Njengabazali, sonke sifuna abantwana bethu babe krelekrele kwaye babe neetalente, akunjalo? Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyazibuza, 'Yintoni kanye kanye ubukrelekrele ? Ndingenza ntoni ukwandisa ubukrelekrele bomntwana wam?' Abanye abantwana banobuchule kwizibalo, abanye banobuchule ekudaleni izinto ezintsha nasekuqiqeni. Zonke ezi ziyinxalenye yobukrelekrele. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngobukrelekrele nendlela esinokubanceda ngayo abantwana bethu bafikelele kwisakhono sabo esipheleleyo.
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Ngaba ubukrelekrele yinto ezalwa nayo? Okanye yinto evela kwindalo esingqongileyo? (Ilifa vs Indalo esingqongileyo)
Umbuzo abantu abaninzi abawubuzayo ngulo, ‘Ngaba ubukrelekrele buvela kwizakhi zofuzo, okanye buvela kwindawo esikhulela kuyo?’ Enyanisweni, zombini ezi zinto zibaluleke ngokulinganayo kule nkalo.
Cinga nje, abanye abantwana banokuzalwa benamandla okufunda nokuqonda. Yinto evela kwizakhi zofuzo. Kodwa oko kukodwa akwanelanga. Ukuba loo mntwana ufumana imfundo elungileyo, indawo entle yokufunda, kunye nenkuthazo, loo ngqondo yendalo iya kuphuculwa ngakumbi. Siyibiza loo nto ngokuthi 'umjikelo wobuhle'. Oko kuthetha ukuba into elungileyo ikhokelela kwinto engcono nangakumbi.
Njengembewu entle kakhulu. Nokuba imbewu ilungile kangakanani na, ayizukukhula kakuhle ngaphandle komhlaba, amanzi kunye nokukhanya kwelanga okuhle, akunjalo? Yiyo loo nto kunjalo.
Ngokufanayo, elinye icala lale nto liyinyaniso. Nokuba umntwana uzelwe enengqondo elungileyo, ukuba ukhulela kwindawo apho kungekho thuba lokufunda kwaye kungekho khuthazo, loo ngqondo inokuba buthuntu ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ngoko khumbula, ingqondo yomntwana ayimiselwanga kuphela ziijini zakhe, kodwa ikwamiselwa nayindawo ayifumanayo.
Ngaba ungawathemba la manani e-IQ kuphela?
Sisoloko sisebenzisa iimvavanyo zobukrelekrele, okanye iimvavanyo ze-IQ, ukulinganisa ubukrelekrele. Kodwa oogqirha kunye neengcali bathi akufanele ulinganise umntwana ngokusekelwe kweli nani le-IQ kuphela. Enyanisweni, xa ucinga ngobukrelekrele bomntwana, kukho izinto ezininzi ezibaluleke ngaphezu kwamanqaku e-IQ.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yindlela umntwana aziphethe ngayo.
- Ngaba umntwana ubuza imibuzo ngenxa yokuthanda ukwazi?
- Ngaba unomdla wokufunda izinto ezintsha?
- Ngaba udlala iindima ezahlukeneyo ngelixa udlala? (Ukudlala iindima)
- Wonwabile?
Ezi mpawu zithetha ukuba ingqondo yomntwana ikhula kakuhle. Ngoko ke ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngamanqaku e-IQ. Azizo zodwa iindlela zokulinganisa izakhono zomntwana.
Ukutya Kwengqondo
Ingqondo yomntwana iqala ukukhula esibelekweni. Yiyo loo nto ukutya okunesondlo kukamama ngexesha lokukhulelwa kubaluleke kangaka. Emva koko, ukuncancisa sesona sipho sihle umntwana anokusinika ingqondo yakhe. Nje ukuba umntwana wakho aqale ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo, kubalulekile ukufaka imikhwa emihle yokutya kuye. Abantwana abancinci banokuba mathidala ukuzama ukutya okutsha, kodwa bazise kwiincasa ezahlukeneyo kancinci kancinci.
Le theyibhile ingezantsi ikunika umbono wesondlo umntwana asidingayo ngosuku.
| Uhlobo lokutya | Imfuneko yemihla ngemihla (ukutya okuncinci) |
|---|---|
| Iziqhamo nemifuno | Inyama yenkomo ezi-5-6 |
| Amazimba | Iingubo ezi-5 |
| Inyama, intlanzi, inkukhu | Inyama yenkomo ezi-2-3 |
| Ukutya kobisi okanye ubisi | Inyama yenkomo ezi-2-3 |
Khumbula, ezi azizo izixa ezikhulu ezinikwa abantu abadala, kodwa zincinci ezifanelekileyo kubantwana. Kwakhona, ukuba unika umntwana wakho isongezelelo seevithamini okanye iiminerali, kufuneka umnike ngokwemilinganiselo ecetyiswe ngugqirha wakho .
Uqeqesho lobuchopho!
Njengokutya okumnandi, imisebenzi evuselela ingqondo ibalulekile ekuphuhliseni ingqondo yomntwana.
Izinto ezilula onokuzenza
- Fundani incwadi kunye ubusuku ngabunye: Gxilisa lo mkhwa kumntwana wakho kwasebuntwaneni. Oku kuya kunceda ekuphuhliseni isigama sakhe kunye nokucinga kwakhe.
- Thetha nomntwana wakho: Xa usenza imisebenzi yasekhaya okanye uhambahamba ngaphandle, thetha nomntwana wakho ngento oyibonayo. Buza imibuzo efana nale, "Kutheni oko kusenzeka?" kunye "Ucinga ukuba kuza kwenzeka ntoni emva koko?" ukuze uvuse umdla wakhe.
- Uncedo ngokufunda okusebenzayo: Shiya umntwana wakho yedwa phambi kweTV,Musa ukubavumela badlale imidlalo yevidiyo , kodwa bavumele badlale. Benza nje ingqondo ingasebenzi. Endaweni yoko, babandakanye kwimisebenzi kwaye nitshintshiselane ngezimvo.
- Vumela abantwana badlale: Nika abantwana inkululeko nexesha lokudlala. Nokuba kukudlala eludakeni, ukunxibisa oonodoli, okanye ukuzenza ugqirha okanye utitshala nawe, abantwana bafunda kuyo yonke loo nto.
- Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe: Ukuba utata wakho wayekuthanda ukudlala ikhilikithi esengumntwana, akuthethi ukuba unyana wakho naye ufanele ayithande. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe into ayithandayo. Isenokuba sisixhobo somculo, umzobo, okanye umdlalo. Mkhuthaze ukuba enze loo nto.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba ukumamela umculo weklasikhi kwenza abantwana babe krelekrele. Akukho siseko sesayensi sale nto okwangoku. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba adlale isixhobo somculo kunokunceda ekuphuhliseni ixesha lakhe lokuqwalasela kunye nokuziqeqesha.
Yisebenzise okanye uyilahle!
Ingqondo ifana nomsipha emzimbeni wethu. Ukuba awusetyenziswa kwaye awusetyenziswa, uba buthathaka. Ukhuthazo olunikwa umntwana ebuntwaneni lunokumchaphazela ubomi bakhe bonke.
Izazinzulu zifumanise ukuba ubukrelekrele obuqhelekileyo babantu buyanda kancinci kancinci ukusuka kwisizukulwana ukuya kwesinye. Oku kungenxa yesondlo esifanelekileyo esisifumanayo, imfundo elungileyo, kunye nehlabathi eliphuhlayo.
Ngoko ke khumbula, okubaluleke ngaphezu kokusukela inombolo ye-IQ kukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthanda ukufunda. Ukumnceda afumane into athanda ukuyenza kwaye oko kumnika ulwaneliseko. Ukuba umnika loo nto umntwana wakho, ungakhathazeki nge-IQ. Sele enayo into ayidingayo ukuze aphumelele ebomini.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ubukrelekrele bomntwana buyindibaniselwano yezakhi zofuzo azalelwe nazo kunye nendawo akhulela kuyo. Indawo umntwana ayifumanayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
- Musa ukugweba umntwana ngamanqaku ovavanyo lwe-IQ kuphela. Umdla womntwana, ulonwabo, kunye nomnqweno wokufunda zibaluleke ngakumbi.
- Ukutya okunesondlo kubalulekile ekuphuhliseni ingqondo. Khathalela ukondleka komama nomntwana kwasekuqaleni kokukhulelwa.
- Ukufunda iincwadi, ukuthetha, kunye nokwenza imisebenzi nomntwana wakho kubaluleke kakhulu kunemidlalo yeTV okanye yevidiyo.
- Vumela umntwana ukuba akhethe. Mncede ahlolisise aze aphuhlise izinto anomdla kuzo.
- Ukuba uneenkxalabo okanye amathandabuzo malunga nophuhliso lwengqondo lomntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho ngaloo nto.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athande ukufunda aze aneliseke koko akwenzayo.
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