Enye yezinselele ezinkulu kumuntu onakekela ingane noma umuntu omdala one-autism ukungazi ukuthi ubhekana kanjani nomhlaba ngempela. I-Autism yisimo esivame ukumshiya yedwa umuntu. Kunzima kakhulu nangomuntu wangaphandle ukuqonda lezi zimpawu . Yingakho namuhla sizokhuluma ngalokhu kalula, njengokungathi singumngane wakho.
Izihluthulelo ezimbili eziyinhloko zokuqonda i-autism
Ngokusho kochwepheshe, isihluthulelo sokuqala sokuqonda i-autism ukwamukela ukuthi lesi simo sishintsha ngokuphelele indlela umuntu abona ngayo umhlaba, okungukuthi, indlela abona ngayo umhlaba.
Cabanga ngale ndlela. Kunjengokungathi umuntu one-autism unokungalingani ohlelweni lwakhe lwezinzwa. Kunjengokungathi ezinye zezinzwa zakhe ziphakanyisiwe kakhulu kanti ezinye ziphansi kakhulu . Ngenxa yalokho, ulwazi olufika ebuchosheni bakhe luvame ukusonteka. Ngakho-ke, kunzima kakhulu ngabo ukuqonda indawo abakuyo ngokunembile.
Kulabo kithi abangebona abane-autism, okungukuthi, labo "abanesimiso sezinzwa esivamile" ( esivamile ), sinekhono langaphakathi lokuhlunga izinto ezingabalulekile endaweni esikuyo bese sikhetha kuphela okubalulekile. Zonke izinzwa zethu zisebenza ndawonye ukusisiza sigxile kulokho okubalulekile.
Zicabange ungena ekamelweni eligcwele abantu. Uyabona ngokushesha ukuthi obani abalapho, ukuthi benzani, nokuthi ubhekana kanjani nakho. Kuyinto nje eyenzeka kithi.
Kodwa uma umuntu one-autism engena kulelo gumbi, ukunaka kwakhe kungase kugxile emsindweni ongaphandle kwefasitela, iphethini ekhaphethini, noma isibani esikhanya futhi sicisha. Bayaphuthelwa izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi, njengokuthi abantu bathini nokuthi baziphatha kanjani. Ngakho-ke umhlaba wonke ubonakala udida kakhulu futhi udidekile kubo.
Isihluthulelo sesibili ukuqonda ukuthi abantu abane-autism bazama ngamandla onke ukuqonda lesi siphithiphithi , lesi siphithiphithi, kanye nokusiqonda. Iningi lezenzo zabo, ezibonakala zingavamile kithi ngaphandle futhi kunzima ukuziqonda, empeleni ziyimizamo yokuxhumana noma yokulawula leli zwe eliphithizelayo.
Zisho ukuthini ngempela lezi zimpawu?
Yiziphi ezinye zezinto ezingaba nzima kumuntu one-autism ukuzenza empilweni? Ake sizibheke. Uma uqonda izizathu zalezi zenzo, ungaziqonda kangcono.
| Isici/Ukuziphatha | Kungasho ukuthini |
|---|---|
| Ukuzwela okukhulu komsindo | Umsindo omkhulu ungaba buhlungu kubo. Bangase bangakwazi ukumelana nomsindo wezimoto emgwaqweni noma umsindo wezitolo. Ngezikhathi ezinjengalezi, bavala izindlebe zabo . Abanye benza izinto ezifana nokunyakazisa noma ukubhakuzisa izandla ukuze banciphise ingcindezi. |
| Ukuzwela okukhulu ekuthinteni | Ngisho nezinto esingaziqapheli, njengokuthinta izingubo emizimbeni yethu noma umoya omncane, zingaba yinto engathandeki kubo. Abanye abantwana bazizwa sengathi izinwele ezithinta isikhumba sabo lapho begundwa zibahlaba ngezinaliti. |
| Izinkinga zokuxhumana | Ukukhuluma okulibazisekile kungenye yezimpawu zokuqala. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi abahlakaniphe kangako. Banenkinga yokuqonda ukuthi ulimi lusebenza kanjani. Bayacasuka kakhulu uma bengakwazi ukusho abakufunayo. Abanye abantu abakwazi ngisho nokubona noma ukuveza imizwa yabo. Ngakho-ke uma bezizwa becindezelekile, basebenzisa izindlela zokuziphatha eziphindaphindayo esikhundleni sokukhuluma ngakho. |
| Izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo | Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi abantu abane-autism bangabantu abathanda ukuba bodwa. Lokho akulungile. Bafuna ngempela ukuba nobudlelwano nabantu, kodwa abazi ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani . Imithetho yomphakathi engashiwongo iyimfihlakalo kubo. Ngakho-ke, ubudlelwano nabantu buyinto ebalethela ukukhathazeka okukhulu. Abanye abantu bakhuluma iqiniso ngaphezu kwalokho okufanele bakusho. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kungalimaza imizwa yabanye. |
Izindlela ababhekana ngazo naleli zwe elixakekile
Abantu abane-autism basebenzisa izindlela ezithile zokuziphatha ukuze bahleleke esiphithiphithini abasizwayo.
"Ukuvuselela"
Nakuba lokhu kungase kubonakale kungavamile kithi uma sibheka ngaphandle, empeleni akuhlukile kakhulu emikhubeni efana nokuluma izinzipho noma ukuthinta imilenze. Ubukhulu balezi zindlela zokuziphatha kubantu abane-autism buphakeme kakhulu. Abantu abaningi bathi lokhu "kushukumisa" kubalethela injabulo. Kwabanye, kubasiza ukuba baphume esimweni esicindezelayo. Kuphinde kubasize bagxile.
Isidingo sokugcina konke kuhlelekile (Inhlangano ephoqelekile)
Ingane ene-autism ingase ibuye ekhaya ivela esikoleni futhi kungakapheli imizuzu eyi-15 wonke ama-dinosaur ayo amathoyizi abekwe emgqeni owodwa ekamelweni layo. Lokhu kungabamangaza abazali.
"Sithanda ukuhleleka," kusho insizwa ene-autism. "Ezinye izingane zihlela amathoyizi azo ngobukhulu. Ezinye ngombala. Zikwenza ngendlela efanayo nsuku zonke."
Lokhu kuhleleka kungathinta nesimiso sabo sansuku zonke. Bajwayele ukwenza imisebenzi yabo yansuku zonke ngesimiso esifanayo . Uma kushintsha ngisho nakancane, bangacasuka kakhulu futhi badabuke. Uma incwadi eyodwa eshalofini ibheke phansi, bangase bazizwe sengathi lonke ishalofu lezincwadi liphazamisekile. Lona umzamo wabo wokuletha ukuhleleka ezweni elixakekile.
Ukuzikhandla kwengqondo
Lesi futhi isici esivamile esibonakala ku-autism. Bangaba nolwazi olumangalisayo nolujulile ngesihloko esisodwa. Kungaba izibalo zabadlali bekhilikithi, izincazelo zabalingiswa bekhathuni, noma izinhlobo zezimoto.
Lesi sithakazelo sinjengesivikelo kubo. Lolu lwazi lubasiza ukuba bangalahleki ezweni elixakekile. Futhi, ukuze ulinakekele, liyindlela engcono kakhulu yokungena ezweni labo.
"Uma ingane yakho ithanda ikhathuni ethi 'SpongeBob', funda nangoSpongeBob. Ngoba yileyo ndlela ongakhuluma ngayo nayo," kweluleka omunye umuntu one-autism.
Uma ingane yakho ithukuthele, ukukhuluma ngesihloko esithandayo kungasiza ekuyithuliseni. Lokho kusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukuzama ukuxhumana nayo ngokwezinga layo .
Lokho abazali nabanakekeli abangakwenza
Ukunakekela umuntu one-autism kungaba yinselele, kodwa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ngokwelashwa okufanele kanye nokungenelela, ungenza umehluko omkhulu.
Into engcono kakhulu ukuthi, kunezinto eziningi abantu abane-autism abangaziqondi ngokwemvelo.Imiyalelo eqondile ingasetshenziswa ukuzijwayeza. Izinto ingane evamile engazifunda nje, isibonelo, ukuqonda izimo zomphakathi nokufunda isimo sobuso, zingafundiswa yona isinyathelo ngesinyathelo.
Kunezindlela ezahlukene zokwelapha lokhu. Isibonelo, i-ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis), i-Floortime, njll. Kodwa indlela eyodwa ayifanele wonke umuntu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho bese unquma ukuthi iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu enganeni yakho .
Indima yakho njengomzali ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuzinikela nokuphikelela kwakho kunquma ikusasa labo. Ngenkathi udala indawo ephephile yengane yakho ekhaya, kufanele futhi uzame ukwandisa imingcele yabo kancane kancane.
"Njengomzali noma umnakekeli, kufanele uqale ungene ezweni lomuntu one-autism. Kulapho-ke kuphela lapho ungamkhipha khona."
Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni sokubaphoqa ukuba bangene "ezweni langempela," zama ukulibona ngombono wabo kuqala. Uthando lwakho, ukubekezela, nokuqonda kwakho kuyimithi engcono kakhulu abangayithola.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-Autism ayisona isifo, yindlela ehlukile yokubona umhlaba. Izinzwa zabo zisebenza ngendlela ehlukile kakhulu kunezethu.
- Ukuziphatha kwabo okubonakala kungavamile kithi (ukushukumisa, ukuzama ukugcina izinto zihlelekile) empeleni kuyindlela abayisebenzisayo ukubhekana nezwe elixakekile.
- Abantu abane-autism bafuna ukuba nobudlelwano nabantu, kodwa abazi ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani. Badinga usizo ngalokho.
- Indlela engcono kakhulu yokungena ezweni labo ukuba nesithakazelo ezintweni abazithandayo. Xhumana nabo ngalezo zihloko.
- Qiniseka ukuthi ubona udokotela wakho noma udokotela wezingane ukuze uthole ukwelashwa okufanele kakhulu kanye neseluleko sengane yakho.
- Njengomzali, ukubekezela kwakho, uthando, nokuqonda kwakho kungamandla amakhulu ingane engaba nawo.
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