, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukususwa esikolweni ixesha elithile de iimpawu zihlale zizinzile.
4. Gcina ucwangciso oluhambelanayo
Ukuqhuba rhoqo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo kubantwana abanjalo. Nceda umntwana wakho ahlale ixesha elifanayo xa evuka kusasa, esitya ukutya, ejima, aze alale ebusuku. Oku kuya kunceda ukugcina imeko yomntwana izinzile. Kwakhona, nciphisa uxinzelelo ekhaya kangangoko unako.
5. Cinga ngoNyango loSapho
Ukuba nomntwana omnye kusapho olunesi simo kunokuchaphazela lonke usapho. Oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo kuwe nakwiqabane lakho. Abanye abantwana basenokungaqondi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kumntakwabo okanye umntakwabo. Okanye banokuba nomona kuba umntwana ogulayo efumana ingqalelo eninzi. Ingcebiso yosapho yindlela entle yokuba wonke umntu azibone iimvakalelo zakhe aze afumane amandla okujongana nale meko kunye.
6. Musa ukuzithatha lula izoyikiso zokuzibulala.
Siyazi ukuba le yinto ongafuni ukuyicinga. Kodwa ngelishwa, nabantwana abancinci banokuba nezi ngcinga. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthi ufuna ukufa okanye wenza izinto eziyingozi ezinokubeka ubomi bakhe esichengeni, ungaze uyityeshele loo nto . Susa naziphi na izixhobo ezibukhali kunye neziyobisi eziyingozi endlwini ngoko nangoko. Funa uncedo lwezonyango ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, mse umntwana wakho kwiYunithi yoNyango oluNgxamisekileyo (ETU) yesibhedlele esikufutshane.
Le meko ibachaphazela njani abantu abaselula?
Xa kufikwa kulutsha, iimpawu kunye nonyango lwe-bipolar disorder zifana kakhulu nezo zabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, ukujongana nale nto nomntwana okule minyaka kuzisa imingeni eyahlukileyo.
Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, usenokuvakalelwa kukuba uzama ukunyanzelisa unyango. Ngoko ke, mbandakanye umntwana wakho kule ngxoxo . Hlala phantsi nogqirha okanye umcebisi womntwana wakho nithethe ngokukhululekileyo malunga neendlela zonyango . Musa ukudala ingxabano "yo-me" nomntwana wakho malunga nokumnika amayeza.
Njengabantu abadala, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana abancinci abanale meko baphephe ngokupheleleyo utywala neziyobisi . Ezi zinto zinokubangela iimpendulo ezingafunekiyo ngamayeza kwaye zibenze babe mandundu ukungahlaliseki kweemvakalelo. Kubaluleke kakhulu nokulala nokuvuka ngamaxesha aqhelekileyo, nokufunda iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Isifo se-bipolar sinokwenzeka ebantwaneni, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukusifumanisa. Ukuba uneengxaki malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba ucela ingcebiso kwingcali yezonyango efanelekileyo.
- Iimpawu kubantwana abancinci (imijikelo ekhawulezayo, ukucaphuka) zinokwahluka kwezo zabantu abadala.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika umntwana amayeza anikwe ngugqirha ngexesha, ugcine ishedyuli ehambelanayo, kwaye uthethe ngokukhululekileyo nomntwana.
- Le yimeko echaphazela lonke usapho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukufuna iingcebiso kusapho lonke kunokubonelela ngesiqabu.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha ngokuzenzakalisa okanye ubonakalisa ezo ndlela zokuziphatha, ungaze uyityeshele loo nto. Funa uncedo lwezonyango ngoko nangoko.
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