Sonke sicinga ngembonakalo yethu, akunjalo? Ngamanye amaxesha xa sizijonga esipilini, sicinga, "Owu, ukuba impumlo yam ibicacile kancinci...", "Hayi indlela ebekuya kuba mnandi ngayo ukuba bendingenazo ezo zikrweqe ebusweni bam?" Okanye "Ukuba bendinokususa loo mafutha esisu angaphezulu...". Ngamaxesha anje abantu abaninzi baqala ukucinga ngotyando lobuhle , okanye njengoko sonke sisazi, ' Utyando Lobuhle '. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngazo zonke ezi zinto, ngendlela elula kakhulu.
Ngamafutshane, yintoni utyando lobuhle?
Utyando lobuhle yinkqubo yezonyango eyenziwa ukuphucula, ukutshintsha, okanye ukubumba ngokutsha inkangeleko yelungu lomzimba wakho. Into ebalulekileyo apha kukuba oku akwenziwa njengonyango lwesifo , kodwa ngenjongo yokuphucula inkangeleko (ubuhle) . Njengokuhlaziya indlu endala nokuyipeyinta ngombala omhle, le yinto oyenzayo ukuhombisa okanye ukutshintsha ilungu lomzimba wakho olithandayo.
Abantu abaninzi baphendukela koku ukuze bakhululeke ekuziqondeni kwabo ngenkangeleko yabo kwaye bonyuse ukuzithemba kwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba, njengalo naluphi na utyando, kukho iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kunye neengxaki ezinokubakho . Ukongeza, olu hlobo lotyando aluqhelekanga ukugutyungelwa yi-inshurensi yezempilo.
Ziziphi iintlobo eziphambili zolu tyando?
Iinkqubo zobuhle zinokwahlulwahlulwa zibe ziindidi ezimbini eziphambili: ezo zifuna utyando kunye nezo zingadingi utyando.
| Iinkqubo Ezingezizo Zotyando | Iinkqubo zotyando |
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| Ezi azisike ulusu. Zisebenzisa izinto ezifana neekhemikhali, iinaliti, okanye iilaser. Ixesha lokuphiliswa lifutshane. | Olu tyando lwenziwa ngokusika ulusu, okuthabatha ixesha elide ukuphola. |
Imizekelo:
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Kuphantsi kweziphi iimeko apho umntu acinga ngale nto?
Utyando lobuhle aluyonyango lwesifo. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, umntu unokulingeka ukuba acinge ngalo. Umzekelo:
- Ukungoneliseki kukuvela kwenxalenye ethile yomzimba.
- Lungisa ingxaki yophuhliso oluzalwa nayo, efana nokungalingani kwamabele.
- Nyanga naziphi na iingxaki ezinokuba zivele emva kwengozi okanye ukugula.
- Khawucinge ukuba usuke ekubeni mkhulu kakhulu waya ekubeni mncinci kakhulu. Mhlawumbi unolusu olukhululekileyo. Lahla olo lusu lukhululekileyo .
- Susa amafutha kwiindawo emzimbeni wakho ongenakukwazi ukuzisusa ngokuzilolonga okanye ngokutya ukutya okunempilo.
Uzilungiselela njani ngaphambi kotyando?
Ukuba ucinga ngalo naluphi na utyando lobuhle, kufuneka uqale udibane uze uxoxe ngalo nogqirha oyingcali, ugqirha wobuhle.
Ugqirha wakho apho:
- Uyaphulaphula ngononophelo ukuze aqonde ukuba zeziphi iinjongo zakho.
- Baza kukubuza ngembali yakho yezonyango kunye nazo naziphi na ezinye izifo onokuba nazo.
- Ichaza ukuba yeyiphi indlela efanele injongo yakho.
- Uza kwaziswa ngento omawuyilindele kolu tyando kunye neziphumo ezinokwenzeka .
- Iza kuchaza nemiphumo emibi enokubakho. Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokubuza nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba nayo.
Ukongeza, kukho izinto ezithile onokufuna ukuzenza ngaphambi kotyando:
- Ukuba uyatshaya, yeka .
- Ukwenza izinto ezifana novavanyo oluthile lwegazi .
- Ukuthatha amayeza athile achazwe ngugqirha.
- Ukuyeka okwethutyana amanye amayeza owasebenzisayo ngoku. ( Kubalulekile: Musa ukuyeka okanye ukutshintsha nawaphi na amayeza owasebenzisayo ngaphandle kwengcebiso kagqirha wakho.)
- Ukuzila ukutya ukususela ngobusuku bangaphambi kotyando.
- Lungiselela ukuba umntu akuse ekhaya emva kotyando.
Zithini iingenelo kunye neengozi?
Njengayo nayiphi na inkqubo yezonyango, le ineenzuzo kunye neengozi.
Khumbula, olu tyando aluyi kukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa lunokukunceda uzive uzithembile ngakumbi. Ukuba nolindelo olusengqiqweni yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana iziphumo ezanelisayo.
Ngoku makhe sijonge iingozi.
| Iingozi zeenkqubo zotyando | Iingozi zeendlela ezingezizo ezotyando |
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| Ezi ngxaki azixhaphakanga, kodwa zinokwenzeka.
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Ungayinciphisa njani ingozi?
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunciphisa umngcipheko weengxaki kukulandela imiyalelo kagqirha wakho ngononophelo . Landela imiyalelo ngononophelo ngaphambi nasemva kotyando. Ukugcina indlela yokuphila esempilweni, ukutya ukutya okunesondlo, kunye nokuphepha ukutshaya kuya kukunceda uphile ngokukhawuleza.
Ndifanele ndimbone nini ugqirha?
Emva kotyando, yazisa ugqirha wakho ngoko nangoko, ingakumbi ukuba ubona iimpawu zosulelo.
Iimpawu zosulelo:
- Ukopha, ulwelo olufana nobovu , okanye ukutshintsha kombala wolusu oluvela kwinxeba lotyando.
- Ifiva .
- Intlungu ebuhlungu engenakulawuleka nokuba usebenzisa amayeza okudambisa iintlungu.
- Ukudumba okukhulu .
Ukuba ufumana iimpawu ezinzulu, ezinje ngobunzima bokuphefumla ngequbuliso, yiya kwiSebe lezeMpilo eziNgxamisekileyo (ETU) lesibhedlele esikufutshane ngoko nangoko.
Umahluko phakathi kotyando lobuhle kunye notyando lokwakha ngokutsha
Abantu abaninzi bayabhidanisa ezi zinto zimbini.
- Utyando Lobuhle: Olu lwenziwa kuphela ukuphucula inkangeleko . Olu lukhetho.
- Utyando Lokwakha Umzimba: Olu lwenziwa ukulungisa umonakalo obangelwe yingozi, ukugula (umz., ukwakhiwa kwakhona emva kokuba ibele lisusiwe ngenxa yomhlaza), okanye ukuzalwa, okanye ukuphucula ukusebenza kwelungu lomzimba.
Unyaka ngamnye, izigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela zenza utyando lobuhle ukuze ziphucule inkangeleko yazo. Nangona oku kunokuphucula inkangeleko yakho, kubalulekile ukuba nolindelo olusengqiqweni. Ukuba ucinga ngako, thetha nogqirha ofanelekileyo, uqonde iingenelo kunye neengozi, kwaye wenze isigqibo esinolwazi esifanelekileyo kuwe.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Utyando lokulungisa ubuso lusigqibo sobuqu osenzayo ukuphucula inkangeleko yakho.
- Soloko ucela ingcebiso kugqirha ofanelekileyo. Xoxa ngeenjongo zakho kunye nolindelo lwakho ngokukhululekileyo.
- Ngaphambi kokuba usebenzise nayiphi na indlela, qaphela kakuhle iingenelo kunye neengozi zayo.
- Landela imiyalelo kagqirha ngononophelo (ngaphambi nasemva kotyando) ukuze unciphise iingxaki.
- Kubalulekile ukuba nolindelo olusengqiqweni ukuze ufumane isiphumo esanelisayo.
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