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Ingaba umntwana wakho wahlukile kancinci? Masiqaphele nge-autism

Ingaba umntwana wakho wahlukile kancinci? Masiqaphele nge-autism

Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi umntwana wakho omncinci wenza izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwabanye abantwana? Mhlawumbi yena ukhetha ukuba yedwa. Okanye mhlawumbi akajongi ubuso babanye abantu xa ethetha. Kuqhelekile ngathi njengabazali ukuziva soyika kwaye sikhathazekile xa sibona izinto ezinje. Le yindlela kanye umdlali weqonga odumileyo kwihlabathi uGary Cole awaziva ngayo xa efunda ngentombi yakhe. Ngamava akhe, namhlanje siza kuthetha nge-autism, imeko ebangela iingxaki ezingqondweni zabazali abaninzi, kodwa inokulawulwa ukuba inolwazi olufanelekileyo.

Yintoni kanye kanye i-autism?

Ngamafutshane, i-autism ayisosifo. Yimeko yophuhliso lwe-neurological enxulumene nophuhliso lobuchopho. Oogqirha bayibiza ngokuba yi -Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Igama elithi "spectrum" lithetha ukuba le meko ichaphazela abantu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kakhulu. Ifana nomnyama wemibala. Omnye umntwana uneempawu ezahlukeneyo kunomnye. Abanye abantu bafuna uncedo oluninzi ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, ngelixa abanye banokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo.

Le meko ibangela imingeni ikakhulu kunxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha . Oko kukuthi, utshintsho lunokubonwa kwindlela abantu abasebenzisana ngayo nabanye, abathetha ngayo, abatshintshiselana ngayo ngezimvo, kunye nokuziphatha.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba i-autism ayibangelwanga yimpazamo yabazali, yimpazamo kwindlela umntwana akhuliswe ngayo, okanye naluphi na ugonyo. Loo ngcamango ayilunganga kwaphela.

Zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka siziqwalasele?

Nangona ezi mpawu zahlukile kumntwana ngamnye, kukho iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezinokubonakala. Ezi mpawu zihlala zibonakala xa umntwana eneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi mpawu zinokubonwa kwangethuba.

Uhlobo oluneempawu Imizekelo yezinto onokuzibona
Imingeni yobudlelwane boluntu kunye nonxibelelwano
  • Ukungabajongi abanye ngqo emehlweni (ukungajongani kakuhle emehlweni).
  • Akaphenduli xa ebizwa ngegama.
  • Andinamdla wokudlala nabanye abantwana, ndikhetha ukudlala ndedwa.
  • Ubunzima bokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu (ulonwabo, usizi).
  • Ukulibaziseka kokuthetha okanye ukungathethi konke konke.
  • Ukuphinda amazwi afanayo owavayo okanye owabonayo kumabonwakude (Echolalia).
  • Ukungenzi izinto ezinjengokushukumisa isandla sakho okanye ukukhomba into ethile.
Ukuziphatha Okuphindaphindwayo kunye Nokuzimisela Okulinganiselweyo
  • Ukuphinda-phinda into enye (umz., ukuqhwaba izandla, ukushukumisa iminwe, ukushukuma ubuyela umva).
  • Endaweni yokudlala ngamathoyizi ngokuqhelekileyo, benza izinto ezifana nokuwabeka emgceni aze awajikelezise.
  • Nokuba utshintsho oluncinci kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla (ukutya, ukuya esikolweni) lunokubangela ixhala elikhulu.
  • Ukuba nokukhetha kakhulu izinto ezifana nokutya uhlobo olufanayo lokutya, ukunxiba impahla efanayo, nokuhamba ngendlela efanayo.
  • Ukubonisa umdla ogqithisileyo kwinto ethile (umz. oololiwe, amanani).
  • Ezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo
  • Uvakalelo oluphezulu kwizandi ezithile, ivumba, ukukhanya, okanye ukuchukumisa (umz., ukuvala iindlebe zakho kwisandi seblender).
  • Ayiphenduli kakuhle kwiintlungu, ubushushu, okanye ukubanda.
  • Ukungaqhelekanga kwindlela yokulala nokutya.
  • Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho unezi mpawu?

    Musa ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho une-autism kuba nje eneempawu ezimbini kwezi. Wonke umntwana ukhula ngesantya esahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unamathandabuzo angapheliyo, kungcono ukufuna uncedo lweengcali kunokucinga ukuba, "Kulungile, ndiza kuphila ngcono xa ndikhula."

    Izinto onokuzenza njengomzali

    Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngomntwana wakho, musa ukuhlala ucingisisa ngawo. Njengokuba uGary Cole watshoyo, "Fumana iimpendulo ngokukhawuleza kangangoko unako."

    1. Funa ingcebiso kagqirha: Into yokuqala omawuyenze kukubonana noGqirha wakho wezifo zabantwana. Thetha naye ngokukhululekileyo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho kunye nazo naziphi na izinto ezikuxhalabisayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, uza kukuthumela kwingcali.Uza kuthunyelwa kwiNgcali yezeNgqondo yabantwana nabakwishumi elivisayo. Yingcali enjalo kuphela enokuyixilonga ngokuchanekileyo le meko.

    2. Ukungenelela kwangethuba kubalulekile: Okukhona le meko ibonwa ngokukhawuleza, kokukhona umntwana enokufumana inkxaso efunekayo kwaye aphuhlise izakhono zakhe. Ukubonelela ngonyango olufunekayo kunye noqeqesho ebuntwaneni, xa ingqondo yomntwana ikhula ngokukhawuleza, kuya kumnceda kakhulu ukuba oyise imingeni emininzi aza kujongana nayo kwixesha elizayo.

    3. Qaphela unyango kunye nenkxaso: Nangona kungekho nyango lwe-autism, kukho unyango oluninzi olunokwenza ubomi bomntwana bube lula kwaye luphucule izakhono zakhe.

    • Unyango lokuthetha: Lunceda ekuthetheni nasekuvezeni izimvo.
    • Unyango Lomsebenzi: Lukufundisa indlela yokwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla wedwa, njengokuxukuxa amazinyo, ukunxiba, nokubhala.
    • Unyango Lokuziphatha: Lunceda ukulawula ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga nokuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo.
    • Imfundo Ekhethekileyo: Ukubonelela ngemfundo eyenzelwe umntwana ngokwezakhono zakhe zokufunda.

    Intombi kaGary Cole, uMary, naye waya kwisikolo esiqhelekileyo encediswa ngumncedisi wemfundo ekhethekileyo. Waqhubeka nokufunda ngempumelelo kwiziko lemfundo ekhethekileyo elalimfanele. Oku kubonisa ukuba aba bantwana banokwenza lukhulu ukuba bafumana inkxaso efanelekileyo .

    Umyalezo omncinci kubazali

    Ukunyamekela umntwana one-autism kunokuba nzima. Usenokuziva udiniwe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ulusizi. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa . Kukho amawaka abanye abazali abadlula kolu hambo.

    Vuyani ngezinto ezincinci umntwana wenu azenzileyo. Vuyani xa enijonga emehlweni okokuqala, xa ethetha igama elitsha, xa efunda into entsha. Ngomonde, uthando, kunye nesikhokelo esifanelekileyo, ningavula indlela yokuba umntwana wenu aphile ubomi obonwabisayo nobunenjongo.

    Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

    • I-Autism ayisosifo, yimeko enxulumene nophuhliso lobuchopho. Ichaphazela umntu ngamnye ngendlela eyahlukileyo (iSpectrum).
    • Qaphela iimpawu ezinjengokungafuni komntwana wakho ukuncokola nabantu, ukulibaziseka kokuthetha, kunye nokuziphatha okuphindaphindwayo.
    • Ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungacingi ukuba "siza kubona kamva" kwaye bonana nogqirha wabantwana ngokukhawuleza.
    • Ukuchonga imeko ngokukhawuleza nokubonelela ngenkxaso yonyango efunekayo kubaluleke kakhulu kwikamva lomntwana.
    • Ngothando olufanelekileyo, inyameko, kunye nenkxaso, abantwana abane-autism banokufikelela ngokupheleleyo kumandla abo.

    I-Autism, i-Autism Spectrum Disorder, Impilo Yengqondo Yabantwana, Uphuhliso Lomntwana, Iimfuno Ezikhethekileyo, i-Asperger's Syndrome
    ⚠️ Important: The medical articles and information on Nirogi Lanka are for general awareness only, and are by no means a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. For any medical problem you have, consult a qualified physician immediately.

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    Ingaba umntwana wakho wahlukile kancinci? Masiqaphele nge-autism

    Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi umntwana wakho omncinci wenza izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwabanye abantwana? Mhlawumbi yena ukhetha ukuba yedwa. Okanye mhlawumbi akajongi ubuso babanye abantu xa ethetha. Kuqhelekile ngathi njengabazali ukuziva soyika kwaye sikhathazekile xa sibona izinto ezinje. Le yindlela kanye umdlali weqonga odumileyo kwihlabathi uGary Cole awaziva ngayo xa efunda ngentombi yakhe. Ngamava akhe, namhlanje siza kuthetha nge-autism, imeko ebangela iingxaki ezingqondweni zabazali abaninzi, kodwa inokulawulwa ukuba inolwazi olufanelekileyo.

    Yintoni kanye kanye i-autism?

    Ngamafutshane, i-autism ayisosifo. Yimeko yophuhliso lwe-neurological enxulumene nophuhliso lobuchopho. Oogqirha bayibiza ngokuba yi -Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Igama elithi "spectrum" lithetha ukuba le meko ichaphazela abantu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kakhulu. Ifana nomnyama wemibala. Omnye umntwana uneempawu ezahlukeneyo kunomnye. Abanye abantu bafuna uncedo oluninzi ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, ngelixa abanye banokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo.

    Le meko ibangela imingeni ikakhulu kunxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha . Oko kukuthi, utshintsho lunokubonwa kwindlela abantu abasebenzisana ngayo nabanye, abathetha ngayo, abatshintshiselana ngayo ngezimvo, kunye nokuziphatha.

    Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba i-autism ayibangelwanga yimpazamo yabazali, yimpazamo kwindlela umntwana akhuliswe ngayo, okanye naluphi na ugonyo. Loo ngcamango ayilunganga kwaphela.

    Zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka siziqwalasele?

    Nangona ezi mpawu zahlukile kumntwana ngamnye, kukho iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezinokubonakala. Ezi mpawu zihlala zibonakala xa umntwana eneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi mpawu zinokubonwa kwangethuba.

    Uhlobo oluneempawu Imizekelo yezinto onokuzibona
    Imingeni yobudlelwane boluntu kunye nonxibelelwano
    • Ukungabajongi abanye ngqo emehlweni (ukungajongani kakuhle emehlweni).
    • Akaphenduli xa ebizwa ngegama.
    • Andinamdla wokudlala nabanye abantwana, ndikhetha ukudlala ndedwa.
    • Ubunzima bokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu (ulonwabo, usizi).
    • Ukulibaziseka kokuthetha okanye ukungathethi konke konke.
    • Ukuphinda amazwi afanayo owavayo okanye owabonayo kumabonwakude (Echolalia).
    • Ukungenzi izinto ezinjengokushukumisa isandla sakho okanye ukukhomba into ethile.
    Ukuziphatha Okuphindaphindwayo kunye Nokuzimisela Okulinganiselweyo
  • Ukuphinda-phinda into enye (umz., ukuqhwaba izandla, ukushukumisa iminwe, ukushukuma ubuyela umva).
  • Endaweni yokudlala ngamathoyizi ngokuqhelekileyo, benza izinto ezifana nokuwabeka emgceni aze awajikelezise.
  • Nokuba utshintsho oluncinci kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla (ukutya, ukuya esikolweni) lunokubangela ixhala elikhulu.
  • Ukuba nokukhetha kakhulu izinto ezifana nokutya uhlobo olufanayo lokutya, ukunxiba impahla efanayo, nokuhamba ngendlela efanayo.
  • Ukubonisa umdla ogqithisileyo kwinto ethile (umz. oololiwe, amanani).
  • Ezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo
  • Uvakalelo oluphezulu kwizandi ezithile, ivumba, ukukhanya, okanye ukuchukumisa (umz., ukuvala iindlebe zakho kwisandi seblender).
  • Ayiphenduli kakuhle kwiintlungu, ubushushu, okanye ukubanda.
  • Ukungaqhelekanga kwindlela yokulala nokutya.
  • Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho unezi mpawu?

    Musa ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho une-autism kuba nje eneempawu ezimbini kwezi. Wonke umntwana ukhula ngesantya esahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unamathandabuzo angapheliyo, kungcono ukufuna uncedo lweengcali kunokucinga ukuba, "Kulungile, ndiza kuphila ngcono xa ndikhula."

    Izinto onokuzenza njengomzali

    Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngomntwana wakho, musa ukuhlala ucingisisa ngawo. Njengokuba uGary Cole watshoyo, "Fumana iimpendulo ngokukhawuleza kangangoko unako."

    1. Funa ingcebiso kagqirha: Into yokuqala omawuyenze kukubonana noGqirha wakho wezifo zabantwana. Thetha naye ngokukhululekileyo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho kunye nazo naziphi na izinto ezikuxhalabisayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, uza kukuthumela kwingcali.Uza kuthunyelwa kwiNgcali yezeNgqondo yabantwana nabakwishumi elivisayo. Yingcali enjalo kuphela enokuyixilonga ngokuchanekileyo le meko.

    2. Ukungenelela kwangethuba kubalulekile: Okukhona le meko ibonwa ngokukhawuleza, kokukhona umntwana enokufumana inkxaso efunekayo kwaye aphuhlise izakhono zakhe. Ukubonelela ngonyango olufunekayo kunye noqeqesho ebuntwaneni, xa ingqondo yomntwana ikhula ngokukhawuleza, kuya kumnceda kakhulu ukuba oyise imingeni emininzi aza kujongana nayo kwixesha elizayo.

    3. Qaphela unyango kunye nenkxaso: Nangona kungekho nyango lwe-autism, kukho unyango oluninzi olunokwenza ubomi bomntwana bube lula kwaye luphucule izakhono zakhe.

    • Unyango lokuthetha: Lunceda ekuthetheni nasekuvezeni izimvo.
    • Unyango Lomsebenzi: Lukufundisa indlela yokwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla wedwa, njengokuxukuxa amazinyo, ukunxiba, nokubhala.
    • Unyango Lokuziphatha: Lunceda ukulawula ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga nokuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo.
    • Imfundo Ekhethekileyo: Ukubonelela ngemfundo eyenzelwe umntwana ngokwezakhono zakhe zokufunda.

    Intombi kaGary Cole, uMary, naye waya kwisikolo esiqhelekileyo encediswa ngumncedisi wemfundo ekhethekileyo. Waqhubeka nokufunda ngempumelelo kwiziko lemfundo ekhethekileyo elalimfanele. Oku kubonisa ukuba aba bantwana banokwenza lukhulu ukuba bafumana inkxaso efanelekileyo .

    Umyalezo omncinci kubazali

    Ukunyamekela umntwana one-autism kunokuba nzima. Usenokuziva udiniwe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ulusizi. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa . Kukho amawaka abanye abazali abadlula kolu hambo.

    Vuyani ngezinto ezincinci umntwana wenu azenzileyo. Vuyani xa enijonga emehlweni okokuqala, xa ethetha igama elitsha, xa efunda into entsha. Ngomonde, uthando, kunye nesikhokelo esifanelekileyo, ningavula indlela yokuba umntwana wenu aphile ubomi obonwabisayo nobunenjongo.

    Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

    • I-Autism ayisosifo, yimeko enxulumene nophuhliso lobuchopho. Ichaphazela umntu ngamnye ngendlela eyahlukileyo (iSpectrum).
    • Qaphela iimpawu ezinjengokungafuni komntwana wakho ukuncokola nabantu, ukulibaziseka kokuthetha, kunye nokuziphatha okuphindaphindwayo.
    • Ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungacingi ukuba "siza kubona kamva" kwaye bonana nogqirha wabantwana ngokukhawuleza.
    • Ukuchonga imeko ngokukhawuleza nokubonelela ngenkxaso yonyango efunekayo kubaluleke kakhulu kwikamva lomntwana.
    • Ngothando olufanelekileyo, inyameko, kunye nenkxaso, abantwana abane-autism banokufikelela ngokupheleleyo kumandla abo.

    I-Autism, i-Autism Spectrum Disorder, Impilo Yengqondo Yabantwana, Uphuhliso Lomntwana, Iimfuno Ezikhethekileyo, i-Asperger's Syndrome
    ⚠️ Important: The medical articles and information on Nirogi Lanka are for general awareness only, and are by no means a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. For any medical problem you have, consult a qualified physician immediately.

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