Enye yezona zinto zivuyisayo ngokuba ngumama okhulelweyo kukubona isisu sakho sikhula imihla ngemihla. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kuqhelekile ukuba nemibuzo efana nale, "Kutheni isisu sam singakabonakali?" okanye "Ngaba sisisu sam kuphela esikhula ngokukhawuleza kangaka?". Akumangalisi ukuba ucinga ngale nto njengomama ozayo. Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kwahlukile. Ngoko ke ixesha elithathwayo ukuba isisu sakho sibonakale lisenokuhluka kakhulu kumava omhlobo wakho. Makhe sithethe ngako konke oku namhlanje.
Uqale nini ukubonakala "ukhulelwe"?
Ixesha elininzi, isisu sakho asizukubonakala kwikota yokuqala yokukhulelwa kwakho. Nangona umzimba wakho udlula kwiinguqu ezininzi ngaphakathi, umntwana wakho usemncinci kakhulu. Njengethambo elincinci. Ngoko awuyi kubona mahluko mkhulu ngaphandle. Kodwa mhlawumbi uya kuwubona umahluko ngenxa yokungonwabi okuvayo ngaphakathi kunye nokunqwenela ukutya okungaqhelekanga.
Ngokwesiqhelo, isisu sakho siqala ukuphuma kancinci size sibonakale kwabanye ngexesha le-trimester yesibini . Oko kukuthi, phakathi kweveki ye-16 neye-20. Ngeli xesha, isibeleko sikhule kancinci kwaye siqala ukuphakama ngaphezu kwamathambo e-pelvic. Kulapho isisu siqala ukuya phambili kancinci. Ngeli xesha, uya kuqala nokuva iintshukumo ezincinci zomntwana.
Kodwa khumbula, abanye oomama basenokungaboni kakuhle isisu sabo de kube sekupheleni kwekota yesibini, okanye kwanasekuqaleni kwekota yesithathu . Oko kuqhelekile ngokupheleleyo.
Kutheni abanye abantu befumana isisu ngokukhawuleza?
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba abanye oomama bavele kwangethuba kunezinye. Khawuthelekelele, xa umhlobo wakho wayekhulelwe umntwana wakhe wesibini, wamangaliswa kukubona isisu sakhe sivela emva kweenyanga ezimbini.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukungathelekisi ukukhulelwa kwakho nabanye abantu. Wonke umzimba kunye nokukhulelwa ngakunye kwahlukile.
| Izizathu zokuba kutheni ungasibona isisu sakho ngokukhawuleza | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Ukukhulelwa kwesibini okanye kwesithathu | Emva kokuzala umntwana wakho wokuqala, izihlunu zakho zesisu kunye nemisipha ebamba isibeleko sakho endaweni yazo zoluliwe kancinci. Kufana nebhanti yerabha, kwaye kulula ukuyitsala okwesibini, akunjalo? Ngokufanayo, ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho kwesibini, njengoko isibeleko sakho sikhula, isisu sakho sityhalela phambili ngokukhawuleza. |
| Ubuthathaka bemisipha yesisu | Ukuba izihlunu zakho ezingaphakathi azinamandla ngokwaneleyo, kuya kubakho ukumelana okuncinci kokubamba isibeleko njengoko sikhula, ngoko ke isisu sakho siya kuqala ukubonakala ngokukhawuleza. |
| Ubudala | Izihlunu zabasetyhini abadala azinabuthuntu bendalo, ngoko ke izisu zabo zinokubonakala ngakumbi ngokukhawuleza. |
Ngaba kukho izizathu zokuba isisu sibonakale emva kwexesha?
Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo. Abanye oomama ababoni kakhulu isisu sabo de kube yi-trimester yesithathu. Zininzi izizathu zaloo nto.
- Ukukhulelwa kokuqala: Ukuba lo ngumntwana wakho wokuqala, izihlunu zakho zesisu zinokuba namandla kakhulu, ukuze zikwazi ukubamba isibeleko njengoko sikhula.
- Ukuphakama kunye nokuma komzimba: Ukuba umde, isibeleko sakho sinendawo engakumbi yokukhula esiswini sakho, ngoko ke kuthatha ixesha ukuba isisu sakho sibonakale.
- Ubunzima bomzimba : Kwabasetyhini abatyebe kancinci, kungathatha ixesha ukuba isisu sibonakale singqukuva ngenxa yokukhulelwa. Oku kungenxa yokuba imo yesisu inokutshintsha ngenxa yamafutha emzimbeni kunokukhula komntwana. Ke ngoko, kungathatha de kube yi-trimester yesithathu ukuba "iqhubu lomntwana" libonakale licacile.
Kunini apho sifanele sikhathazeke ngale nto?
Le yeyona nxalenye ibalulekileyo. Ngokwesiqhelo, ayisiyongxaki ukuba isisu sivele kade. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuboni kukhula esiswini sakho nakwi-trimester yesithathu (emva kweeveki ezingama-28) okanye ukuba unamathandabuzo, ngokuqinisekileyo thetha nogqirha wakho ngayo loo nto. Ugqirha wakho unokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ukhula kakuhle ngokusebenzisa iiskeni kunye nokulinganisa.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukungakwazi ukubona isisu sakho kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki yempilo.
1. Uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu: Uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ingakumbi i-preeclampsiaUkuba oku kuyenzeka, kunokuphazamisa ukuhanjiswa kwegazi esibelekweni. Oku kunokubangela ukuba umntwana akhule kakubi kwaye abe mncinci ngobukhulu. Nangona kunjalo, isisu sakho asiyi kujongeka sikhulu kangako.
2. Ubunzima obuphantsi bokukhulelwa: Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akakhuli kakuhle esibelekweni. Oku kunokubangela izizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, umntwana mncinci kwaye akakhuli esibelekweni. Oku kuyingozi nakumntwana. Umzekelo, emva kokuzalwa, kunokuba nzima ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba, uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphantsi, kwaye kube nzima nokuphefumla.
3. Ubunzima bomzimba obugqithisileyo: Ukuba utyebile kakhulu, kunokubangela umngcipheko kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Umzekelo, kwandisa umngcipheko wesifo seswekile sokukhulelwa , ukuphuphuma kwesisu, kunye notyando olungxamisekileyo lotyando lotyando .
Khumbula, ungoyiki nantoni na kwezi zinto. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uye kwiikliniki ngexesha kwaye ucele iingcebiso kugqirha wakho ngoko nangoko ukuba uneengxaki.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ixesha apho isisu sakho siqala ukubonakala ngexesha lokukhulelwa liyahluka kakhulu kumntu nomntu. Musa ukukhathazeka ngaloo nto.
- Ungaze uzithelekise nomnye umntu, nokuba ukhulelwe okokuqala. Lonke uhambo lutsha.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba isisu sibonakale ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwesibini okanye okulandelayo.
- Oku kuchaphazela ubude bakho, ubunzima, kunye namandla emisipha yakho.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi ukuba umntwana ukhula kakuhle na esibelekweni. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuya kwiikliniki zonyango ngemihla ebekiweyo.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye ingxaki encinci, musa ukulibazisa ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngayo.
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