Uma ungumzali wengane encane ene-autism, kungenzeka ukuthi uke wazibuza, "Ngingayifundisa kanjani ingane yami ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese?" Lokhu kungase kubonakale kuyinselele enkulu, kodwa khumbula ukuthi izingane ezine-autism, njengabo bonke abanye abantwana, ziyajabula kakhulu lapho zifunda izinto ezintsha. Kuphinde kwandisa ukuzethemba kwazo. Ngakho-ke ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngendlela ekhululekile neqondakalayo.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi ingane yami ene-autism isikulungele yini ukuqeqeshwa ukuya endlini yangasese?
Njengabanye abantwana, izingane ezine-autism zibonisa izimpawu ezifanayo zokuthi sezilungele ukuqeqeshwa endlini yangasese. Kodwa-ke, kungathatha isikhathi eside ukuthi ingane ene-autism ilungele. Lokhu kuvamile. Nazi ezinye izimpawu ezizokusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ingane yakho isilungele yini lokhu kuqeqeshwa.
| Uphawu olulungile | Kalula nje... |
|---|---|
| Ukuzama ukuxhumana | Bazama ukuxhumana lapho inabukeni labo limanzi noma lapho bephuma isisu , kungaba ngamazwi, ngezibonakaliso, noma ngethuluzi elibasizayo ukwenza kanjalo. |
| Ukulandela imiyalelo elula | Ungayiqonda imiyalelo elula yesinyathelo esisodwa noma ezimbili (isib., "Hlala phansi endlini yangasese") bese wenza kanjalo. |
| Ukusesha ubumfihlo | Uma bechama , bazama ukufihla ekhoneni lekamelo, njengangemuva kwekhethini. |
| Ukuhlala komile okungenani amahora amabili | Ungahamba amahora amabili noma ngaphezulu ngesikhathi emini ungamanzisi inabukeni lakho. |
| Ukukwazi ukuya endlini yangasese | Ngosizo lomuntu omdala, ungaya endlini yangasese, ukhumule izingubo zakho, uhlale phansi. |
| Ukuzimisela ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese | Banesithakazelo futhi banelukuluku lokufuna ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Bangase bakubuze nangayo. |
Yini okufanele siyenze lapho siqeqesha ingane ene-autism endlini yangasese?
Ukuqeqeshwa kwendlu yangasese kwengane ene-autism kuhlukile kuyo yonke ingane. Kungathatha unyaka noma ngaphezulu. Kuncike kubuntu bengane, indlela yokufunda, kanye nezinye izimo. Ukubekezela kuyisihluthulelo lapha.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uqale ukholelwe ukuthi 'ingane yami ingakwenza lokhu'. Udinga ukwenza ingane izwe lokho kukholwa . Lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi 'ikhono lokucabanga'.
Uma ingane yakho ingeyena ingane ekhulumayo, ungase udinge enye indlela yokuyitshela ukuthi idinga ukuya endlini yangasese. Ulimi lwezandla noma indlela esebenzisa amakhadi ezithombe (PECS - Picture Exchange Communication System) ingasiza.
Nazi ezinye izindlela zokusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ihambe kulolu hambo ngokuba nokholo emakhonweni ayo:
- Khuluma ngendlela efanele iminyaka yengane: Gwema ukukhuluma nengane encane "ngenkulumo yobuntwana ." Khuluma ngendlela eqonda futhi ehlonipha iminyaka yayo.
- Siza ngezindlela zokuxhumana ezihlukile: Uma ukukhuluma kunzima, bakhuthaze ukuba baveze imizwa yabo ngezibonakaliso noma ngezithombe, njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili.
- Ungakhulumi sengathi ingane ayikho: Uma ukhuluma ngengane yakho komunye umuntu ophambi kwayo, ungakhulumi sengathi ayikho. Mfake engxoxweni.
- Qonda ukuthi ukuziphatha kuwukuxhumana: Ingane yakho ingase iphathe ngendlela ethile ngoba ifuna ukusho okuthile. Zama ukuqonda isizathu salokho kuziphatha.
- Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi izole: Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi yenze izinto eziyisiza ukuthi izole (isibonelo, ukushaya izandla, ukujikeleza - lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi 'ukukhuthaza'). Lokhu kuzoyisiza ukuthi ilawule ukucindezeleka kwayo.
Yiziphi izinkinga ezivamile izingane ezine-autism ezibhekana nazo lapho ziqeqeshwa ukuya endlini yangasese?
Nakuba ukuqeqesha indlu yangasese kuyinselele kubo bonke abantwana, kunezinkinga ezithile ezithinta izingane ezine-autism kuphela. Ukuqonda lokhu kungasisiza sithole izixazululo.
Izinkinga ngomuzwa wokubona ngaphakathi
Kalula nje, yile ndlela esizizwa ngayo izinto ezenzeka emizimbeni yethu (ulambile, ukhathele, womile, udinga ukuya endlini yangasese ). Izingane ezine-autism ngezinye izikhathi ziba nesikhathi esinzima sokubona lezi zimpawu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi zingase zingaqondi ngokugcwele ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukudinga ukuya endlini yangasese.
Yini ongayenza? Ngokugqoka ibhulukwe lokuqeqesha elihlanzwayo noma izingubo zangaphansi ezine-liner, ingane yakho izoqala ukuzwa uma imanzi. Lokhu kuzosiza ingane yakho ukuthi ifunde ukuqaphela izimpawu zomzimba wayo.
Ubunzima bokubekezelela izinguquko emisebenzini yansuku zonke
Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zithanda ukunamathela esimisweni, isimiso lapho zenza khona izinto ezifanayo nsuku zonke. Ukuqeqeshwa kwendlu yangasese kuyishintsha ngokuphelele le nqubo. Esikhundleni sokushintsha inabukeni, manje sekufanele ziye endlini yangasese. Lolu shintsho lungabacindezela.
Yini engenziwa?
- Nciphisa izinguquko : Uma kungenzeka, sebenzisa isihlalo sokuqeqesha esinamathela ngqo endlini yangasese esikhundleni sebhodwe lomntwana. Lokhu kuzonciphisa inani lezinto ezintsha ingane yakho okufanele izijwayele.
- Sebenzisa Izindaba Zokuxhumana: Yenza ukuya endlini yangasese kube yingxenye yenqubo yansuku zonke bese uxoxela ingane yakho indaba emfushane enezithombe.
- Sebenzisa isibali sikhathi: Setha isibali sikhathi sesikhathi esithile, futhi uma siqala ukukhala, zikhumbuze ukuthi, "Sekuyisikhathi sokuya endlini yangasese."
- Sebenzisa amashejuli okubukwayo: Dala ishejuli okubukwayo okubonisa isimiso sansuku zonke ngokulandelana, okuhlanganisa nezikhathi zokuya endlini yangasese. Lokhu kuzonikeza ingane yakho umbono ocacile wokuthi usuku lwayo luzohamba kanjani.
Izinkinga Zezinzwa
Izingane ezine-autism zingaba nemizwa ethile ejulile kakhulu. Cabanga ngamathayili abandayo endlu yangasese, umsindo wokuhlanza, isidingo esiqhubekayo sokukhumula nokugqoka izingubo... Lezi zinto zingabacasula kakhulu.
Yini engenziwa?
Bheka ngokucophelela ukuziphatha kwengane yakho futhi uqonde ukuthi yini ebangela ukungakhululeki kwayo.
- Iphansi elibandayo: Beka ikhaphethi elincane noma amasokisi amabili phansi endlini yokugezela.
- Umsindo wokuhlanza: Uma uzwela umsindo, ungasebenzisa izivikelo zezindlebe.
- Izingubo: Gqoka amabhulukwe, amabhulukwe amafushane, nezinye izinto okulula ukuzigqoka nokuzikhumula ngaphandle kwezinkinobho noma ama-zipper.
Izinkinga zesisu (GI)
Izingane ezine-autism zinamathuba amaningi okubhekana nezinkinga zokugaya ukudla, njengokuqunjelwa kanye nesifo sohudo kunabanye abantwana. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungaba ngenxa yokudla okukhethekile noma ezinye izimo zezokwelapha.
Uma unezinkinga zesisu ezivamile ezinjengalezi, kufanele nakanjani ukhulume nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokuqala ukuqeqeshwa endlini yangasese. Udokotela wakho uzokudlulisela kudokotela wezokudla uma kudingeka.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukuqeqesha ingane ene-autism ngendlu yangasese kuthatha isikhathi. Yiba nesineke, uthando, futhi usebenze ngejubane lengane yakho.
- Naka izimpawu zokuthi ingane yakho isikulungele. Ungaphoqeleli ukuqeqesha.
- Okokuqala, kholwa ukuthi ‘ingane yami ingakwenza lokhu.’ Nika ingane yakho leyo nkolelo.
- Qonda izinkinga ezibucayi ingane ebhekene nazo, njengokushintsha kwendlela okwenziwa ngayo izinto, bese unikeza izixazululo ezilula kuzo.
- Uma ingane yakho inezinkinga zamathumbu njalo njengokuqunjelwa, noma uma unenkinga ethile, ungalokothi unqikaze ukufuna iseluleko kudokotela wakho .
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