Ucinga ntoni xa ubona umntu etyelela usana lwakho, okanye umntu osondeleyo kuwe, ekhanyisa icuba? Nokuba ucinga ukuba, "Owu, ayilungelanga umntwana," ngaba siyazi ngokwenene ubunzulu bayo? Mhlawumbi sicinga ukuba, 'Kulungile ukuba utshaya ukude.' Kodwa ngaba kunjalo ngokwenene? Namhlanje sithetha ngomonakalo onokwenziwa ngumsi wecuba, owaziwa ngokwezonyango ngokuba ngumsi wecuba , kubantwana bethu abancinci. Nangona oku kuyinto abazali abaninzi abayithatha lula, yinto ekufuneka siyilumkele kakhulu.
Ngamafutshane, yintoni umsi osetyenziswa ngomnye umntu?
Oku kulula kakhulu. Umsi oSetyenzisiweyo ngumxube wezinto ezimbini.
1. Umsi okhutshwa ngqo emoyeni usuka esiphelweni secuba, icuba, okanye ipayipi xa ivuliwe.
2. Umsi okhutshwa ngumntu otshaya icuba .
Ezi ntlobo zimbini zomsi zidityanisiwe ukuze zenze okusingqongileyo. Eyona nto iyingozi kakhulu kukuba lo msi uneekhemikhali eziyingozi kakhulu ezingaphezu kwama-7,000, kuquka ii-carcinogens. Kula, zingama-70 kuphela eziye zangqinwa ngokwesayensi ukuba ziyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womntu kwaye zinokubangela umhlaza. Ngoko ke ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana omncinci okanye umntu omdala ephefumla lo msi, ezi khemikhali ziyingozi ziyafunxwa emzimbeni.
Lo msi unayiphi impembelelo kumntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Le yingxaki ebalulekileyo, nangona ingaxoxiswa rhoqo. Kanye njengokuba umama okhulelweyo etshaya, ukutshaya kwakhe umsi ophuma komnye umntu kunokuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kumntwana wakhe ongekazalwa. Ezi khemikhali zinobuthi eziqokelelana egazini lakho zidlula ngqo kumntwana wakho ngentambo yomlomo.
Nazi ezinye zeengozi ezinokubangela oku kumntwana:
- Isifo Sokufa Kweentsana Ngesiquphe (SIDS): Umngcipheko wokuba umntwana afe ebuthongweni ngaphandle kwesizathu uyanda kunyaka wokuqala emva kokuzalwa.
- Ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha: Umntwana usenokuzalwa ngaphambi komhla wokuzalwa.
- Ukuphuma Kwesisu: Kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa sisisu phakathi kokukhulelwa.
- Ubunzima bokuzalwa obuphantsi: Umntwana unokuzalwa enobunzima obuphantsi kunomntwana ophilileyo.
- Iingxaki zokukhula nezokuziphatha: Umntwana usenokuba neemeko ezifana ne-Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) kamva.
Ngoko ke, ukuziphepha ngokupheleleyo iindawo apho abantu batshaya khona ngexesha lokukhulelwa yenye yezona ndlela zinkulu onokuzityala imali kwikamva lomntwana wakho.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwiintsana ezingakazalwa ngenxa yomsi wecuba?
Ngenxa yokuba amalungu omzimba eentsana ezincinci, njengemiphunga kunye nobuchopho bazo, asakhula, aziva kakuhle kwiikhemikhali ezinobungozi ezikumsi wecuba. Oku kunokubangela ukuba babe neengxaki ezahlukeneyo zempilo .
| Isiphumo/uphawu | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Iingxaki zenkqubo yokuphefumla | Ukukhohlela rhoqo, ukuphefumla kancinci, ukuxinana kwesifuba, kunye nesandi 'setshizi-tshizi' xa uphefumla zizinto eziqhelekileyo. |
| Ukugula rhoqo | Bafumana umkhuhlane nezinye izifo rhoqo kunabanye abantwana. Ukukhula kwemiphunga yabo kuyaphazamiseka, nto leyo ebenza bangakwazi ukumelana nokugula. |
| I-Pneumonia kunye ne-bronchitis | Umngcipheko wokufumana izifo ezinzulu ezifana ne-pneumonia kunye ne-bronchitis, ezichaphazela imiphunga, uphezulu kakhulu. |
| Isifuba | Ukuba umntwana sele enesifuba, imeko inokuba mandundu. Kwanomntwana ongenaso eso sifo usengozini enkulu yokuba nesifuba. |
| Iintsholongwane zendlebe | Umsi wecuba unokubangela ulwelo oluqokeleleneyo kwindlebe ephakathi, nto leyo ekhokelela kwiintsholongwane zendlebe rhoqo. Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kunokufuna utyando lokufaka imibhobho yendlebe. |
| Ezinye iingxaki | Usenokuba neentloko ezibuhlungu rhoqo, umphimbo obuhlungu, amehlo abomvu, kunye nomngcipheko ophezulu wokubola kwamazinyo. |
Singamkhusela njani umntwana wethu kule ngozi?
Nangona oku kungabonakala ngathi ngumceli mngeni omkhulu, zininzi izinto ezilula esinokuzenza. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi nokuthatha amanyathelo.
1. Yenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo engenamsi
Eli lelona nyathelo libalulekileyo. Musa ukuvumela nabani na ukuba atshaye ngaphakathi endlwini. Nokuba utshaya kwibalcony okanye kufutshane nefestile, umsi ungangena endlwini. Susa ii-ashtrays ngokupheleleyo endlwini. Umthetho othi "Akukho Kutshaya" ufanele usebenze kuwo wonke umntu endlwini.
2. Ungaze utshaye ngaphakathi emotweni.
Ukuba wena okanye omnye umntu utshaya emotweni, yeka ukutshaya ngokupheleleyo. Nokuba iifestile zivuliwe, umsi awuyi kuphuma ngokupheleleyo. Loo msi ungaya ngqo kumntwana okwisihlalo esingasemva.
3. Khetha amaziko okugcina abantwana angatshayiyo
Xa ukhetha indawo yokunyamekela umntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba ayinamsi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abasebenzi bangatshayi.
4. Khathalela umntu ogcina abantwana
Ukuba unomgcini womntwana ojonga umntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba akatshayi. Nokuba angatshaya kwenye indawo aze amthathe umntwana wakho, iikhemikhali ezinobungozi ezimpahleni zakhe nasemoyeni wakhe (oku kubizwa ngokuba ngumsi osetyenziswa ngumntu wesithathu) zinokumlimaza umntwana wakho.
5. Ziphephe iindawo zikawonke-wonke ezivumela ukutshaya.
Nangona ezinye iindawo ezifana neendawo zokutyela kunye neepaki zineendawo zokutshaya ezikhethekileyo, umsi usenokungena emoyeni uze uchaphazele ezinye. Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, thatha umntwana wakho uye kwiindawo apho ukutshaya kungavumelekanga kwaphela.
Ukuba wena okanye umntu kusapho lwakho ufuna uncedo lokuyeka ukutshaya...
Ukuba ungumntu otshayayo ufunda eli nqaku, mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba, "Kuza kuba nzima ukuyeka oku." Yiyo loo nto. Ukutshaya akulula ukuyeka. Kodwa ukucinga ngempilo yomntwana wakho kunokuba luncedo kakhulu.
Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukukwenza oku wedwa, musa ukuba neentloni okanye ungathandabuzi. Thetha nogqirha wosapho lwakho okanye ugqirha wasekuhlaleni ngale nto. Angakuxelela ngezinto ezininzi ezinokukunceda uyeke ukutshaya, ezinje ngamayeza kunye neengcebiso. Kusenokungenzeki kwangoko, kodwa ungayeki. Kufanelekile ukuzincama ngenxa yekamva elisempilweni lomntwana wakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukutshaya umsi kwabanye abantu kunempembelelo enkulu kakhulu kwimpilo yeentsana.
- Oku kubeka iintsana emngciphekweni we-asthma, i-pneumonia, usulelo lwendlebe rhoqo, kunye ne-sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).
- Luxanduva lwakho ukwenza ikhaya lakho kunye nesithuthi sakho sibe yindawo engenamsi ngokupheleleyo.
- Ngobubele kodwa ngokuqinileyo cela abantu abatshayayo ukuba bayeke ukutshaya bekufutshane nomntwana wakho.
- Ukuba wena okanye ilungu losapho lwakho lifuna uncedo lokuyeka ukutshaya, funa uncedo lweengcali. Ugqirha wakho uya kuba sisikhokelo esifanelekileyo kuwe.
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