Njengoba ubheka ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa ngothando, wake waphawula ukuthi ingane yakho ihlala igoqekile ebholeni? Abanye omama nobaba abasha bangase bazizwe besaba futhi besola lapho bebona ingane yabo igoqekile ebholeni ngezingalo nemilenze zombili. "Kungani ingane yami inje? Ingabe ayikhululekile?" bayabuza. Kodwa empeleni, esikhathini esiningi, lokhu akusikho okufanele ukwesabe. Kuyinto yemvelo kakhulu. Ake sixoxe ngakho futhi sixazulule noma yimiphi imibuzo ongase ube nayo.
Singayiqonda yini ingane esanda kuzalwa?
Cabanga nje, ingane yakho ibilokhu isesiswini sikanina izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye, endaweni encane kakhulu, efudumele, nephephile. Ngemva kokuphuma, leli zwe lisha kakhulu kulo. Imisindo emisha, amaphunga amasha, izinto ezintsha, imizwa emisha... Kufanele ijwayele konke lokhu. Ngakho-ke, izama ukuhlala 'esikhundleni sengane' isikhathi eside. Yingakho izingane zivame ukubukeka zigobile futhi zigobile.
Ngaphezu kwalokhu kuma, izinsana ezisanda kuzalwa zinezinye izenzo eziningana ezizenzakalelayo ezingakwazi ukuzilawula. Lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi 'i-reflexes'.
- Ukuncela : Kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho ubeka umunwe noma i-nipple yebhodlela eduze komlomo wengane yakho, izoqala ukuncela ngokuzenzakalelayo. Leli yikhono elingokwemvelo elimsiza ukuphuza ubisi.
- Ukuqonda ukubamba: Uma ubeka umunwe wakho esandleni somntwana wakho, bheka ukuthi usibambe kahle kangakanani. Lokhu futhi kuyindlela yokuqonda.
- I-Startle/Moro reflex: Uma ingane ishaqeka umsindo ozumayo noma ukunyakaza okungazelelwe, ingane izoshaqeka, iphonse izingalo nemilenze yayo eceleni, iphonse ikhanda layo emuva, bese izidonsela emuva. Lokhu futhi kuyinto evamile kakhulu.
Ezinsukwini zokuqala, umntwana akakwazi ukulawula lezi zinto. Kodwa kancane kancane, phakathi nezinyanga ezimbalwa, lokhu kusabela kuyancipha futhi uyaqaphela kakhulu lokho akwenzayo.
Kungani izingane zikhotha izandla kanje?
Ngisho noma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukukhuluma, ixhumana nawe ngomzimba wayo. Lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi "ulimi lomzimba." Lokhu kuxhawulana kuyingxenye yalolo limi.
Isizathu esiyinhloko yindlala . Yebo, ungase ujwayele ukukhala kakhulu kwengane yakho lapho ilambile. Kodwa ngisho nangaphambi kokuba iqale ukukhala, ikunikeza izimpawu ezincane. Uma ingane yakho isiseduze nokulamba, ungabona izandla zayo ziqina.
Ngesikhathi esizayo lapho uncelisa ingane yakho, qaphela lokhu. Ngemva kokuba ingane isiphuze ubisi futhi isigcwele , izandla ezimbili ezazibamba zizokhululeka kancane kancane futhi zibe lula. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane isiphilile kakhulu futhi igcwele.
| Isizathu | Incazelo |
|---|---|
| Izimbangela ezivamile nezingokwemvelo | Ukubonisa indlala, ukujwayela indawo esibelethweni, kanye nokuzindla okungaphakathi. |
| Izizathu zokukhathazeka | Ukugoqa izandla njalo, okuqinile kakhulu isikhathi esiningi sosuku, ikakhulukazi uma kuhambisana nezinye izimpawu (ukuqina, ubuthakathaka emalungeni). |
Zikhona yini izikhathi lapho kudingeka uqaphele khona?
Nakuba lokhu kuyinto evamile ezimweni eziningi, ezimweni ezingavamile, kungaba uphawu lwenkinga yezinzwa. Esinye sezimo ezinjalo yi -cerebral palsy .
Kalula nje, lesi yisimo esenzeka lapho kukhona umonakalo engxenyeni yobuchopho elawula ukunyakaza. Lokhu kuthinta ikhono lengane lokunyakaza umzimba wayo, ukulawula imisipha, ukuma kwayo, kanye nokulinganisela.
Uma ingane yakho ibamba izandla zayo ngokuqinile njalo, cishe usuku lonke, ngisho nalapho ilele , futhi ikhombisa izimpawu ezilandelayo, kubalulekile ukufuna iseluleko sikadokotela .
- Ukuzizwa ubuthakathaka emzimbeni
- Ukulawulwa kabi kwemisipha
- Ukuzindla kwenzeka kancane kakhulu .
- Ukuqina noma ukuqina okungajwayelekile ezingalweni nasemilenzeni
Uma usola kancane ukuthi ingane yakho inanoma yiziphi zalezi zimpawu, sicela ungenzi izinqumo ngokusekelwe kolwazi oluku-inthanethi. Xhumana nodokotela wezingane ngokushesha bese ucela iseluleko. Udokotela wakho kuphela ongahlonza isimo ngokunembile futhi akutshele iqiniso.
Ungamsiza kanjani umntwana wakho ukuba aphumule?
Ngisho noma lokhu kuyimkhuba evamile enganeni yakho, ungayisiza ukuthi iphumule futhi ihlole umhlaba ngokuthinta. Zama lezi zinto ezilula.
1. Hlikihla izandla zengane yakho: Beka isithupha sakho phakathi kwesandla sayo bese uyihlikihla ngobumnene nangothando ngendlela ejikelezayo. Qala phakathi bese usondela kancane kancane ezinzwaneni. Ngemuva kwalokho izozama ngokwemvelo ukusakaza iminwe yayo. Ungayiphoqi.
2. Yethula ukuthinta: Ngemva kokuba ingane yakho isivule izandla zayo, thinta izinto ezahlukene ngezandla zayo. Mvumele athinte izinto ezahlukene njengethoyizi elithambile, indwangu elukhuni kancane, ikhaphethi. Lokhu kuzovuselela imizwa nemisipha yayo.
3. Khuthaza ukuthwala isisindo: Uma ingane yakho ikhasa noma izama ukuhlala phansi, yikhuthaze ukuba ibeke izandla zayo phansi phambi kwayo bese izibeka isisindo. Lokhu kuqinisa imisipha ezandleni zayo.
4. Mfundise ukubamba: Mnike amathoyizi awathandayo, ngobukhulu nangemibala ehlukene. Ngemuva kwalokho uzolula isandla sakhe ukuze awathathe. Uma umnika amathoyizi anobukhulu obuhlukene, uzofunda ukulungisa isandla sakhe sibe nosayizi ngamunye.
5. Umdlalo othi 'Nika bese uthatha': Ngemva kokunikeza ithoyizi, licele futhi ngothando. Sebenzisa amagama alula anjengokuthi "Nginike ibhola, ndodana/ndodakazi." Ngisho noma engalinikezi ekuqaleni, uzojwayela lo mdlalo.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Kujwayelekile futhi kungokwemvelo ukuthi izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zibambe izandla zazo emlonyeni wazo. Kuwumkhuba kanye nomqondo ongokwemvelo wendawo ezazikuyo esibelethweni.
- Ukugoqana kwezibhakela zengane kungaba uphawu lokuqala lwendlala . Qaphela ukuthi izibhakela ziyaphumula yini ngemva kokusutha isisu nokuphuza ubisi.
- Uma ingane yakho iqinisa izibhakela zayo njalo futhi iqinisa izibhakela zayo kakhulu , futhi ihambisana nezinye izimpawu ezifana nokuqina noma ubuthakathaka ezithweni zayo, kungaba yisimo esidinga usizo lwezokwelapha.
- Uma unokungabaza noma ukwesaba , into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukubonana nodokotela wakho ngokushesha bese ucela iseluleko, ngaphandle kokuqagela.
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