Yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn? I de tray tranga wan fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn? I kin kɔmplen ɔltɛm bɔt skul ɛn klas? Dɛn tin ya kin bi sayn fɔ wan sik we wi kin kɔl ADHD ( Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). As mama ɔ papa, di fɔs tin we yu go tink bɔt dis tɛm na fɔ tek mɛrɛsin. Pan ɔl we mɛrɛsin na fayn tin, i nɔ kin ebul fɔ du ɔltin. Nɔ pil nɔ go ebul fɔ tich yu di rayt we fɔ mɛn pikin fɔ kɔntrol yu pikin in bihayvya, fɔ mek dɛn gɛt mɔ rɛspɛkt fɔ dɛnsɛf, ɛn di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ ɛp yu fɔ kɔntrol yu pikin in wɔri. Bɔt, famili tritmɛnt kin ɛp di wan ol famili fɔ wok togɛda ɛn mek tin dɛn we go de sote go.
Aw famili tritmɛnt go ɛp?
We yu gɛt pikin we gɛt ADHD na os, yu go dɔn notis se di "tradishɔnal" we dɛn kin yuz fɔ kɔrɛkt pikin dɛn, lɛk fɔ pɔnish dɛn ɛn fɔ gi dɛn blɛsin, nɔ kin wok ɔltɛm. Di we aw dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn ɛn di we aw dɛn kin tink kwik kwik wan kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ kɔntrol dɛn pas ɔda pikin dɛn. Bɔt we dɛn de pɔnish dɛn ɔltɛm, dat kin mek dɛn biev wɔs, ɛn i kin mek dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ si dɛnsɛf.
Imajin, we yu bɔy pikin drɔp tɔys na grɔn, yu tɛl am fɔ put am, bɔt i tan lɛk se i nɔ de lisin. We yu tɛl am fɔ du dat, i bigin fɔ kray. We dɛn kayn tin ya kin apin bɔku tɛm na os, di tin dɛn we kin apin na os kin rili chaos.
Famili tritmɛnt de ɛp yu os, ɛn ɔlman we de insay de, fɔ rɔn fayn ɛn gladi.
Dis tritmɛnt kin bi bay mama ɔ papa dayrɛkt ɔr kin involv di pikin insay sɛshɔn. Jɛnɛral wan, dɛn tin ya kin apin wit ɛni wan pan dɛn we ya:
- Di wan ol famili kin lan fɔ wok togɛda as wan yunit .
- I de mek di pikin ebul fɔ kɔntrol di we aw i de fil ɛn di tin dɛn we i de du.
- Di pikin in bihayvya kin bɛtɛ na skul, na os, wit ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn na pɔblik ples.
- Wi de tich yu, di mama ɔ papa, di bɛst we fɔ dil wit yu pikin.
Di Tritmɛnt we Mama ɛn Papa De Dayrɛkt
If yu gɛt pikin we gɛt ADHD we nɔ rich 12 ia yet, di bɛst tritmɛnt kin bi di tritmɛnt fɔ di we aw pɔsin de biev. Wi kin tren mama ɛn papa dɛn fɔ du dis.Mama ɛn Papa Trenin, we dɛn kin kɔl bak Bihayvya Mama ɛn Papa Trenin, na di kɔnsɛpt se yu na di pikin in bɛst ticha. Masta sabi bukman dɛn se dis we fɔ du tin kin wok fayn bikɔs yɔŋ pikin dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ kɔntrol wetin dɛn de du fɔ dɛnsɛf if dɛn famili nɔ sɔpɔt dɛn.
Insay dis, yu go mit wit wan thɛrapist fɔ lɛk 8 to 16 sɛshɔn. Insay dis tɛm, yu go lan nyu we fɔ wok wit yu pikin, ɛn aw yu pikin in maynd de wok ɛn wetin de mek i biev. Di pikin nɔ go kam na dɛn fɔs sɛshɔn dɛn ya. We dɛn rɛdi fɔ jɔyn yu, we ol lɛk 8-10 ia, wi kin kɔl am intagreted parent-child treatment. Da tɛm de, dɛn sɛshɔn ya kin bi jɔs yu ɛn yu patna. Sɔntɛnde, grup kin de wit ɔda famili dɛn lɛk yu.
Bitwin dɛn sɛshɔn ya, yu fɔ praktis wetin yu dɔn lan na os. Sɔntɛnde, di pɔsin we de gi yu advays go mit wit yu wan ol famili fɔ si aw di we aw yu de du tin de wok ɛn aw yu de go bifo.
Wetin yu lan frɔm dɛn tritmɛnt ya?
Di trenin we mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gi kin tɔk bɔt ɔlmost ɔl di tin dɛn we dɛn kin du ɛvride. Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan:
- Aw fɔ sɛt bɔda dɛn di we we yu pikin go ɔndastand? Aw fɔ sɛt klia lɔ dɛn ɛn tɛl yu pikin wetin dɛn de op fɔ am di we we i go ɔndastand.
- Aw fɔ ɔganayz yu os ɛnvayrɔmɛnt. Fɔ mek os we de wok di rayt tɛm ɛn we gɛt lɔ dɛn.
- Aw fɔ tɔch sɔm patikyula bihayvya dɛn. Yu kin pik wan patikyula bad abit ɛn lan aw fɔ ansa am. Dis kin min fɔ blɛs gud bihayvya, fɔ pul di prɛvilɛj fɔ sɔm tɛm fɔ bad bihayvya, ɔ fɔ yuz tin dɛn lɛk ‘taym-ɔut’. Yu kin lan bak ustɛm fɔ ignore sɔm bad abit dɛn.
- Aw fɔ tɔn yu pikin in mistek to chans fɔ lan. Pikin dɛm we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ ɔndastand di kɔnekshɔn bitwin wetin dɛn de du ɛn di bad tin dɛm we kin apin to dɛn fɔ dɛnsɛf. Yu kin sho dɛn da kɔnekshɔn de.
- Aw fɔ tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn (e.g., grani, anti) bɔt dɛn nyu we ya ɛn gɛt dɛn sɔpɔt.
Famili advays ɛn mɛrɛsin fɔ ADHD
Fɔ pikin dɛn we nɔ rich 6 ia yet, go to spɛshal pɔsin bifo yu gi dɛn mɛrɛsin.A rili kɔmɛnt se yu fɔ rili tray fɔ mɛn yu mama ɛn papa dɛn bihayvya. Dis nɔ min se yu nɔ fɔ yuz mɛrɛsin atɔl. Bɔt di tin dɛn we kin kɔmɔt frɔm advays kin de fɔ lɔng tɛm, ɛn no bad bad tin nɔ kin apin we pɔsin tek di mɛrɛsin. Wetin pas dat, ivin if dɛn nɔ no se yu pikin gɛt ADHD, dɛn bihayvya tritmɛnt ya nɔ go du ɛni bad tin.
Bɔt stɔdi dɔn sho se fɔ gi mɛrɛsin wit famili advays na kɔmbo we kin win fɔ pikin dɛn we dɔn rich skul ej. Ivin so, di FDA na Amɛrika se dɛn fɔ jɔs gi pikin dɛn we dɔn pas 5 ia mɛrɛsin if advays nɔ mek at le wan pat pan dɛn layf bɛtɛ.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat yu fɔ rili tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ bifo yu disayd fɔ du ɛnitin bɔt ɛni wan pan dɛn tin ya.
Dɔn bak, risach dɔn sho se pikin dɛn we kin bɛnifit frɔm famili advays we dɛn de tek mɛrɛsin kin ebul fɔ ridyus di mɛrɛsin we dɛn de tek .
Integreted Mama ɛn Papa ɛn Pikin Tritmɛnt
Pan ɔl we dɛn kin advays fɔ tren mama ɛn papa fɔ yɔŋ pikin dɛn, stɔdi dɛn dɔn sho se mama ɛn papa ɛn pikin dɛn kin ebul fɔ gɛt mɔ tin dɛn we dɛn mit wit pɔsin we de advays dɛn togɛda. Dis we fɔ du tin kin wok fayn mɔ we di pikin de rich yɔŋ ɛn yɔŋ pɔsin. Pan ɔl we di sik dɛn we de sho se di ADHD kin go dɔŋ as tɛm de go, di pikin kin stil gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn we i de lan ɛn aw i de wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Ɛn di cham-mɔt we de insay di famili kin stil de.
| Di bɛnifit dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i gɛt tritmɛnt we dɛn jɔyn togɛda | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Fɔ mek famili padi biznɛs bɛtɛ | Fɔ ɔndastand dɛnsɛf kin bɔku bikɔs ɔlman de tɔk togɛda. |
| Fɔ ridyus di strɛs we di famili gɛt | We yu fɛn sɔlv prɔblɛm dɛn togɛda, dat kin mek yu nɔ strɛs na os. |
| Di Disiplin we De Ɛfɛkt | Bikɔs dɛn mek di lɔ dɛn togɛda wit di pikin, i kin izi fɔ mek dɛn fala dɛn. |
| I izi fɔ monitar | I izi fɔ wach aw di pikin de biev ɛn aw i de go bifo bikɔs ɔlman de togɛda. |
Ilɛksɛf yu pikin yɔŋ, yu kin stil lan fayn fayn we dɛn fɔ mɛn pikin. Bɔt dɛn go difrɛn fɔ di pikin in ej ɛn di kayn pɔsin we i bi. Fɔ ɛgzampul:
- Di yɔŋ pikin kin tek pat pan advays wit dɛn mama ɛn papa.
- Yu kin ɛp yu pikin bak fɔ fɛn sɔlv fɔ di bad we aw i de biev ɛn disayd us pɔnishmɛnt fɔ yuz. Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ asaynd homwok instead fɔ ‘taym-ɔut’.
- If i stɔdi gud gud wan ɛn gɛt gud tɛst mak, i kin sɛt blɛsin as gol . Dat min sɔntin we impɔtant to am, lɛk we dɛn alaw am fɔ go na do wit in padi dɛn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Famili tritmɛnt nɔto di wangren we fɔ mɛn ADHD, bɔt na wan tin we rili pawaful ɛn we go de fɔ lɔng tɛm.
- If yu gɛt smɔl pikin, yu fɔ tray fɔ tren mama ɛn papa dɛn fɔs. Dis go tich yu mɔ pas di pikin.
- Famili advays nɔto jɔs sɔntin we dɛn kin du fɔ di pikin. I de mek di wan ol famili gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit dɛnsɛf ɛn mek di say we dɛn de na os bi ples we kwayɛt ɛn gladi at.
- Ɔltɛm tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ fɔ advays bifo yu disayd if yu fɔ bigin fɔ tek mɛrɛsin, advays, ɔ ɔl tu.
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