Khawucinge nje, nawe unomnqweno omkhulu wokuya kuthenga nosana lwakho, uye kwitheko endlwini yesalamane, okanye ubuncinci epakini. Kodwa... xa umntwana wakho eya apho, uyoyika ukuba uza kucaphuka ngequbuliso, akhale, alale phantsi aze akhale, kwaye abanye baza kukujonga ngendlela engaqhelekanga, akunjalo? La mava awenzelwanga wena kuphela, kodwa aqhelekile nakubaninzi bethu njengabazali babantwana abane-autism. Ngenxa yoku, abazali abaninzi bade bayeke ukuphuma nomntwana wabo. Kodwa ngaba kufuneka kube njalo ngokwenene? Makhe sithethe ngale nto kancinci.
Yintoni i-autism nje?
Okokuqala, masiqonde oku. I-Autism ayisosifo. Yimeko yophuhliso lwe-neurological enxulumene nophuhliso lobuchopho. Ukuchaneka, ibizwa ngokuba yi -Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Igama elithi "spectrum" lithetha ukuba le meko inokwahluka kakhulu kumntu nomntu. Iimpawu zomntwana omnye zinokwahluka ngokupheleleyo komnye.
Aba bantwana baneengxaki ezininzi eziphambili:
- Ubunzima ekusekeni ubudlelwane nabantu : Abanye abakuthandi ukuthetha nabanye, ukudlala, kunye nokujonga emehlweni.
- Iingxaki zonxibelelwano: Abanye abantwana bathetha kancinci okanye abathethi kwaphela. Abanye basenokusebenzisa amagama kodwa bangayiqondi ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yawo.
- Ukuziphatha okuphindaphindayo: Ukwenza into enye ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Umzekelo, ukushukumisa izandla zakho ngendlela efanayo, ukudlala ngethoyi efanayo ngendlela efanayo.
Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, owona mceli mngeni mkhulu kubazali abaninzi yimiba enxulumene novakalelo lwaba bantwana. Masiqwalasele loo nto ngoku.
Zithini kanye kanye ezi ngxaki zeemvakalelo?
Ngamafutshane, ingqondo yethu ithatha ulwazi (izinto esizibonayo, izandi, ivumba) kwiimvakalelo zethu ezintlanu (amehlo, iindlebe, impumlo, ulwimi, ulusu), ilucubungule, kwaye iphendule kulo. Le nkqubo siyibiza ngokuba yiSensory Processing . Le nkqubo yahlukile kancinci kubantwana abane-autism. Ngenxa yoko, banokuqonda izinto ngamandla okanye bangaziqondi konke konke umntu oqhelekileyo angaziqondiyo.
Oku kunokwenzeka ngeendlela ezimbini eziphambili.
| Uhlobo lobuthathaka | Kalula nje... | Imizekelo esinokuyibona eSri Lanka |
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| Uvakalelo oluphezulu | Iimvakalelo ziva izinto ngaphezu kwesiqhelo , ngoko ke azikwazi ukuzibamba. |
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| Ukuba ne-hyposensitive | Baziva bengenamandla kangako kunesiqhelo , ngoko ke bafuna ezo mvakalelo. |
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Ngoku mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho exhalabile ngequbuliso kwindawo yokuthenga? Asikuko ukuba ungumntwana ombi. Xa izibane, iingxolo, izihlwele, kunye nevumba zonke zifika engqondweni yakhe ngaxeshanye, akakwazi ukumelana nazo. Ngelo xesha, uyakhala aze akhale ukuze anciphise uxinzelelo aluvayo.
Imeko yehlabathi kunye noko sinokukwenza eSri Lanka
Ngoku kukho ulwazi oluninzi malunga noku kumazwe afana neMelika neYurophu. Ezinye iindawo ezifana neebhayoskopu, iinkundla zemidlalo, kunye neemyuziyam zibekela bucala iintsuku okanye amaxesha akhethekileyo njenge "Anobuhlobo neemvakalelo." Ngaloo maxesha, bacima izibane, banciphise ingxolo, kwaye banciphise inani labantu. Bakwaqeqesha abasebenzi apho ngendlela yokujongana naba bantwana.
Kodwa kunzima kuthi eSri Lanka ukulindela izibonelelo ezikhethekileyo kangaka kuyo yonke indawo, akunjalo?Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba asinakwenza nto. Masizame ukudala imeko-bume efanele umntwana wethu. Nazi ezinye zezinto onokuzenza:
Ukucwangcisa linyathelo lokuqala.
Cwangcisa kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba uye naphi na.
- Khetha ixesha elingaxinananga kakhulu: Nokuba uya kwivenkile enkulu, khetha ixesha elingaxinananga kangako, njengasekuseni kakhulu phakathi kweveki. Kuphephe ukuya ngokuhlwa ngeempelaveki.
- Zisa izinto umntwana wakho azidingayo: Ukuba umntwana wakho uyayiva ingxolo, zise ii-headphones ezisusa ingxolo . Ukuba uyayiva ingxolo yangaphandle, zise iiglasi zelanga kunye nomnqwazi. Mvumele abambe ithoyizi ayithandayo okanye into aziva ekhuselekile kuyo, njengengubo.
- Yazisa umntwana wakho kwangaphambili: Xelela umntwana wakho kwangaphambili ngendawo oya kuyo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, mbonise iifoto zale ndawo kwifowuni yakho. Mchazele nje, "Siya apha kwaye siza kubuya kungekudala nezi zinto."
Qala kancinci.
Musa ukuya kwiihambo ezinkulu ngaxeshanye. Qala ngeehambo ezincinci, njengokuya evenkileni ekufutshane nekhaya lakho. Ukuba oko kuyasebenza, chitha ixesha elingakumbi ngaphandle kwixesha elizayo. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokuziqhelanisa nemeko-bume kancinci kancinci.
Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo.
Ukuba uceba ukuya kwindawo yokutyela, ungafowunela kwangaphambili uthethe nomphathi apho uze uchaze imeko. Buza uthi, "Umntwana wethu unomsindo kancinci, ungandinceda ubhukishe itafile kwindawo ezolileyo?" Uninzi lwexesha, baya kukuvuyela ukukunceda.
Ukuba umntwana unengxaki, mshiye.
Ukuba, nangona konke oku, ufumana kunzima kumntwana wakho ukuhlala apho, akukho nto imbi ngokuhamba. Musa ukukhathazeka ngento ecingwa ngabanye. Impilo-ntle yengqondo yomntwana wakho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuthetha nogqirha wakho, ugqirha wabantwana, okanye ingcali yezengqondo malunga nemeko yomntwana wakho. Baza kukwazi ukukuxelela ngqo ukuba zeziphi iingxaki ezithile zomntwana wakho kunye nendlela yokuzilawula.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- I-Autism ayilotyala lakho okanye lomntwana wakho. Yimeko ekufuneka iqondwe.
- Umntwana wakho akenzi izinto ngaphandle kuba ekhohlakele, kodwa ngenxa yokuba akanakuyinyamezela imeko-bume.
- Ngokucwangcisa ngononophelo kunye namaqhinga ambalwa, nawe ungahamba ngempumelelo nomntwana wakho.
- Awuwedwa kolu hambo. Funa ingcebiso yezonyango kunye nenkxaso yonyango ukuba kuyimfuneko.
- Njengomzali, impilo yakho yengqondo ibaluleke kakhulu. Zikhathalele nawe.
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