Kunzima ukufumana umntu ongenalo uxinzelelo ebomini bakhe, oko kukuthi, uxinzelelo lwengqondo , akunjalo? Ngamanye amaxesha, xa silala kancinci, sithetha nabahlobo kwaye siphumle, okanye senza umthambo omncinci, olu xinzelelo luyehla kancinci. Sidla ngokulawula uxinzelelo oluncinci oluza nobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kodwa, kwenzeka ntoni ukuba awukwazi ukulawula le meko? Kancinci kancinci, olu xinzelelo lunokuqokelelana lube nzima kakhulu ukuba ungaluthwala. Silubiza ngokuba luxinzelelo olungapheliyo, okanye (Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo) . Le yimeko enobungozi enokubangela umonakalo omkhulu emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakho.
Kuza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba olu xinzelelo luyaqhubeka?
Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo aluyonto yokudlala. Lunokuchaphazela uninzi lweenkqubo zomzimba wakho. Cinga ngokungonwabi umzimba wakho okuzivayo xa uhlala uthwele umthwalo engqondweni yakho. Ngokuchanekileyo, izinto ezinje zinokwenzeka.
| Impembelelo yomzimba nengqondo | Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka |
|---|---|
| Inkqubo yokugaya ukutya | Iingxaki ezifana nokudumba kwesisu, i-gastritis, kunye nokudumba. |
| Inkqubo yokuzala | Iingxaki ezifana nokungaqheleki kwemijikelo yokuya exesheni kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwezesondo kubafazi. |
| Izihlunu | Iintlungu zomzimba ezingapheliyo, intamo kunye nomqolo oqinileyo. |
| Amandla kunye nokudinwa | Ukudinwa kusasa, nokuba sele ulele kakuhle, nokudinwa imini yonke. |
| Intliziyo kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi | Intlungu yesifuba, uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu. |
| Imeko yengqondo | Ukuxhalaba rhoqo, ukucaphuka, ukudakumba. |
Iingxaki ezinje ngezi zinokukwenza uzikhuphe eluntwini kwaye zinciphise unxibelelwano lwakho nabantu. Abanye abantu bajika basebenzise iziyobisi , utywala, okanye ukutya kakhulu ukuze banciphise uxinzelelo. Ezi zinto zenza iingxaki zibe zimbi ngakumbi.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uxinzelelo ebomini bakho lunzima kangaka, lixesha lokwenza utshintsho olukhulu. Ewe, ukwenza utshintsho kuyaxhalabisa. Kodwa kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho.
Kulungile, makhe sijonge iindlela ezi-5 eziphambili zokuqalisa ubomi bakho nokunciphisa olu xinzelelo.
1. Fumana umsebenzi omtsha
Esi sisigqibo esikhulu. Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba akulula njengoko kuvakala. Kodwa, kubantu abaninzi, umsebenzi ngowona unobangela uphambili woxinzelelo lwabo. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho ukukhathaza ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba, kwaye kubonakala ngathi awukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki kuloo msebenzi, eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukufumana umsebenzi omtsha .
Ewe, kufuneka uzame ukunciphisa iingxaki onazo emsebenzini wakho wangoku kangangoko unako. Kodwa ukuba oko akusebenzi, ukuyeka umsebenzi yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba uhambo lwakho lokuya emsebenzini luthatha ixesha elide, unomphathi onganyamezelekiyo, usebenza nzima kakhulu, okanye awufumani mvuzo waneleyo. Kusenokuvakala ngathi ngumthwalo okwethutyana ude ufumane umsebenzi omtsha. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, kuya kuba kuhle oko ukuze ube noxolo lwengqondo.
2. Qalisa inkqubo entsha yokuzilolonga
Xa uxinezelekile, ukongeza omnye umsebenzi ebomini bakho kunokubonakala kunzima. Kodwa akukho nto ingcono kunokuzivocavoca umzimba ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.
Ngamafutshane, xa uzilolonga, ingqondo yakho ikhupha iikhemikhali ezibizwa ngokuba zii-endorphins . Sikwabiza ezi ngokuthi "ii-hormones zovuyo." Ezi ziphucula imo yakho. Kwakhona, xa uzilolonga, ugxila kwiintshukumo zomzimba wakho, kungekhona kwiingxaki ezisengqondweni yakho. Oku kukunika uluvo oluhle lokuphila kakuhle.
Ukuba awuyithandi imithambo enzima, into ephumzayo efana neyoga okanye ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza imizuzu engama-30 ngosuku kulungile. Into ebalulekileyo kukwenza umkhwa wemihla ngemihla, kungabi lusuku olunye okanye ezimbini . Ukuba uzimisele ngokwenene ukugcina umzimba wakho usempilweni, ingqondo yakho iya kulandela.
3. Lala kakuhle.
Umntu omdala udinga phakathi kweeyure ezisi-7 ukuya kwezisi-9 zokulala ngosuku. Ukuba unestresi, usenokuba ulala kancinci kakhulu kunoko. Kwaye ubuthongo obufumanayo abunamgangatho ulungileyo. Kufana nomjikelo onzima. Xa ungalali ngokwaneleyo, uxinzelelo lwakho luyanda. Xa unestresi luyanda, awukwazi ukulala.
Ngoko ke, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka wenze isigqibo esiqinileyo sokulala kwangethuba kwaye ulale kamnandi ebusuku. Izinto ezifana nokuzilolonga ngeyoga osandul’ ukuqala nazo zinokukunceda ulale kakhulu. Ukuyeka ukujonga ifowuni okanye iTV yakho ngaphambi kokuba ulale uze wenze umkhwa wokufunda incwadi endaweni yoko kuya kukunceda uzole ingqondo yakho kwaye ulale kamnandi ebusuku .
4. Susa abantu abanobuthi ebomini bakho abakukhathazayo.
Abantu esisebenzisana nabo imihla ngemihla banempembelelo enkulu kwimiba yethu yeemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ukuba ukuthetha okanye ukusebenzisana nomntu kusoloko kubangela iingxaki, okanye ukuba kuhlala kukufaka uxinzelelo engqondweni yakho, kufuneka ucinge ngendlela yokuphelisa olo lwalamano ebomini bakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha oku kungenziwa nje njengokuphepha umntu osebenza naye ocaphukisayo eofisini okanye ukungaphenduli iminxeba evela kummelwane ocela ulwazi olungeyomfuneko. Kodwa ukuba lo mntu unobungozi ngumhlobo wakudala okanye ilungu losapho, kuya kufuneka ujongane ngqo. Kusenokufuneka uphelise ubudlelwane obunjalo ngokupheleleyo.
Esi sisigqibo esinzima nesinzima kakhulu, kodwa sibalulekile kwimpilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba yexesha elide.
5. Fumana uncedo lweengcali
Uninzi lwethu lucinga ukuba uxinzelelo yinto ekufuneka sijongane nayo sodwa. Nangona kunjalo, xa olu xinzelelo luqala ukuchaphazela impilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba, akukho ntloni okanye umvandedwa xa ufuna uncedo lweengcali.
Umcebisi akangomhlobo nje onokuthetha naye. Banokukunceda wenze utshintsho olukhulu ebomini olukhankanyiweyo kweli nqaku. Bangakufundisa indlela yokutshintsha imisebenzi, indlela yokujongana nabantu abanobungozi, bakukhuthaze ukuba uqale ukuzilolonga, kwaye bakufundise nendlela yokucamngca ukuze uphumle ingqondo yakho. Ukuba ulwa noxinzelelo, thetha nabo ngalo mba.Thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho. Angakuthumela kuncedo olufanelekileyo lobuchwephesha.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo yimeko enzima enokonakalisa umzimba nengqondo yakho.
- Ukwenza utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho kunokuba nzima ekuqaleni, kodwa kubalulekile ukuze uhlale usempilweni ixesha elide.
- Umsebenzi wakho, ukuzilolonga, ukulala, abantu onxulumana nabo, kunye nokufuna uncedo lweengcali xa kufuneka zezona zinto zi-5 zibalulekileyo ekulawuleni uxinzelelo lwakho.
- Ukuba uxinezelekile kakhulu, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngalo mba.











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