Ngaba wakha wambona umntwana wakho omncinci esenza isandi esithi 'burr' aze akhuphe amaqamza? Abanye abazali bakhathazekile kancinci, becinga, 'Ingaba kukho into engalunganga ngomntwana wam?' Kodwa akukho nto yokoyika. Ayisiyonto intle nje kuphela, kodwa ikwalinyathelo elibalulekileyo ekukhuleni komntwana wakho. Ngamafutshane, le yenye yamanyathelo amancinci umntwana wakho awathathayo ukunxibelelana nehlabathi nokufunda ukuthetha.
Iintsana ziqala nini ukuvuthela amaqamza anje?
Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana lixesha elimangalisayo. Okokuqala bayancuma, emva koko baqale ukukhasa, baze baqale ukwenza iingxolo ezincinci. Konke oku kuluvuyo olukhulu kumama notata.
Unxibelelwano lubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana. Kwiintsuku zokuqala, ungabona ukuba umntwana ulambile okanye ulele ngendlela alila ngayo. Njengoko ekhula kancinci, aqala ukuthetha nathi ngezinye iindlela. Benza ingxolo efana neyomqala, bahleke kakhulu, baze benze izandi ezifana nezithi 'Guru... Guru...'.
Kumalunga neli xesha, ngesiqhelo phakathi kweenyanga ezi-4 nezi-7 , apho iintsana ziqala ukuvuthela amaqamza, okanye 'ii-raspberries' njengoko sizibiza njalo. Olu luphawu oluhle lokuba izakhono zazo zolwimi ziyaphuhla. Ungaphawula nezinto ezinje ngeli xesha:
- Amathe amaninzi ayaphuma emlonyeni.
- Baqala ukwenza izandi ezibizwa ngokuba yi-'ba...', 'da...', 'ga...'. Oku sikubiza ngokuba kukubhibhidla.
- Wenza ingxolo engathi yimqala, nokuba uyedwa okanye unawe.
- Baqala kancinci kancinci ukuqonda amagama alula afana nelithi 'ibhola' kunye nelithi 'ukuhlamba'.
- Basebenzisa izandi ezahlukeneyo ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo (ulonwabo, umsindo) okanye ukutsala ingqalelo yakho.
Kutheni abantwana besenza oku? Kuthetha ukuthini oku?
Iintsana liqela labantu abahlala bejonga abantu ababangqongileyo, bejonga ihlabathi, kwaye befunda ngokumamela. Bamamela isandi selizwi lakho, bajonga ubuso bakho. Baziva bekhuselekile xa uthetha ngokuzolileyo, kwaye bayazi ukuba kukho into engalunganga xa uthetha ngomsindo. Malunga neenyanga ezi-4, baqala ukuqaphela indlela obiza ngayo amagama nezivakalisi.
Okulandelayo kuza inqanaba lokulinganisa . Bazama ukwenza oko ukwenzayo noko ukuthethayo. Kulapho uhlala ubona amathe kwaye ephuphuma.
Oku ngokwenene kuvavanya indlela abayisebenzisa ngayo imilebe yabo, ulwimi, kunye nomlomo ukwenza izandi ezahlukeneyo. Ngokuchanekileyo, olu luqeqesho olufanelekileyo lwemisipha oluya kufuneka ukubiza amagama anje ngo-'mama' kunye no- 'dada ' kwixesha elizayo.
Kukho esinye isizathu soku. Oko kukuthi, ukuveliswa kwamathe emlonyeni womntwana kuyanda ngeli xesha. Oku nako kuyinto entle. Masibone iingenelo zako.
| Iingenelo zokuvelisa amathe amaninzi | Kuza kwenzeka ntoni kumntwana? |
|---|---|
| Ukuthambisa ukutya okuqinileyo | Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo, kuba lula ukukuginya. |
| Ukunceda ekugayweni kokutya | I-enzyme ebizwa ngokuba yi-ptyalin ematheni inceda ukuguqula istatshi sibe yiswekile. |
| Ukugcina umlomo wakho umanzi | Inceda ukugcina umswakama emlonyeni. |
| Ukwenza kube lula ukuginya | Amathe enza ukutya kube lula ukuginya. |
| Ukususa ukutya okongeziweyo | Emva kokutya, bahlamba iziqwenga ezincinci zokutya ezisele emlonyeni wabo. |
| Ukukhusela amazinyo omntwana | Xa amazinyo eqala ukuphuma, amathe nawo ayanceda ekukhuseleni amazinyo. |
Abazali bangabanceda njani abantwana baphuhlise izakhono zolwimi?
Ngoko ke, yintoni omele uyenze xa umntwana wakho eqala ukulinganisa izandi, ukugquma, nokuvuthela amaqamza ngolu hlobo? Eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukwenza into efanayo nawe . Xa umntwana wakho evuthela amaqamza, ncuma kwaye wenze into efanayo. Emva koko umntwana wakho uya kuqonda ukuba le yindlela yokunxibelelana.
WenaOkukhona uthetha kwaye udlala nomntwana wakho , kokukhona izakhono zakhe zengqondo kunye nokuthetha ziya kukhula ngokukhawuleza.
Thetha nosana lwakho rhoqo, cula iingoma, kwaye umbonise imifanekiso ezincwadini kwaye uthethe ngayo. Xa usoloko usithi amagama alula afana 'nomama', 'utata', 'usana', 'inja', kunye 'nebhola', baya kuwaqonda lula. Kwakhona, mfundise izinto ezifana nokuqhwaba izandla kunye nokulinganisa izandi zezilwanyana. Iintsana ziyathanda ukuqinisa izinto. Ngoko ke nokuba zenza ingxolo encinci, zibonise ukuba wonwabile kwaye uzincome.
Umntwana wam akabhombolozi. Ngaba kufuneka ndikhathazeke?
Azifani zonke iintsana. Ezinye iintsana zifunda izinto ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa ezinye zithatha ixesha elide. Oku kuqhelekile kakhulu . Umntwana wakho usenokungenzi oko kwenziwa ngumntwana womhlobo wakho. Ungakhathazeki ngaloo nto.
Ngokwesiqhelo, xa umntwana ezalwa, ukuva kwakhe kuyavavanywa. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yosulelo oluqhelekileyo lwendlebe , indlebe inokuzaliswa lulwelo, nto leyo enokunciphisa ukuva. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, impendulo yomntwana kwizandi inokuncipha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumi amathe emva kweenyanga ezi-6 akuthethi ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngaye. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho unempawu enye okanye ezingaphezulu kwezi zingezantsi, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngayo .
| Nikela ingqalelo kwezi mpawu. | |
|---|---|
| Ukuba ezi zinto azibonakali kwiinyanga ezi-7-8, thetha nogqirha wakho: | |
| Uphawu lokunika ingqalelo | Kalula nje... |
| Ayijongi emehlweni | Xa uthetha okanye udlala, bajonga abanye endaweni yokujonga ubuso okanye amehlo akho. |
| Andisoloko ndincuma okanye ndithetha kakhulu | Kwanangamaxesha olonwabo, bayahleka kwaye benza ingxolo encinci rhoqo. |
| Ubunzima bokuhlala phantsi ngaphandle kwenkxaso | Nokuba sele uneenyanga ezisi-7-8, kunzima ukuhlala wedwa ngaphandle kwenkxaso. |
| Kubonakala ngathi inobuthathaka kwelinye icala lomzimba | Kubonakala ngathi ingalo okanye umlenze omnye awusetyenziswa kakhulu kunomnye. |
| Ubunzima bokuginya ukutya okuthambileyo | Xa ukutya okuthambileyo okufana nerayisi ecoliweyo kunye nemifuno kufakwa emlonyeni, kuyakhutshwa ngolwimi endaweni yokuginywa. |
Njengomama okanye utata, akukho mntu umaziyo umntwana wakho ngaphezu kwakho. Ngoko ke ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye imibuzo, musa ukuyithatha njengento "engaqhelekanga." Ungaze ungathandabuzi ukubuza ugqirha wakho ngayo loo nto.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuvuthela iirasbheri linqanaba elisempilweni neliqhelekileyo lokukhula komntwana, elibonwa phakathi kweenyanga ezi-4-7 ubudala.
- Oku kuqinisa izihlunu ezifunekayo ekuthetheni kwaye kubeka isiseko sokuphuhlisa izakhono zolwimi.
- Ukuthetha nomntwana wakho rhoqo, ukucula iingoma, nokulinganisa izandi azenzayo kunokunceda kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakhe.
- Usana ngalunye lwahlukile. Ngoko ke musa ukuthelekisa usana lwakho nolunye usana. Wonke umntu ufunda izinto ngesantya sakhe.
- Nokuba ingxaki yokungaphumi amathe ayikokuphela kwayo, ukuba ubona ezinye iimpawu zokukhula (umz., ubunzima bokuhlala, ubunzima bokujonga amehlo), bonana nogqirha wakho ngoko nangoko.
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