Ngaba wakha wacinga ukuba, "Ngaba le nto ingandifanela?" ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna ukunxiba eyona ngubo intle kakhulu kwikhabhathi yakho? Mhlawumbi unesithukuthezi, uzive ungafaneleki, malunga nobukhulu okanye ukuma kwamabele akho. Oku kuqhelekile kubafazi abaninzi. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba utyando lokukhulisa amabele ( ii-breast implants ) luyisisombululo. Ngoko ke, yintoni ngokwenene? Luyichaphazela njani ubomi bakho? Masithethe ngale nto ngokukhululekileyo, ngokungathi sithetha nomhlobo.
Umahluko phakathi kolindelo kunye nenyaniso
Utyando lokwandisa amabele, okanye olwaziwa ngokwezonyango ngokuba yi-"Breast Augmentation," lolunye lotyando lobuhle oludumileyo olwenziwayo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Abafazi abaninzi bakhetha ukwenza le nkqubo ukuze baphucule ukuzithemba kwabo kunye nomfanekiso womzimba wabo . Ezinye izifundo zide zabonisa ukuba ukuzithemba kwabasetyhini kunye nokwaneliseka ngokwesondo kuyakhula emva kolu tyando.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho elinye icala lemali. Oku akuyonto nje yokubonakala umhle. Olu lutyando olukhulu. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuthetha nogqirha ngaphambi kokuba wenze olu tyando kwaye ufumane ukuqonda okuhle ngempilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba. Kuba, ezinye izifundo zifumanise ukuba abafazi abaneengxaki zengqondo okanye abaxhomekeke kutywala kwanangaphambi kotyando basenokuba semngciphekweni wokuzibulala kwiminyaka emva kotyando. Ngoko ke, esi sisigqibo ekufuneka siqwalaselwe ngononophelo olukhulu.
'Umfanekiso womzimba' kunye notyando lwebele
Amanye amabhinqa aselula awakhuli kwaphela amabele . Ngokwezonyango, le meko ibizwa ngokuba yi-micromastia . Ngamafutshane, amabele abo athambile. Oku kunokuba nefuthe elikhulu kubo ngokwengqondo. Basenokuziva ngathi ababonakali ngathi ngumfazi.
Enye ingxaki abanayo abanye abafazi abancinci ngamabele angalinganiyo . Oku kuthetha ukuba ubukhulu okanye imilo yamabele amabini yahlukile. Elinye lisenokuba likhulu okanye lincinci kunelinye. Oku kwenza abafazi abaninzi bazive beneentloni kuba kubenza babonakale bebakhulu nangona benxibe impahla.
Aba bafazi badla ngokucinga ukuba banokukhubazeka komzimba. Yingxaki yokuzihlonipha ngaphezu kokuba bazive ngathi inxalenye yomzimba wabo ayiqhelekanga. Bafuna ukuyenza loo nxalenye ibe yeqhelekileyo.
Emva kolu tyando, ukuzithemba kwabo kuyakhula xa becinga, "Ngoku ndiyile ndlela endifuna ukuba yiyo." Ukukwazi ukuya evenkileni yempahla nokukhetha impahla ngaphandle koloyiko nako kuyinto enkulu kubo.
Utshintsho emva kokuba nabantwana kunye 'noMammy Makeover'
Olunye udidi loomama abamizimba yabo itshintshile emva kokuba nabantwana. Khawuthelekelele indlela abavakalelwa ngayo xa amabele awayemhle ngaphambi kokuba nabantwana ewa aze aphulukane nemizimba yawo emva kokuncancisa. Kwabanye oomama, nokuba umzimba wabo wonke ubuyela kwimilo yawo yokuqala, amabele abo akabuyeli. Ngoko ke, kukho abo bakhetha olu tyando benemvakalelo yokuba "Ndifuna umzimba wam omdala ubuye."
Aba bantu banesimo sengqondo esahlukileyo kuneso samantombazana aselula akhankanyiweyo ngaphambili. Abanazo iingxaki zomfanekiso womzimba. Banelisekile yimizimba yabo. Bafuna nje ukubuyela kwinkangeleko yabo eqhelekileyo nesempilweni ababenayo ngaphambi kokuba babe nabantwana.
Iintlobo zeZityalo
Iindidi ezimbini eziphambili zihlala zisetyenziswa:
- Izinto ezifakwa kwi-saline : Ezi zizaliswe ngamanzi anetyuwa acocekileyo.
- Ii-Silicone Implants: Ezi zizaliswe yi-silicone gel. Abantu abaninzi bathi zivakala kwaye zifana kakhulu nebele lendalo.
Ugqirha wakho uza kukunceda ukhethe uhlobo olufanelana kakuhle nohlobo lomzimba wakho, ubungakanani besifuba sakho, kunye nenkangeleko oyifunayo.
Izinto ekufuneka uzazi ngaphambi kotyando
Le yeyona nxalenye ibalulekileyo. Ukuba ucinga ngolu tyando , kufuneka uziqonde kakuhle ezi zinto. Kungenjalo, unokudana kamva.
| Oko kufuneka ukwazi | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Iindleko zezeMali | Ekubeni olu lutyando lobuhle , alusoloko lugutyungelwa yi-inshurensi yezempilo . Kuya kufuneka uhlawule iindleko ezipheleleyo zotyando. |
| Utyando Lokuhlaziya | Izifakelo azihlali ngonaphakade. Zinokuqhekeka okanye ziphele ngokuhamba kwexesha.Kwakhona, ukuba kuvela iingxaki emva kotyando, kunokufuneka wenze utyando olongezelelweyo ukuze zilungiswe. Akukho nanye kwezi zinto egutyungelwe yi-inshorensi. |
| Umsebenzi wobomi | I-implant idla ngokufuna ukutshintshwa kwisithuba seminyaka eli-10-15, nto leyo ethetha ukuba kufuneka ulindele ukuba wenze utyando olunye ubuncinane ebomini bakho. |
| Utshintsho ngokuhamba kwexesha | Umzimba wakho uyaguga, ubunzima bakho buyatshintsha, unabantwana. Konke oku, amabele akho endalo ayatshintsha. Kodwa izinto ezifakelweyo azitshintshi. Ngoko ke, into eyayibukeka intle xa uneminyaka engama-22 isenokungabonakali ifana xa uneminyaka engama-42 . |
Into enye egxininiswa ngoogqirha kukuba, "Le yiprojekthi yexesha elide... uhambo lobomi bonke." Ngoko ke musa ukungxama ukwenza esi sigqibo.
Ngaba esi sigqibo sikulungele ngokwenene?
Ugqirha olungileyo uya kuqinisekisa ukuba uzenzela olu tyando. Ukuba wenza olu tyando ngezizathu ezinje "ngenxa yesithandwa sam esitsha" okanye "ukusindisa umtshato wam," ayisosigqibo sifanelekileyo. Kwakhona, akufanelekanga ukwenza izigqibo ezinjalo ngexesha lotshintsho olukhulu ebomini, njengoqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukufa kwelungu losapho.
Olu tyando aluyi kutshintsha ubomi bakho, aluyi kukunika umsebenzi omtsha, kwaye aluyi kukwenza ube nomtsalane ngakumbi kumadoda . Kodwa lungakwenza uzive ungcono ngawe.
Iingxaki zengqondo kunye nolindelo olungeyonyani
Abanye abafazi bajonga olu tyando "njengesincedisi" seengxaki zabo zengqondo ezinzulu. Balindele ukuba lutshintshe kungekuphela nje inkangeleko yabo, kodwa nobomi babo bonke. Nangona aba bantu banokuziva bebhetele okwethutyana emva kotyando, aluzisombululi iingxaki ezinzulu ezintliziyweni zabo.
Mhlawumbi unesifo 'sokungakwazi ukujongana nomzimba (BDD)'Usenokuba ukhe weva nge-BDD. Esi sisifo sengqondo. Kwimeko enjalo, uhlala ucinga ngeziphene zakho zomzimba kwaye uzixhalabise ngazo. Ingcali yezonyango iya kuzama ukuqonda imeko yakho yengqondo ngokukuhlalisa phambi kwesibuko ikubuze, "Ubona ntoni?" Ukuba uneempawu zesifo esifana ne-BDD, into yokuqala oyifunayo kuncedo lwengcali yezengqondo.
Kwakhona, ugqirha olungileyo akasoze avume izicelo zakho ezingenakwenzeka. Umzekelo, ukuba ucela umntu onobude obuyi-5'1" ukuba afake 'indebe ye-D', ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo kwaye ayifanelekanga emzimbeni wakhe. Oogqirha abalungileyo bayawala izigulane ezenza izicelo ezinjalo kuba oko kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki yengqondo.
Ukuba unesifo esifana nokudakumba, thetha nogqirha wakho ngokunyaniseka ngaso. Nokuba uzive ungcono okwethutyana emva kotyando, ezo meko zengqondo zinokuphinda zivele kamva.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Utyando lokwandisa amabele sisigqibo omele usenzele wena nolonwabo lwakho. Musa ukukwenza oko ukuze ukholise omnye umntu okanye ugcine ubudlelwane.
- Olu lutyando olukhulu, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha ugqirha onamava nofanelekileyo wokwenza iplastiki .
- Fumana ukuqonda okucacileyo ngeendleko zotyando, amathuba okuphinda kwenziwe utyando kwixesha elizayo, kunye nexesha elide lokufakelwa .
- Ukuba uneengxaki zempilo yengqondo (umz. ukudakumba, i-BDD), thetha nogqirha wakho ngazo ngokunyaniseka ngaphambi kotyando.
- Olu tyando lunokukwenza uzive uzithembile ngakumbi ngenkangeleko yakho, kodwa qonda inyani yokuba aluyi kuzisombulula ezinye iingxaki ebomini bakho.
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