Ngaba uyambalisela amabali umntwana wakho omncinci? Iingenelo ezimangalisayo zokubalisa amabali ebantwaneni!

Ngaba kukho amaxesha apho umntwana wakho athi, "Mama, ndikruqukile!" emva kokudlala ngazo zonke iincwadi , amathoyizi, iingoma, ukutya, kunye nemidlalo yevidiyo? Wenza ntoni ke ngoko? Ngexesha elinjalo, kuthekani ngokubuza, "Ndingakubalisela ibali?"? Isenokuba ngaphezu kokuba ucinga. Namhlanje, masithethe ngendlela elixabiseke ngayo eli bali kunye neengenelo elizisela umntwana.

Kutheni ukubalisa amabali kubaluleke kangaka?

Ngamafutshane, ukuxelela umntwana ibali akuyondlela nje yokuchitha ixesha. Yinto enceda ingqondo yomntwana ikhule ngendlela emangalisayo. Khawuthelekelele, xa ubalisa ibali, umntwana uliphulaphule, ecinga ngabalinganiswa abakulo, kwaye elandela uthotho lweziganeko engqondweni yakhe. Konke oku kudala unxibelelwano olutsha lwemithambo-luvo phakathi kweeseli ezikwingqondo yakhe. Kufana nokunkcenkceshela nokukhulisa isityalo esincinci.

• Uphuhliso lwezakhono zolwimi: Umntwana ufunda amagama amatsha, indlela yokwakha izivakalisi, kunye nencasa yebali. Isigama sakhe siyakhula. Oku luncedo olukhulu ekuchazeni, ekubhaleni, nasekufundeni kakuhle kwixesha elizayo.
• Ukucinga nokucinga nobuchule kuyakhula: Ngelixa ephulaphule amabali, umntwana ulahleka kwihlabathi lakhe. Ucinga ngabalinganiswa neziganeko engqondweni yakhe. Oku kuyandisa indlela yakhe yokucinga kwaye kugxile ingqondo yakhe ekudaleni izinto ezintsha.
• Ubudlelwane nabazali buyomelela: Xa ubamba umntwana wakho uze umxelele ibali ngelizwi lakho, umntwana uziva ekhuselekile kwaye enothando ngendlela engachazekiyo. Oku kuyaluqinisa kakhulu ulwalamano phakathi kwenu nobabini.
• Uncedo Lokuqonda Iimvakalelo: Abalinganiswa kumabali baziva bonwabile, belusizi, kwaye benomsindo. Ngokumamela ezi, abantwana banokufunda ukuqonda nokuphendula kwiimvakalelo zabo nezabanye.

Nawe unamabali amaninzi onokuwabalisa!

Usenokuba ucinga, "Ndibalisa amabali anjani?" Mhlawumbi awuqondi, sele unamabali amaninzi. Akufuneki uwaqambe. Amabali asebuntwaneni bakho, amabali avela kwiincwadi ozifundileyo, yindawo elungileyo yokuqala. Ngaphezu koko, abantwana bayakuthanda ukuva amabali ngabo kunye namava abo. Umzekelo, ungabalisa ibali ngohambo wena nomntwana wakho eniluthathe ukuya e-zoo, okanye uhambo oluya endlwini yootatomkhulu noomakhulu babo.

Cinga ngebali elidluliselwe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana , malunga nendlela izinyo lakho lokuqala elaphuma ngayo usengumntwana, malunga notitshala owawumthanda esikolweni, okanye ngesiporho esasihlala kwigumbi eliphezulu likamakhulu wakho. Akukho nto imnandi kubantwana abancinci kunebali ngento ehlekisayo eyenziwa ngabazali babo xa babesengabantwana. Abantwana bayakuthanda ukuva ngexesha elidlulileyo elinxulumene nabo.

Luhlobo luni lwamabali onokulubalisela umntwana omncinci?

Abantwana abaneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala, okanye abangaphantsi koko, bayakuthanda ukuva amabali ngawe nosapho lwakho. Ukucinga ngendlela owawuyiyo xa wawusemncinci yindlela entle yokuvuselela ingqondo yabo.

Ungabalisa amabali ngabalinganiswa abakwiincwadi abazithandayo . Khawuthelekelele uthatha " Pee -Tee the Chicken" ujikeleza ifama, okanye uthatha "Fireman Bob" uhambo olungalindelekanga ujikeleza idolophu. Akufuneki ucinge kakhulu ngebali apha. Okubalulekileyo kubantwana abancinci lithuba lokuzibandakanya kwisandi senkukhu esithi 'cheep-cheep' kwaye ulinganise isandi se-siren yelori yomlilo. Loo mava axabisekile kubo.

Xa ubalisela abantwana abancinci amabali, babandakanye ebalini. Thetha izinto ezifana nezandi zezilwanyana nezandi zezithuthi kunye. Oko kuya kubenza babe nomdla ngakumbi.

Ubaxelela njani amabali abantwana abadala?

Abantwana abakwiminyaka yokufunda isikolo kunye nabantwana abadala bayawathanda amabali amnandi namangalisayo. Ungathatha ibali abalaziyo ulibalise ngendlela entsha, utshintshe indawo, abalinganiswa, okanye ibali. Khawuthelekelele ikati ehlekisayo enxibe umnqwazi omkhulu onemigca ehamba ngerokethi ukuya enyangeni, okanye ifike kwilali yakho ibangele ingxaki.

Enye ingcamango entle kukwenza umntwana wakho abe ngumlinganiswa oyintloko uze udale ibali le-adventure elimnomdla kuye. Umzekelo, ukubuyela emva kwixesha lokubona iidayinaso, okanye ukusebenza njengomqhubi wesitimela. Amabali anje ngala anzima kwindlela abacinga ngayo kwaye andisa umdla wabo.

Yintoni enye onokuyenza ngaphaya kwebali?

Kukho iindlela zokwenza ukubalisa amabali kube nomdla ngakumbi kwaye kwandiswe amava.

• Masenze incwadi yakho? Nonke, wena nomntwana wakho niza kwenza incwadi esekelwe kwibali enilibalisileyo. Sika uze uncamathisele imifanekiso yabantu neendawo kwiimagazini ezindala kunye namaphephandaba ahambelana nebali.
• Masibhale ibali, okanye sivumele umntwana alibalise: Ungawabhala amagama, okanye sivumele umntwana alibalise kwakhona ibali ngamazwi akhe.
• Masizobe imifanekiso: Ukuba kunzima ukufumana imifanekiso, zoba imifanekiso ehambelana nebali. Vumela umntwana wakho ayizobe naye. Baza kuziva bevuya kakhulu xa ingcinga yabo iphila ephepheni.
• Masilingise ibali sisebenzisa oonopopi kunye neempahla: Lingisa ibali eliqhelekileyo sisebenzisa oonopopi, okanye sinxibe iimpahla ezahlukeneyo. Yenza oku kube mnandi kusapho lonke. Amathuba angenamkhawulo!

Nika umntwana wakho ithuba lokubalisa ibali naye!

Emva kokuba ubalise amabali umntwana wakho ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye umnike amava, mkhuthaze ukuba aziqambele aze abalise amabali akhe. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuba kunika umntwana ithuba lokusebenzisa amandla akhe okucinga, ukuphuhlisa izimvo, kunye nokudala ibali. Oku kunceda izakhono zakhe zonxibelelwano (Izakhono zoNxibelelwano , Izakhono zokuLungiselela, kunye nobuchule bokuyila ziyaqiniswa. Ibali lomntwana lisenokungaphelelanga ekuqaleni, phakathi, okanye ekupheleni, kodwa kulungile oko. Okubalulekileyo kukuba azame.

Xa umntwana wakho ebalisa ibali, mkhuthaze. Mbuze izinto ezinje, "Owu, kuhle kakhulu oko," "Kwenzeke ntoni emva koko?" Oku kuya kumnceda ukuba akhe ukuzithemba.

Oku kuya kunika umntwana izinto eziya kuhlala ubomi bakhe bonke.

Xa ubalisela umntwana ibali, ubabonisa indlela yokudibanisa amagama ukuze enze intsingiselo. Wabelana ngento entsha ngawe, into enokuthi yenze umntwana aphulaphule ngomdla omkhulu, into eya kumenza abe nomdla. Inokuba yindawo entle yokuqala imibuzo neengxoxo.

Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukhulisa uthando nothando lolwimi namabali kumntwana wakho. Oko kuya kuba luncedo kuye ubomi bakhe bonke. Ngoko ke, phefumla nzulu uze uqale: "Kwakha kwenzeka into ethile kwilizwe..."

Okokugqibela, izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzikhumbule (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Kulungile, ngoko ke ngokwento esithethe ngayo, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukubalisa amabali kubaluleke kangakanani.

• Ukubalisa amabali akuyonto nje yokuzilibazisa, kunegalelo elikhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo yomntwana, izakhono zolwimi, izakhono zokucinga, kunye nophuhliso lweemvakalelo.
• Ukubalisa amabali ngamava akho, iziganeko zobuntwana, kunye nomntwana wakho kuya kuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwenu.
• Balisa amabali afanele ubudala bomntwana wakho, mbandakanye ebalini, kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba naye abalise amabali.
• Uthando lolwimi kunye nomdla wokufunda umntwana akufumanayo koku zizinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe bonke.

Ngoko ke, qala ukubalisa umntwana wakho ubuncinane ibali elinye ngosuku ukususela namhlanje. Liza kuba sesona sipho sixabisekileyo onokusinika umntwana wakho!

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