Enye yezinselele ezinkulu obhekene nazo njengomama noma ubaba omusha ukwenza ingane yakho izole futhi ilale kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucula noma ucula kangakanani, ingane yakho ayiyeki ukukhala. Ezikhathini ezinjengalezi, indlela eyayisetshenziswa okhokho bethu futhi esathandwa kakhulu emhlabeni wonke ukugoqa ingane yakho ngendwangu, noma 'i-Swaddling'. Lokhu kuthiwa kusiza ingane ukuba ilale kangcono ngoba izizwa ifudumele futhi iphephile sengathi isesiswini sikanina. Kodwa-ke, uma lokhu kungenziwanga kahle, kungaholela nasezimweni eziyingozi. Ngakho-ke, namuhla, ake sixoxe ngokuthi kuyini 'i-Swaddling', ukuthi yenziwa kanjani ngempela, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi kufanele imiswe nini.
Kuyini ngempela 'ukusonga'?
Kalula nje, 'ukusonga' isenzo sokusonga umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngendwangu encane, ebizwa ngokuthi 'ingubo', ngendlela ekhululekile, kodwa enganciphisi. Lokhu kunikeza umntwana umuzwa wokulondeka nokufudumala owawukuzwa esibelethweni. Lokhu kunciphisa ukusabela kokushaqeka futhi kuvumela umntwana ukuba alale kahle isikhathi eside.
Kodwa khumbula, akuwona wonke umntwana odinga ukusongwa . Akuyona imfuneko. Kodwa uma ukwenza, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani ngendlela efanele nangokuphephile . Ukusongwa okungalungile kungalimaza amalunga enqulu yengane futhi kubangele ukuminyana ngenxa yendwangu exegayo. Ngakho-ke masiqaphele lokhu.
Indlela yokumboza umntwana ngendlela efanele?
Lokhu akunzima njengoba ucabanga. Ngokuzijwayeza okuncane, ungakwenza lokhu kalula kakhulu. Landela lezi zinyathelo.
1. Lungisa indwangu: Beka ingubo yokusonga isicaba esikweleni. Bese ugoqa elinye lamakhona aphezulu phansi kancane.
2. Beka umntwana: Manje beka umntwana ebheke phezulu endwangwini ikhanda lakhe liphezu kwekhona eligoqiwe.
3. Songa uhlangothi lokuqala: Ngesandla esisodwa phezu komzimba womntwana, thatha ikhona lesobunxele lendwangu bese ulihambisa ngaphesheya komzimba womntwana uye ohlangothini lwesokudla. Manje, faka lelo kona lendwangu ngaphansi kwengalo yesokudla nomzimba womntwana. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele lingene ngaphansi komhlane womntwana nangaphansi kwephansi.
4. Songa uhlangothi lwesibili: Manje qondisa kancane ingalo yesobunxele yengane bese uyigcina ihambisana nomzimba. Thatha ikhona lesokudla lendwangu bese uyiletha ngaphesheya komzimba wengane uye ohlangothini lwesobunxele, bese uyibeka ngaphansi kohlangothi lwesobunxele.
5. Hlela phansi: Goqa noma uphendule kancane ekhoneni elisele lendwangu ngaphansi kwephansi lomntwana.
6. Ukuhlolwa kokugcina: Ikhanda nentamo yengane kuphela okufanele kubonakale. Okubaluleke kakhulu, imilenze yengane kufanele ikwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululekile phezulu naphansi nangakwesinye icala. Ungayisongi imilenze ngokuqinile noma ngokuqinile.Uma lokho kwenzeka, amalunga enqulu angase alimale.
Okubaluleke kakhulu: Ngemva kokusonga ingane, hlala ulala ngomhlane . Ungalokothi uyilale ngesisu noma ngohlangothi.
Yiziphi izinzuzo kanye nokungalungi kokufaka indwangu?
Njenganoma yini, le ndlela inezinzuzo nezinkinga zayo. Masiqaphele kokubili.
| Ochwepheshe | Ububi Nezingozi |
|---|---|
| Ukulala kahle: Ngenxa yokuthi umntwana uzizwa sengathi usesiswini, akavuki njalo futhi ulala kahle futhi njalo. | Ingozi ye-SIDS: Ukusonga ingane ngendlela engafanele nokubeka ingane esiswini sayo ukuze ilale kwandisa ingozi ye-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). |
| Ukukhala okuncane: Ezinye izifundo zibonise ukuthi izingane ezisongwe ngendwangu azikhali kakhulu. | Izinkinga zenqulu: Uma imilenze iboshwe kahle, kukhona ingozi yesimo esibizwa ngokuthi i-Developmental Dysplasia of the Hip (Dysplasia of the Hip). |
| Usizo lwezingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi: Lokhu kusiza ekukhuleni kwezinzwa nemisipha yalezi zingane, kanye nokuhambisana kwazo nokunyakaza. | Ukushisa ngokweqile: Ingubo iyisendlalelo esengeziwe sokumboza, okungabangela ukuthi umntwana afudumale ngokweqile. |
| Indawo efanele: Abazali abafaka indwangu banamathuba amaningi okulalisa izingane zabo ngomhlane. Lesi yisimo odokotela abasincomayo ukuze banciphise ingozi ye-SIDS. | Indwangu ekhululekile:Uma ingasongwanga kahle, indwangu ingakhululeka lapho umntwana enyakaza, okubangela ukuba iwele ebusweni bomntwana futhi kubangele ubunzima bokuphefumula. |
Wazi kanjani ukuthi ingane yakho ishisa kakhulu?
Yizwa isifuba somntwana wakho noma ingemuva lentamo yakhe. Uma lezo zindawo zijuluka futhi zishisa, umntwana wakho angase ashise ngokweqile. Futhi,
- Ukujuluka
- Izinwele ezimanzi
- Ukubomvu kwezihlathi
- Ukuphefumula okusheshayo
Hlola futhi lezi zimpawu. Uma kunjalo, gqoka ingubo encane noma usebenzise indwangu encane, njengokotini.
Umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu: Kufanele uyeke nini ukusonga?
Yilokhu okufanele wonke umama nobaba akwazi.
Kufanele uyeke ukusonga ingane yakho ngokushesha nje lapho ikhombisa izimpawu zokuzama ukugoba.
Izingane zivame ukuqala ukwenza lokhu phakathi kwezinyanga ezimbili kuya kwezine ubudala. Kule minyaka, izingane zingagoqana phezu kwezisu zazo, kodwa zingase zingakwazi ukugoqana ngomhlane wazo. Njengoba zombili izingalo zibambekile lapho zigoqana, uma zikwenza lokho, zingase zingakwazi ukugoqana, zibheke phansi, futhi zibe nobunzima bokuphefumula, okungandisa kakhulu ingozi ye-SIDS. Ngakho-ke, yeka ukugoqana ngokuphelele ngokushesha nje lapho ingane yakho yenza umzamo omncane wokugoqana.
Uyikhipha kanjani ingane ekusongweni?
Uma ingane ejwayele ukugoba indwangu ikhishwa ngokuzumayo kuyo, ingase ikhale kancane futhi ingafuni ukulala. Ngakho-ke ake senze lolu shintsho kancane.
Ekuqaleni, qala ukugoqa ingane yakho ingalo eyodwa iveziwe. Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, qala ukugoqa nenye ingalo. Bese uyeka ukugoqa ngokuphelele.
Into enhle ongayisebenzisa phakathi nalesi sikhathi sokuguquka 'isikhwama sokulala' noma 'ingubo egqokwayo' . Lokhu kufana nesikhwama esincane sokulala osigqoka enganeni yakho. Uma usigqoka, izingalo zengane yakho zingahamba ngokukhululeka, kodwa umzimba wayo uzohlala ufudumele. Futhi, azikho izingozi ezihlobene nezindwangu ezikhululekile. Leli 'sikhwama sokulala' liphephile enganeni yakho, noma lingagingqika. Lezi zingasetshenziswa kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho ineminyaka engaba ngu-2 ubudala.
Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka mayelana nokusonga noma ukuyeka, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho . Uzokuchazela ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu enganeni yakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukusonga indwangu kuyindlela yokuzola ingane yakho nokuyisiza ilale kangcono, kodwa akuyona impoqo.
- Uma umsonga umntwana wakho, kwenze ngokuphephile nangendlela efanele, ikakhulukazi ukuvumela imilenze nezinqe zakhe ukuthi zinyakaze ngokukhululeka.
- Okubaluleke kakhulu: Yeka ukusonga ingane ngokuphelele ngokushesha nje lapho ubona uphawu lokuqala lomntwana wakho ezama ukuphenduka (ngokuvamile cishe ezinyangeni ezi-2-4).
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyamsonga noma cha, hlala ubeka ingane yakho ngomhlane wayo uma ilele.
- Uma usuka ekusongeni, ukusebenzisa isaka lokulala elingenazandla kuyindlela enhle.
- Uma unokungabaza ngalokhu, qiniseka ukuthi uthintana nodokotela wakho.
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