Ngaba ukhe walubona utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo? Ngezinye iintsuku umntwana wakho wonwabile kakhulu kwaye ukhuthele kakhulu, aze ngosuku olulandelayo abe lusizi kakhulu, abe nomsindo, kwaye angakhathali ngayo yonke into? Kuqhelekile ukuba wena njengomzali uzive ukhathazekile kakhulu xa ubona utshintsho olukhulu kangaka. Namhlanje siza kuthetha nge-bipolar disorder , imeko yempilo yengqondo enokubonwa nasebantwaneni, kodwa abantu abaninzi abayazi.
Yintoni iBipolar Disorder?
Ngamafutshane, i-bipolar yimeko apho isimo sengqondo somntu, inqanaba lomsebenzi, kunye neengcinga zakhe zitshintsha ngequbuliso zibe ziimeko ezimbini ezigqithisileyo. Kwelinye icala, kunokubakho ulonwabo olukhulu, uchulumanco, kunye nomsebenzi (oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-'manic episode'). Kwelinye icala, kunokubakho usizi olukhulu, ixhala, kunye nokuziva ungenathemba (oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-'depression episode').
Nangona le meko idla ngokufunyaniswa kubantu abadala abancinci nakubantu abadala, ngamanye amaxesha inokuvela kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-6 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba nzima ukufumanisa umntwana onesi sifo. Oku kungenxa yokuba iimpawu ngamanye amaxesha zinokufana nezinye iimeko, ezifana nesifo sokungakwazi ukuqaphela (ADHD), okanye ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo komntwana.
Ngoko ke, ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, musa ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukubonana nengcali emazi kakuhle umntwana wakho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, kuyafaneleka ukufuna uluvo lwesibini komnye ugqirha.
Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwabantwana abancinci nabantu abadala?
Xa isifo sengqondo esibizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder sichaphazela umntwana omncinci, iimpawu zinokwahluka kancinci kunezo zibonakala kumntu omdala. Makhe sijonge umahluko ophambili.
| Uphawu | Imeko yabantu abadala | Imeko yabantwana abancinci |
|---|---|---|
| Isigaba seManic | Ulonwabo olugqithisileyo, umdla, amandla. | Endaweni yokuba wonwabe kakhulu, ungabonakalisa umsindo ogqithisileyo nokungazoli . |
| Isigaba sokudakumba | Usizi olugqithisileyo, ukudinwa bubomi, ukuncipha kwemisebenzi. | Usenokukhalaza ngeempawu zomzimba (ezifana neentlungu zesisu, iintloko ezibuhlungu) endaweni yokuxhalaba ngengqondo. |
| Iimpawu Zengqondo | Inokwenzeka, kodwa ayiqhelekanga ebantwaneni. | Banamathuba amaninzi okubona okanye okuva izinto ezingekhoyo kunabantu abadala. |
| Isantya somjikelo wesifo | Kunokubakho isithuba seeveki, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka phakathi kweziqendu zokuphambana noxinzelelo. | Ingatshintsha ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Ungashintsha phakathi kweempawu zokudakumba kunye neempawu zokuxinezeleka ngosuku olunye . |
Esinye isifo sempilo: i-DMDD
Kutshanje, kuye kwafunyaniswa enye imeko efana ne-bipolar, kodwa yahlukile. Ibizwa ngokuba yi-Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD). Le yimeko echaphazela abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-6 neli-18 ubudala, kwaye ibonakaliswa ziziganeko ezihlala ixesha elide zomsindo oqatha kunye nokuqhuma rhoqo kokuziphatha. Ayisiyo-bipolar. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukufumana ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo.
Unganceda njani njengomzali?
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufunyaniswe ene- bipolar disorder, zininzi izinto onokuzenza ukuze umncede ahlale esempilweni. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso.
- Nika umntwana wakho amayeza ngexesha: Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Ufanele unike umntwana wakho amayeza anikwe ngugqirha (afana 'nemithi yokulawula iimvakalelo', 'amayeza okuthintela ingqondo') ngexesha. Ukuba unengxaki yokukhumbula, seta isikhumbuzo kwifowuni yakho, sebenzisa ibhokisi yeepilisi, okanye usibhale phantsi kwenye indawo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuwasela amayeza ngelixa esesikolweni, thetha notitshala okanye umongikazi wesikolo ngawo uze wenze isicwangciso.
- Qaphela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga:Amayeza amaninzi ale meko avavanyiwe kuqala kubantu abadala. Ke ngoko, amanye amayeza anokubangela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kubantu abancinci (njengokutyeba, utshintsho kwiswekile yegazi kunye namanqanaba e-cholesterol). Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka uziqwalasele. Kusenokufuneka ukuba wenze uvavanyo lwegazi rhoqo.
- Thetha nootitshala esikolweni: Umntwana onesifo sengqondo esibizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder unokufuna inkxaso ekhethekileyo esikolweni. Oku kungabandakanya ikhefu elongezelelweyo ngamaxesha obunzima, umsebenzi wesikolo oncitshisiweyo, njl. Ngoko ke thetha nootitshala uze necebo lokunceda umntwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokufuneka ukuba umntwana wakho angangeni esikolweni okwethutyana de iimpawu zihlale zizinzile.
- Misela inkqubo eqhelekileyo: Umntwana onje unokuzuza kakhulu ngokuba nenkqubo eqhelekileyo. Vuka, utye, uzilolonge, kwaye ulale ngexesha elifanayo yonke imihla. Zama ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ekhaya kangangoko unako.
- Cinga ngonyango losapho: Imeko yomntwana inokuchaphazela lonke usapho. Inokubangela uxinzelelo emtshatweni wakho. Abanye abantwana basenokungaqondi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubantakwabo, okanye basenokuba nomsindo ngenxa yengqwalasela abayifumanayo. Unyango losapho lunokunceda wonke umntu ukuba aqaphele aze ajongane nale micimbi.
- Musa ukuthatha izisongelo ezisongela ubomi lula: Akukho mzali ufuna ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakhe uza kuzenzakalisa. Ngelishwa, izinto ezinjalo zinokwenzeka naphakathi kwabantwana abancinci. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho uthi ufuna ukufa okanye wenza izinto ezinokubangela ubomi bakhe bube sengozini, ungaze uyithathe lula loo nto. Susa naziphi na izixhobo, iziyobisi eziyingozi, njl. endlwini ngoko nangoko. Kwakhona, funa unyango ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, mse kwiSebe lezeMpilo eziNgxamisekileyo lesibhedlele esikufutshane (ETU).
Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho uselula?
Xa umntwana efikelela kwinqanaba lokufikisa, iimpawu kunye nonyango lwe-bipolar disorder zifana kakhulu nezo zabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, kunokubakho imingeni ekhethekileyo xa usebenza nomntwana okule minyaka.
Njengoko bekhula, banokuziva ngathi ubanyanzela ukuba bathathe unyango. Kungoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubabandakanya kwezi ngxoxo kunye nezigqibo. Kunye nogqirha, thethani ngokukhululekileyo nomntwana wakho malunga neendlela zonyango.
Njengabantu abadala, kubalulekile ukuba aba bantwana bahlale kude notywala neziyobisi, kuba banokusebenzisana namayeza okanye bangabi namdla. Kwakhona, ukulala nokuvuka ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kubangela uxinzelelo.Ukufunda indlela yokuzilawula kubaluleke kakhulu.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukufumanisa isifo sengqondo esibizwa ngokuba yi-bipolar disorder ebantwaneni kunzima. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokutsiba ufikelele kwizigqibo, bonana nengcali. Fumana uluvo lwesibini ukuba kuyimfuneko.
- Kubalulekile ukuthatha amayeza achazwe ngugqirha ngexesha elifanelekileyo nangedosi efanelekileyo . Qaphela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga.
- Misela umntwana wakho inkqubo eqhelekileyo . Oku kuya kunceda kakhulu ekugcineni imeko yakhe izinzile.
- Yazisa ootitshala besikolo kunye namanye amalungu osapho ngale meko kwaye ufumane inkxaso yomntu wonke .
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha okanye uziphatha ngendlela emenzakalisayo, ungaze uyityeshele loo nto. Funa uncedo lwezonyango ngokukhawuleza.
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