Ngaba umama wakho omthandayo, utata, okanye utatomkhulu notatomkhulu bavula ucango ngequbuliso baze baphume, besithi, "Ndiya ekhaya"? Okanye ngaba umntwana wakho oneemfuno ezikhethekileyo akahlali kwindawo enye, kodwa ngequbuliso wanyamalala emehlweni? Oku sikubiza ngokuba 'kukuhambahamba' kwisayensi yezonyango. Ngamafutshane, kuthetha ukuhambahamba ngaphandle kwenjongo ethile, ulibale apho bakhoyo, uze ulahleke. Le yenye yezona ntloko zinkulu kunye noloyiko kubantu abanyamekela abantwana abanjengani. Ngoko masithethe ngayo yonke le nto namhlanje.
Yintoni kanye kanye le 'Handering'?
Ngamafutshane, 'Ukuzulazula' kuxa umntu eshiya indawo akuyo engenanjongo icacileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho into efana nale. Kubizwa ngokuba "kukubaleka". Kuxa umntu eshiya indawo ekhuselekileyo njengekhaya, nokuba ngabom okanye ngengozi, aze alahleke.
Kuyamangalisa ukwazi ukuba abantu abathandathu kwabalishumi (6/10) abane -dementia bahlangabezana nolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ubuncinane kanye ngexesha lokugula kwabo. Abantu abaninzi bahlangabezana noku ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye.
Kutheni oku kusenzeka kubantu esibathandayo?
Kudla ngokuba nzima ukufumana isizathu esithile sale ndlela yokuziphatha, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanyamekela abantwana bayakwazi ukuqonda ukuba kukho injongo ethile emva kwayo.
Khawuthelekelele, ingqondo yethu ephilileyo isebenzisa inkqubo efana nenkqubo yeGPS ukufumana indlela yethu nokukhumbula indawo. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi-"(Cognitive mapping)``. Le yindlela esisebenzisa ngayo inkumbulo nolwazi lwendawo ukugqiba ukuba siphi na kwaye sifuna ukuya phi.
Nangona kunjalo, xa isifo esifana nesifo sika- Alzheimer sikhula, ingqondo iyasilela kancinci kancinci. Ngoko ke, ukuba baya kwindawo abangayaziyo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba bakhumbule indlela yokubuyela umva.
Ezinye zezizathu eziphambili zokuba umntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo alahleke zezi:
- Ukungakwazi ukulandela imiyalelo yokuhlala kwindawo enye nokuba nomonde.
- Ukungazoli kunye nokuxhalaba .
- Ukufuneka uqhele indawo entsha okanye indlela entsha yokwenza izinto.
- Ukuphendula ngoko nangoko kwinto oyivayo okanye oyibonayo uze uyilandele.
Ezinye iimeko ezinxulumene nokuzulazula
Ukongeza kwi-dementia, kukho nezinye iimeko zonyango ezininzi ezinxulumene nale ngozi yokulahleka. Njengomnakekeli, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele oku.
- I-Autism (isifo sengqondo)Isifo se-Autism spectrum): I-Autism sisifo semithambo-luvo nesophuhliso. Umntu onesi sifo usenokuba nemvakalelo encinci yobungozi. Ngenxa yoko, usondela kwizinto ezintsha ngaphandle koloyiko. Ngamanye amaxesha unokulahleka kuba kufuneka abaleke kwindawo emphazamisayo (umz., iingxolo ezinkulu, izibane ezikhanyayo) aze aye kwindawo ezolileyo.
- I-Down syndrome : Abantu abane-Down syndrome ngamanye amaxesha badla ngokuhambahamba njengomntwana omncinci. Lo mngcipheko uphezulu nangakumbi ukuba nabo bane-autism.
- Istroke : Isiphumo esiqhelekileyo sestroke kukulahlekelwa yinkumbulo . Umntu okhe waba nestroke unokuphazamiseka engqondweni, abe nobunzima bokulandela imiyalelo, kwaye adideke lula. Nangona kunjalo, ngokulungiswa, inkumbulo inokuphucula kancinci ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ziziphi iimpawu zokuqala zengozi ezibonisa ingozi?
Kukho imiqondiso emininzi yokulumkisa kwangethuba esixelela ukuba umntu usengozini yokulahleka. Ukuba unika ingqalelo kwezi zinto, unokuthintela ingozi enkulu.
| Iimpawu ezilumkisayo ezibonisa umngcipheko wokulahleka | |
|---|---|
| Ukuphindaphinda rhoqo | Ukuba uhlala usithi izinto ezifana nokuthi "Ndifuna ukuya ekhaya", "Ndifuna ukuya emsebenzini", "Ndifuna ukuya kuthenga". |
| Ukulibala ikhaya lakho | Ukuba baziphatha ngathi abakho ekhaya, ukuba babonisa iimpawu zokuba abakho ekhaya. |
| Ukulibala iindawo | Ukuba kufuneka uhlale uzikhumbuza ukuba igumbi lokulala negumbi lokuhlambela ziphi. |
| Ukungazinzi | Ukuba usoloko ungaphumli, zama ukuhambahamba endaweni yokuhlala kwindawo enye. |
| Ndilibale ukubuyela ngaphakathi | Ukuba uphuma endlwini kwaye ungakhumbuli ukubuyela. |
Lo asingomdlalo. Emva kweeyure ezingama-24 zokulahleka, amathuba okufumana umntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo ehla ngama-50%. Ngoko ke le yinto ekufuneka ithathwe nzulu kakhulu.
Singenza ntoni ukuze sithintele ukuzulazula?
Kakade ke, asinakumjonga omnye umntu iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, yonke imizuzwana yosuku. Nokuba ungumnakekeli olungileyo kangakanani na, usenokungakwazi ukumthintela ukuba angalahleki ngalo lonke ixesha. Nangona kunjalo, ukulandela iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezingezantsi kunokunceda kakhulu ekugcineni umntu omthandayo ekhuselekile.
1. Qinisa ukhuseleko lwasekhaya
Faka izitshixo ezintsha kwiingcango nakwiifestile zakho ezingenakuvulwa lula ngumntu omthandayo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, phakamisa ezi zitshixo phezulu kancinci ukuze zingafikeleli kuzo. Ungafuna nokufaka iigrilles kwiifestile. Ungafaka "izixhobo zokubona intshukumo" ezenza isandi xa ucango luvuliwe. Isisombululo esilula kukuxhoma iintsimbi ezincinci kwizibambo zocango.
2. Soloko uphatha ikhadi lesazisi.
Nangona oku kungabathinteli abantu ekulahlekeni, kusabalulekile ukuba nesazisi sakho ngamaxesha onke. Khumbula, ukugcina nje isazisi ebhegini yakho akwanelanga. Banokuyikhulula. Ngoko ke, licebo elihle ukunxiba isongo okanye isongo esineenkcukacha zonyango kuso. Okanye ungathunga iinkcukacha ezifana nenombolo yakho yefowuni ngaphakathi kwijakethi yabo.
3. Nxiba iimpahla ezinemibala eqaqambileyo
Ukuba abayithandi loo nto, nxiba impahla ekhanyayo nebonakalayo, njengaxa usiya kwindawo enabantu abaninzi. Ngale ndlela, kuya kuba lula ukubabona.
4. Yakha ucingo olujikeleze igadi
Nangona kusenokubiza kancinci, ukwakha ucingo olukhuselekileyo olujikeleze igadi oluneengcango kuya kunceda ekuthinteleni ukuba bangalahleki ngelixa kubanika ithuba lokuphuma baye ebaleni baye kufumana umoya omtsha.
5. Yazisa abamelwane
Yazisa umntu omthandayo kubamelwane bakho. Baxelele ngemeko yabo, kwaye ubanike inombolo yakho yefowuni ukuze bakwazi ukukufowunela ukuba bakubona uhamba wedwa. Ukuba sicacile ngale nto, banokukunceda ngakumbi.
6. Beka imiqondiso kwiingcango
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukubeka nje uphawu olukhulu ngaphakathi komnyango wokuphuma oluthi "Yima" okanye "Musa ukugqitha" kunokwanela ukubamisa. Kwakhona, beka uphawu emnyango wegumbi lokuhlambela oluthi "Igumbi lokuhlambela." Ngale ndlela, baya kukufumanisa kulula ukulifumana.
7. Yandisa umsebenzi womzimba
Ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ukuba ukwenza umthambo emini kunokunceda ekunciphiseni ukungakwazi ukuzibamba ebusuku. Nokuba uhamba kancinci ngaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa kunokunceda ekunciphiseni ukungakwazi ukuzibamba ebusuku.
Yintoni omawuyenze xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo?
Wenza ntoni ukuba, nokuba uzama kangakanani na, umntu omthandayo ulahlekile? Impendulo yakho yendalo isenokuba kukoyika uze ubaleke uphume, ujonge yonke indawo.
Kodwa iingcali zithi into yokuqala omawuyenze kukufowunela inombolo yongxamiseko yamapolisa engu-119 uze wazise abasemagunyeni. Yiyo leyo into ebaluleke kakhulu. Wakuba ufowune loo fowuni, ungaqala uphando lwakho.
Ukuba nefayile eneenkcukacha zomntu omthandayo (ifoto, impahla, iimpawu ezikhethekileyo) eziqokelelwa kwangaphambili kubaluleke kakhulu xa unika ulwazi emapoliseni. Oku kungakongela ixesha elibalulekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuzulazula yinto eqhelekileyo enxulunyaniswa neemeko ezifana ne-dementia, ngoko musa ukuziva kakubi xa ucinga ukuba yimpazamo yakho.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuthatha amanyathelo okuthintela ukulahleka. Izinto ezifana nokukhusela iingcango neefestile zakho, kunye nokugcina ikhadi lesazisi kuwe ngamaxesha onke zibaluleke kakhulu.
- Qaphela utshintsho kwindlela umntu omthandayo aziphatha ngayo. Ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto ezikuxhalabisayo, thetha nogqirha wakho.
- Ukuba ulahlekile, into yokuqala omawuyenze ngaphandle koloyiko kukufowunela inombolo yongxamiseko yamapolisa engu-119.
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