"O, umsebenzi awupheli... Angazi ukuthi isikhathi siyaphi..." Ingabe uzizwa kanje cishe usuku lonke? Ngaphambi kokuba uqede umsebenzi owodwa, ukhumbula omunye, uzizwa sengathi uhlala ugijima, uzizwa sengathi ukhohliwe okuthile... Cishe ujwayelene nale mizwa . Eqinisweni, sonke simatasa kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili.
Cabanga ngakho, zingaki izinto ezikhona namuhla zokwenza izimpilo zethu zibe lula? Amarobhothi okuhlanza i-vacuum, ama-oven e-microwave, amakhompyutha, ama-smartphone... Ngakho konke lokhu, kungani sonke sishoda ngesikhathi? Impendulo elula ukuthi lobu buchwepheshe busonga isikhathi, futhi sithola izinto ezintsha zokugcwalisa leso sikhathi esisele. Lokhu kuntuleka kwesikhathi okungapheli kuhlobene ngqo nokucindezeleka . Kodwa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi lesi simo singanqotshwa. Uma uphatha isikhathi sakho ngendlela efanele, kuzozwakala sengathi wengeze ihora elengeziwe osukwini lwakho. Ake sibone ukuthi singakwenza kanjani.
1. Yenza Idayari Yesikhathi
Lesi isinyathelo sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu. Thatha isonto elilodwa ngqo bese ubhala phansi konke okwenzayo ngosuku, kanye nesikhathi esithathayo. Kodwa kufanele uthembeke. Uma ubukela i-TV amahora amane ngosuku, kubhale phansi lokho. Singakanani isikhathi osichitha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, singakanani isikhathi osichitha ucabanga nje, udla nini, uhamba nini, uma unemihlangano ehhovisi... kubhale phansi konke.
Ekuqaleni, ungase umangale. Ungase umangale kancane, "Ingabe sonke lesi sikhathi sami siyachithwa?" Kodwa kulungile lokho. Awukwazi ukunquma ukuthi ungasiphatha kanjani kangcono isikhathi sakho ngaphandle kokwazi kahle ukuthi usichitha kanjani njengamanje, akunjalo? Lesi yisisekelo sakho.
2. Jwayela ukuthi 'cha' ezintweni ongazifuni.
Lokhu kuyinselele encane kwabaningi bethu. Uma othile ecela usizo, noma esicela ukuba senze umsebenzi, asifuni ukuthi 'cha'. Kodwa bheka isimiso sakho. Uma ungenaso isikhathi saso, yithi 'cha' ngenhlonipho kodwa ngokuqinile. Ungazizwa unecala ngakho.
Esinye sezizathu esenza sihlale simatasa ukuthi asazi ukuthi singasho kanjani ukuthi 'cha' ezicelweni zabanye abantu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izinto ezibalulekile ziyabekelwa eceleni. Iyini imigomo yakho? Yini ebalulekile kuwe? (isib. umndeni, abangani, impilo yakho). Beka lezo zinto phambili futhi wamukele kuphela lokho ongakwenza ngokunye. Ukubeka imingcele esikhathini sakho kungakusiza ugweme ukucindezeleka.
3. Dala 'Uhlu Lokwenza' ngokuhamba kwesikhathi
'Uhlu Lokwenza' alugcini nje ngokubhala phansi imisebenzi okudingeka yenziwe. Kufanele futhi ubhale phansi ukuthi umsebenzi ngamunye ohlwini uzothatha isikhathi esingakanani.
Ake sithi unemisebenzi eyi-10 ohlwini lwakho. Uma ubhala phansi isikhathi esizothathwa yilowo nalowo, uzoqonda ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi okudingeka uyenze kuqala nokuthi yimiphi imisebenzi engaqedwa ngokushesha. Le ndlela yokubeka imisebenzi phambili iwusizo kakhulu. Futhi, ukwaneliseka okuzwayo lapho uqedela imisebenzi ohlwini lwakho ekugcineni kosuku akunakulinganiswa.
| Iseluleko sokuphatha isikhathi | Inzuzo enkulu yayo |
|---|---|
| Ukubhala idayari mayelana nesikhathi | Kukusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi isikhathi sakho sisetshenziswa kuphi ngempela. |
| Ukujwayela ukuthi 'cha' | Ukuvikela imingcele yakho nokonga isikhathi salokho okubaluleke kakhulu. |
| Uhlu Lokwenza Olunesikhathi | Ukubeka umsebenzi phambili nokuhlela usuku ngendlela ephumelelayo. |
| Ukuthola usizo kwezobuchwepheshe | Ukunciphisa amaphepha kanye nokungadingekile, nokugcina lonke ulwazi endaweni eyodwa. |
| Ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngempumelelo | Ukonga isikhathi ngokwenza imisebenzi eminingana ndawonye uma kufaneleka. |
| Ukuyeka ukufuna ukuphelela | Ukuyeka ukucindezela okungadingekile kanye nokuhlehlisa izinto, nokunciphisa ukucindezeleka. |
4. Thola usizo kwezobuchwepheshe
Ubuchwepheshe obufanayo obuntshontsha isikhathi sethu bungasongela nesikhathi. Ucingo lwakhoSebenzisa izinto ezifana namakhalenda, izinhlelo zokusebenza zohlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe, amanothi, njll. kukhompyutha yakho. Gcina izinombolo zocingo, amakheli, izinsuku ezibalulekile, imisebenzi okufanele yenziwe... konke endaweni eyodwa ngedijithali.
Izinqwaba zamakhalenda edeskini lakho, izinombolo zocingo ezibhalwe ephepheni elihlukahlukene, amakhadi ebhizinisi afihliwe phakathi kwezincwadi... Uma unezinkinga eziningi ezikuzungezile, kulapho uchitha khona isikhathi esiningi ufuna lezo zinto. Uma izinkinga zingasekho empilweni yakho, kuba lula ngawe ukuphatha izinto.
5. Ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngempumelelo
Sonke senza izinto eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa singaqapheli. Kodwa ezinye izinhlobo zokwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngesikhathi esisodwa ziyingozi kakhulu. Isibonelo, ukukhuluma ocingweni ngenkathi ushayela imoto kwandisa kakhulu ingozi yengozi yemoto. Ungalokothi wenze izinto ezinjalo.
Kodwa, kunezinto eziningi esingazenza ndawonye ngokuphephile .
- Lalela incwadi yomsindo noma i-podcast yemfundo ebhasini noma esitimeleni ngenkathi uya emsebenzini.
- Khokha izikweletu bese ugoqa izingubo ngenkathi ubukele i-TV.
- Hlela usuku lwakho ngokuzivocavoca umzimba .
Lezi zinto zingakongela isikhathi esincane. Ochwepheshe bathi abesifazane bangcono ekwenzeni imisebenzi eminingi kunabesilisa. Kodwa kukhona nezinto abesifazane abangazifunda ekhonweni lamadoda lokugxila emsebenzini owodwa.
6. Yeka ukuzama ukwenza konke kahle (Perfectionism)
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokwenza izinto ngendlela evamile. Ukuzama ukwenza konke kahle nangokuphelele ngokuphelele kuyindlela yokuhlehlisa izinto. Ugcina ukhathazeke kakhulu ngemininingwane emincane futhi ungayenzi into eyinhloko.
Ungazibeki imigomo ongeke uyifinyelele. Kuhle ukucabanga ukuthi, "Ngikwenza lokhu ngokusemandleni ami." Kodwa uma uqala ukucabanga ukuthi, "Ngikwenza lokhu ngokusemandleni ami," umane nje unezela ingcindezi nokucindezeleka okungadingekile kuwe. Ngakho-ke, zibekele imigomo engokoqobo.
Okokugcina, ungakhohlwa ukuzinika umvuzo. Uma wenza ngisho nokuthuthuka okuncane ngemva kokulandela lezi zinyathelo, kugubhe. Akudingeki kube yinto enkulu. Mhlawumbe kufana nokudla ukudla okuthandayo, ukuchitha isikhathi wedwa, noma ukubhucungwa. Ukuvuma impumelelo yakho kuzokukhuthaza ukuthi uqhubeke nale mikhuba emihle.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Dala idayari yesikhathi yamasonto onke ukuze ubone ukuthi isikhathi sakho sisetshenziswa kuphi ngempela.
- Ukuze uvikele impilo yakho yengqondo nesikhathi sakho, vuma ngenhlonipho ukuthi 'cha' ezicelweni ezingadingekile.
- Ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe, bhala nesikhathi umsebenzi ngamunye ozosithatha. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uqambe umsebenzi wakho kuqala.
- Ungazami ukwenza konke kahle (ukuphelela). Kudala ukucindezeleka okungadingekile futhi kuholele ekuzindeleni.
- Zikhuthaze ngokuzinika isipho esincane ngayo yonke intuthuko encane oyenzayo.
- Ukulawula isikhathi ukulawula ukucindezeleka. Uma unenkinga yokulawula lokhu kucindezeleka, ungangabazi ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho.
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