Xa uba ngumama okanye utata omtsha, akukho nto inomdla ngaphezu kokubukela umntwana wakho omncinci ekhula imihla ngemihla, akunjalo? Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, nezinto ezincinci zinokukwenza uzive usoyika. Ngaba wakha wacinga, "Owu, umntwana osecaleni uyaqengqeleka ngoku, kanti owam akakafiki?" Ungakhathazeki. Ayingabo bonke abantwana abakhula ngendlela efanayo okanye ngesantya esifanayo. Nangona benamanqanaba athile okukhula , kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana omncinci aqale kwangethuba okanye afike kade kancinci. Ukuqengqeleka yenye yeendawo zokuqala ezibalulekileyo ebomini bomntwana. Ngoko masithethe ngayo yonke le nto namhlanje.
Umntwana uqala nini ukuqengqeleka?
Iintsana zihlala ziqala ukuqengqeleka xa zineenyanga ezi-4 ubudala . Ziqala zenze into efana nokushukuma ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye. Emva koko ziqala ukuqengqeleka. Uninzi lwexesha, iintsana ziqala ngokuqengqeleka ukusuka esiswini ukuya emqolo.
"Ixesha lesisu" libaluleke kakhulu apha. Ngamafutshane, ixesha lesisu kuxa unikela umntwana wakho esiswini sakho ngelixa evukile. Oku kungaqala kwangethuba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala emva kokuzalwa.
Ixesha lesisu ngumthambo omhle wokuqinisa intamo, intloko, amahlombe kunye nezihlunu zomqolo zomntwana wakho. Yile nto imnika amandla awadingayo ukuze aqengqeleke aze ahlale phantsi kamva.
Ixesha lesisu linceda ekuphuhliseni izakhono zomntwana wakho zokuqonda, ukulinganisela, ukubona, kwanezokusombulula iingxaki. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukunika umntwana wakho ixesha lesisu yonke imihla.
Unokunceda njani umntwana ukuba aqengqeleke?
Xa sele zifikelele kwiinyanga ezi-6, uninzi lweentsana luyakwazi ukujikajika. Kodwa njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, ayizizo zonke iintsana ezifanayo. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ajikejikajika.
| Yintoni enokwenziwa? | Inzuzo yoko |
|---|---|
| Yigcine esifubeni sakho. | Ukuba umntwana wakho akakuthandi ukutya isisu, mbeke esifubeni sakho okanye emathangeni akho, phantsi kwesisu sakho. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile kuba uyakwazi ukukubona. Abanye abantwana abakuthandi ukutya isisu kuba abakwazi ukukubona. |
| Dlala phantsi. | Hlala phantsi nosana lwakho nithethe, nicule iingoma, nize nidlale ngamathoyizi. Xa uncuma, umntwana wakho uziva ekhuselekile. Oku kunceda ingqondo yosana lwakho ikhule kwaye kuqinise ubudlelwane phakathi kwakho nosana lwakho. |
| Sebenzisa ithoyi. | Beka ithoyizi phambi komntwana wakho kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba ajike intloko yakhe iye kwelo cala. Emva koko, yihambise le thoyizi kwicala ofuna ijike kulo. Xa umntwana wakho ezama ukuyithatha, uya kuzama ukuyijika. |
| Umculo kunye nesingqisho | Ukudlala umculo ixesha elifutshane ngexesha lesisu kunokunceda umntwana wakho aphuhlise amandla akhe okushukuma kwisandi. Kungamnceda nokuba aqengqeleke. |
Khumbula...
Oogqirha bacebisa ukuba umntwana wakho anike imizuzu eli-15 ukuya kwengama-30 yesisu sakhe ngosuku xa sele eneenyanga ezimbini ubudala. Ngoko ke, beka ecaleni amaxesha amancinci emini ukuze umntwana wakho afumane ithuba lokuqhela ukujikajika.
Ngaba ufanele ukhathazeke xa umntwana wakho elele?
Nangona kumnandi ukubona usana luqengqeleka emini, ukuqengqeleka ebuthongweni ebusuku kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo koomama.
"Ndimbuyisele umntwana ajonge phezulu?"
Le yingxaki ebangwa ngoomama abaninzi. Xa ujonga umntwana wakho ebusuku, ungabona ukuba uqengqeleke esiswini okanye ecaleni. Xa oku kusenzeka, akufuneki umjike . Kusoloko kuyinto elungileyo ukumlalisa ejonge phezulu, kodwa ukuba uqengqeleka yedwa, ayiyongxaki. Isizathu kukuba umntwana unamandla aneleyo okuqengqeleka yedwa, kwaye ukuba umoya wakhe uvaliwe, unamandla okushukumisa intloko yakhe ngasemva nangasemva ukuze aphume kuyo.
Ngokutsho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, i-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)Eyona ndlela ingcono yokuthintela oku kukulalisa umntwana wakho ngomqolo. Ukulala ngesisu sakhe kwandisa umngcipheko we-SIDS.
"Ungenza ntoni xa umntwana eqengqeleka aze abonakale ebambekile?"
Ukuba umntwana wakho ngamanye amaxesha uyajika aze abonakale enengxaki yokujika, ungazama ukumjika umntwana wakho. Ungabeka nomqamelo omncinci okanye itawuli egobileyo phantsi kwesifuba sakhe ngexesha leSisu ukuze umncede aphakamise intloko yakhe. Ungaze umshiye umntwana wakho yedwa ngexesha leSisu. Kukho umngcipheko we-SIDS ukuba ulala ngeli xesha.
Lumka ngokhuseleko xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuqengqeleka!
Njengoko umntwana wakho eqala ukuphonononga ihlabathi elijikelezayo, kufuneka sicinge kabini malunga nokhuseleko lwakhe.
| Amanyathelo okhuseleko | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Yeka ukusonga. | Kwakamsinya nje ukuba umntwana wakho aqalise ukuqengqeleka, kufuneka uyeke ukumsonga. Ukuba uyaqengqeleka, kufuneka akwazi ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe ngokukhululekileyo ukuphakamisa intloko yakhe. |
| Gcina ibhedi yomntwana icocekile. | Musa ukubeka nantoni na kwindawo yomntwana yokulala, njengeengubo zokulala, imiqamelo, okanye izinto zokudlala . Ezi zinto zinokubangela ukufuthaniseka kwaye zonyuse umngcipheko we-SIDS. Ukusebenzisa izixhobo ezigcina umntwana kwindawo ethile (iindawo zokulala) nako kuyingozi. |
| Hlala ujonge ukukhula. | Nika ingqalelo ekukhuleni komntwana wakho. Ukuba ubona naziphi na iimpawu zokulahlekelwa ngamandla, thetha nogqirha wakho . |
Lumka ngakumbi ngezi zinto:
Umntwana wakho,
- Ukuba awuphakamisi intloko yakho
- Ukuba unengxaki yokulawula intloko yakho ngelixa uhleli
- Ukuba awuzithathi izinto zokudlala
- Ukuba awuzinaki izandla zakho okanye uhlala uqinisa amanqindi akho
Ezi zinokuba ziimpawu zokuphazamiseka kokukhula. Ngoko ke ukuba ubona into efana nale, musa ukoyika kwaye ngoko nangoko qhagamshelana nogqirha wabantwana ukuze akunike icebiso.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Usana ngalunye lwahlukile. Ungakhathazeki ngokuthelekisa usana lwakho nezinye iintsana.
- "Ixesha lesisu" libalulekile ukuze izihlunu zomntwana zibe namandla kwaye zifunde ukujikajika.
- Soloko ulalisa umntwana wakho ngomqolo. Kodwa ukuba uziqengqeleka yedwa, musa ukuzama ukumjikela.
- Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuqengqeleka, yeka ukumsonga. Musa ukufaka nantoni na kwibhedi yomntwana, njengemiqamelo, iingubo, okanye izinto zokudlala.
- Ukuba ubona naluphi na ulibaziseko ekukhuleni komntwana wakho okanye ukulahlekelwa zizakhono zakhe zangaphambili, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho ngaloo nto.
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