Yu mama ɔ papa gɛt disɔda fɔ yuz sɔbstans? Nɔto yu wan, lɛ wi tɔk!

Yu fil lɛk se yu mama ɔ papa dɔn adikshɔn to rɔm ɔ ɔda drɔgs? Fɔ liv wit dis kin fil lɛk se na yu wan de. Bɔt nɔto yu wan de. Dɛn prɔblɛm ya wae kin kam wae pɔrsin de drink rɔm ɛn drɔg (lɛk opioid) na dɛn mɛrɛsin wae dɛn kin kɔl substance use disorders , ɔr na Inglish, substance use disorders .

Dis kכndyushכn wae dεn kכl `(Substance Use Disorder)` nכ de כnli afekt pכsin in hεlth, bכt i de afekt bak di we aw dεn de bihayv. Na rizin bak fɔ prɔblɛm dɛn na os ɛn na wokples. So, fɔ liv wit pɔsin we gɛt dis prɔblɛm, mɔ if na yu yon mama ɔ papa, nɔ kin izi. If yu de go tru dis ɛkspiriɛns, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to pɔsin bɔt wetin yu de fil. Gɛt di sɔpɔt we yu nid ɛn we yu fɔ gɛt.

Aw i tan lɛk fɔ liv wit yu mama ɔ papa we gɛt disɔda fɔ yuz sɔbstans?

Fɔ liv wit yu mama ɔ papa we de tek drɔgs kin rili at. I kin rili afɛkt aw yu de fil, aw yu de biev, ɛn ivin yu famili layf. I nɔ de fil di sem fɔ ɔlman, i difrɛn fɔ ɔlman. Si if sɔm pan di tin dɛn we de dɔŋ ya de apin to yu.

Aw yu go fil?

Sɔm pikin dɛn kin fil lɛk dis:

• Fɔ fil shem, vɛks, ɔ fil bad bad wan we dɛn mama ɛn papa de tek drɔgs.
• Dɛn kin wɔri ɔltɛm bɔt di wɛlbɔdi ɛn sef fɔ dɛn mama ɔ papa.
• Dɛn kin wɔri bɔt dɛnsɛf, dɛn brɔda ɛn sista dɛn, ɔ ivin dɛn ɔda mama ɛn papa dɛn .
• We yu de na os, yu kin fred, yu kin fil se yu wangren de, ɛn yu nɔ kin fil sef . I tan lɛk se prɔblɛm de ɔlsay na di os.
• I kin mek wi at pwɛl we mama ɛn papa nɔ go lɛf dis abit.
• Bɔt, i kin rili fil fri we mama ɛn papa dɛn du sɔm tin dɛn fɔ mek dɛn nɔ du dis.
• I at fɔ abop pan ɛnibɔdi, ɛn a kin fil lɛk se a nɔ ebul fɔ kip mi maynd fayn.
• A fil se a fɔ bi big pɔsin bifo a ol. A gɛt fɔ tek di wok dɛn we a fɔ du na os.
• Sɔntɛnde a kin fil se a kin aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn sote a nɔ kin ivin es mi ed .
• Sɔm pikin dɛn kin ivin gɛt tin dɛn lɛk pwɛl hat ɔ wɔri .

Aw yu go biev?

We dis kayn tin kin apin, sɔm pikin dɛn kin biev dɛn we ya:

• A kin tray ɔl wetin a ebul fɔ mek a nɔ vɛks pan mama ɔ papa we de yuz rɔm ɔ drɔgs.
• A kin tray fɔ de fa frɔm dɛn mama ɛn papa dɛn de as a ebul.
• Dɛn nɔ de tɔk bɔt wetin dɛn want ɔ aks fɔ am .
• Dɛn kin kip di we aw dɛn de fil to dɛnsɛf .
• Mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tray fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ no dis prɔblɛm .
• Dɛn kin ayd di rial tin we de apin na os frɔm ɔda pipul dɛn .
• A kin fred fɔ aks mi padi dɛn fɔ kam na os bikɔs a nɔ no aw mi mama ɛn papa go biev .
• Di wan dɛn we kin go skul kin go dɔŋ, ɔ i nɔ kin izi fɔ dɔn di skul wok .
• Big pipul dɛn kin tek di wok dɛn we dɛn nid fɔ du . Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ kia fɔ dɛn brɔda ɛn sista dɛn, fɔ kuk na os, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn.
• Bɔku tɛm, dɛn kin fɛt wit mama ɛn papa dɛn.
• Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin tɛmpt dɛn fɔ du bad to dɛnsɛf .
• Pan ɔl we dɛn de sɔfa bɔku insay, i tan lɛk se dɛn nɔ bisin bɔt ɛnitin na do.

Aw i go afɛkt famili layf?

Insay famili dɛn usay pɔsin we de tek drɔgs na prɔblɛm, tin dɛn lɛk dis kin apin:

• I nɔ kin izi fɔ mek mama ɔ papa ol in wok ɛn pe di bil dɛn na os .
• Sɔntɛm dɛn nɔ go gɛt tin fɔ it ɛn drink na os, ɛn mɔni nɔ go de na dɛn an .
• Big brɔda ɛn sista dɛn na di famili fɔ kia fɔ dɛn smɔl brɔda ɛn sista dɛn .
• Mama ɛn papa dɛn kin trit dɛn pikin dɛn bad, du bad, ɔ nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn .
• Mama ɔ papa kin drayv we i dɔn chak. If dat apin , dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm, wund , ɛn ivin du ɔda pipul dɛn bad .
• Sɔntɛnde, fɔ mek pikin dɛn sef ɔ fɔ kia fɔ dɛn, yu kin nid fɔ muf go ɔda ples fɔ go de .
• Mama ɛn papa dɛn kin separate ɔ dayvɔs .
• Bɔt sɔntɛnde, dɛn fambul ɔ padi dɛn kin tɛl dɛn fɔ ɛp .
• Sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt ɛp ɛn dɛn kin wɛl frɔm dis prɔblɛm . Dat na di bɛst tin we kin apin.

Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ ɔndastand se ilɛk wetin dis bi, nɔto yu fɔlt.

Wetin a go du?

If yu de wit yu mama ɔ papa lɛk dis, yu go mɔs dɔn rili gɛt prɔblɛm. Bɔt pipul dɛn de fɔ ɛp yu, fɔ protɛkt yu, fɔ sɔpɔt yu. Na sɔm tin dɛn we yu kin du:

Tɔk opin wan wit pɔsin.

Tɔk to yu bɛst padi ɔ big pɔsin we yu biliv. Dis kin bi yu skul advaysa, ticha, dɔktɔ, tritmɛnt, ɔ ivin yu fambul.Tɛl dɛn bɔt wetin yu de go tru. If yu tɛl yu aw yu de fil, dat go ɛp yu fɔ fil fayn, ɛn dɛn go ebul fɔ ɛp yu ɔda we dɛn.

Ɔndastand se dis nɔto yu fɔlt.

Sɔm pikin dɛn kin fil se na dɛn mama ɛn papa de tek drɔgs. Sɔntɛm dɛn kin blem yu we dɛn mama ɛn papa vɛks. "Na bikɔs ɔf mi mama de drink?" ɔ "Na bikɔs ɔf sɔntin we a du mek Papa de tek drɔgs?" Yu go de wɔnda. Bɔt lɛ wi tɔk klia wan se pikin nɔ go ɛva mek in mama ɔ papa gɛt prɔblɛm wit drɔgs. Na dat na dɛn prɔblɛm.

No di we aw yu de fil ɛn gi dɛn nem.

Nɔ bɔtul yu filin ɛn mek lɛk se ɔltin fayn. Ɔndastand aw yu de fil bɔt yu mama ɔ papa in drag prɔblɛm. Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil bad, vɛks, ɛn fred. Mek yusɛf fil wetin yu de fil. Yuz wɔd fɔ sho dɛn filin dɛn de, nɔto fɔ du bad tin. Praktis fɔ se, "A de fil dis we bikɔs ɔf dis."

Fɛn wan Sɔpɔt Grup

Sɔpɔt grup dɛn de fɔ pipul dɛn we de go tru dis. Fɔ ɛgzampul, ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn de lɛk Al-Anon/Alateen ɔlsay na di wɔl. Yu kin luk fɔ grup lɛk dat, ɔ fɛn ɛp na di Intanɛt. We yu tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn we dɔn pas di sem tin lɛk yu, dat go ɛp yu fɔ bia wit di prɔblɛm. Yu kin aks yu skul advaysa ɔ dɔktɔ bɔt dɛn ples ya.

Fɛn say we sef.

Yu kin avɔyd fɔ de na os as yu ebul? Ɔ yu kin tink bɔt fɔ rɔnawe kɔmɔt na os? If yu fil se yu nɔ sef na os, ɔ if yu tink se yu ɔ pɔsin na yu famili kin de pan denja, kɔl wan imejensi nɔmba lɛk 119 wantɛm wantɛm. Ɔ ɛjɛnshi dɛn de lɛk di Nashɔnal Child Protection Authority (NCPA) (dɛn fon nɔmba na 1929), yu kin tɛl dɛn bak. I rili impɔtant bak fɔ tɛl big pɔsin we yu trɔst bɔt dis.

Bil gud abit dɛn na yu maynd

Sɔm pikin dɛn kin lan fɔ kwayɛt ɛn nɔ sho aw dɛn de fil bikɔs dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn na os. Dɛn kin tink se if dɛn du dat, dɛn go ebul fɔ stɔp dɛn mama ɛn papa fɔ tek drɔgs. Pan ɔl we dɛn abit ya kin ɛp yu fɔ de sef na os, dɛn kin mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit ɔda tin dɛn na yu layf, wit yu padi dɛn, ɛn pan padi biznɛs we yu go gɛt tumara bambay. Fɔ lan fɔ tɔk bɔt wetin de na yu maynd, fɔ sho aw yu de fil, ɛn sho aw yu de fil, rili impɔtant fɔ mek yu gɛt gud padi biznɛs. Sɔmtɛm, saykotɛrapi kin ɛp yu fɔ bil gud abit lɛk dis.

Stɔp dis bad bad saykl.

I sɔri fɔ no se, di pikin dɛn we dɛn mama ɛn papa we gɛt disɔda fɔ yuz sɔbstans kin gɛt mɔ prɔblɛm wit dɛn kayn prɔblɛm dɛn ya tumara bambay. Bɔt dis nɔto sɔntin we pɔsin nɔ go ebul fɔ avɔyd.Yu kin lan aw fɔ avɔyd dis prɔblɛm bay we yu go na sɔpɔt grup ɔ gɛt advays .

Wetin wi nid fɔ lan frɔm dis

If yu si se yu gɛt prɔblɛm lɛk dis, sɔm impɔtant tin dɛn de we yu fɔ mɛmba:

• Nɔto yu wan de. Pipul dɛn de we gɛt di sem ɛkspiriɛns we yu gɛt ɛn we rɛdi fɔ ɛp yu.
• Dis nɔ ɛva bi yu fɔlt. Yu nɔ gɛt ɛni ripɔt fɔ wetin yu mama ɛn papa disayd fɔ du.
• Ɛp de we pɔsin kin gɛt. We dɛn de fɔ tɔk to yu, sɔpɔt yu, ɛn protɛkt yu.
• Tɔk to pɔsin we yu biliv. We yu sheb yu lod dɛn, dat kin mek yu rili fil fri.
• Tink bɔt yusɛf bak. E fayn fɔ tek kia ɔf yu maynd ɛn bɔdi wɛl bɔdi.
• Nɔ giv ɔp fɔ op. Pipul kin chenj ɛn wɛl.

Mɛmba se afta ɛni big big briz, di skay kin blu. Yu strɔng. Yu kin ebul fɔ pas dis.

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