Njengoko usuku lokuzalwa komntwana wakho lusondela, mhlawumbi uqala ukuba nemibuzo. "Kuthekani ukuba ndifike emva kwexesha esibhedlele?", "Kuthekani ukuba ndibe nomntwana ngaphambi kokuba ugqirha wam afike apha?", "Kuthekani ukuba andikwazi ukumelana nentlungu?", "Owu, kuthekani ukuba ndikhupha indle ngengozi ngelo xesha...?" Zonke ezi ziingcinga eziqhelekileyo ezifika engqondweni. Azingoomama abaqalayo kuphela, kodwa nakoomama abaqalayo okwesibini okanye okwesithathu.
Ukuba ukuzalwa kwakho kokuqala bekulula, usenokuba nexhala, "Ngaba kuza kuba nzima ngeli xesha?" Ukuba okokuqala bekunzima, usenokuba nexhala, "Ngaba kuza kuba njalo kwakhona?" Ukuba le yeyokuqala, usenokuba nexhala lokuba uza kuphinda ucinge. Kodwa le ayisiyongxaki yakho kuphela. Oku kuxhaphakile kakhulu. Ngoko masithethe ngayo.
Kutheni sivakalelwa lolu loyiko?
Ngamafutshane, luloyiko lwezinto ezingaziwayo. Xa "ukuzala" kuba sisiganeko sokwenyani esasisakuba sisahluko sencwadi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva unexhala, unomdla, kwaye usoyika. Ngamanye amaxesha sicinga ukuba ukwenza 'isicwangciso esikhulu sokuzala' kuya kuyiphelisa le ngxaki. Kodwa oogqirha bathi eso asisosisombululo silungileyo.
Inyani yile, umntwana wakho ulawula phantse yonke into ngomhla wokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Ngoncedo oluncinci oluvela kwindalo, kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba nokuba uceba kangakanani na, yonke into iza kuhamba njengoko bekucwangcisiwe.
Kunoko, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukubhala phantsi izinto ezi-5 okanye ezi-6 oza kuzixhalabisa ephepheni uze uzixoxe nogqirha wakho ngaphambi komhla wokuzalwa. Ukwazi ukuba wena nogqirha wakho niyafana kunokukunceda unciphise uloyiko lwakho.
Uloyiko oluqhelekileyo kunye neempendulo kuzo
Nangona uloyiko lomama ngamnye lwahlukile, kukho uloyiko oluqhelekileyo olufana nolwabaninzi. Masithethe ngalo kwaye ukhululeke.
| Uloyiko Oluqhelekileyo | Oko kufuneka sikwazi ngokwenene (Inyani Eqinisekisayo) |
|---|---|
| 1. Uloyiko lokungakwazi ukunyamezela iintlungu zokubeleka | Akukho mfuneko yokunyamezela iintlungu kule mihla. Zininzi iindlela zokuphelisa iintlungu. Thetha nogqirha wakho kwangaphambili uze ukhethe okulungileyo kuwe. |
| 2. Ukoyika ii-epidurals | I-epidural yinkqubo ekhuselekileyo kakhulu. Iingxaki ezinkulu azixhaphakanga. Iziphumo ezincinci (umz. iintlungu zomqolo) nazo azixhaphakanga kakhulu. |
| 3. Uloyiko lokuya kwenziwa utyando ngotyando (C-Section) | Utyando lwe-C-section lwenziwa kuphela xa kuyimfuneko ngokwenene kukhuseleko lukamama nomntwana. Ngoku lutyando olukhuselekileyo kakhulu. Ukuba ugqirha wenza isigqibo esinjalo, mthembe. |
| 4. Uloyiko lokufika emva kwexesha esibhedlele | Ingakumbi kumama oqalayo, ixesha lokulinda lidla ngokuba ziiyure ezininzi. Ngoko ke amathuba okufika emva kwexesha mancinci kakhulu. Paka ibhegi yakho kwangaphambili kwaye ucwangcise indlela yakho. |
| 5. Uloyiko lokuba nomntwana ngaphambi kokuba ugqirha afike | Xa usiya kwigumbi lokubeleka esibhedlele, awuwedwa. Abahlengikazi abanamava kunye nabanye oogqirha bahlala bekunye nawe. |
| 6. Ukoyika ukuphuma indle ngexesha lokubeleka | Oogqirha bakubona oku njengophawu oluhle kakhulu. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana ukwindawo efanelekileyo kwaye ukuzala kuhamba kakuhle. Ngoko ke musani ukuba neentloni okanye ningoyiki. |
Okungakumbi malunga neNtlungu yokuBaleka
Kuqhelekile ukoyika "amabali abuhlungu" okubeleka. Kodwa akukho mama ufanele akhathazeke ngenxa yentlungu ebuhlungu.Khumbula loo nto. Fumanisa kwangaphambili ukuba isibhedlele oza kubelekela kuso umntwana wakho sinesithomalalisi se-anesthesia esisebenza iiyure ezingama-24. Ukuba kunjalo, ungafumana i-epidural nangaliphi na ixesha.
Ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, ungakhathazeki. Thetha nogqirha wakho ngezinye iintlobo zeziyobisi. Ezi zinokwenza umntwana wakho alale kancinci, kodwa zezokwexeshana. Ugqirha wakho uza kulungisa amayeza ukuze ahambelane nesigaba sakho sokubeleka ukuze iziphumo kumntwana wakho zibe zincinci.
Ukongeza, ukuziqhelisa ukuphefumla ngendlela ehambelanayo kunokunceda ukulawula iintlungu kakhulu. Ungafunda ngezi zinto kwiiklasi zoomama abakhulelweyo.
Kuthekani ukuba kufuneka ndenze i-C-Section?
Ukuba ulindele ukuzalwa okuqhelekileyo, unokoyika ukuba ugqirha wakho ngequbuliso ucebisa ukuba kwenziwe utyando lwe -C-section . Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, ungathandabuzi ukubuza, "Kutheni kusenziwa esi sigqibo?" kunye "Akukho ndlela yimbi na?"
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kufuneka ukwenze oko, kungcono ukuthemba ugqirha wakho ngelo xesha. Utyando lwe-C-section olungxamisekileyo ludla ngokwenziwa ngenxa yezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- Ubungakanani bomntwana bukhulu xa buthelekiswa nobukhulu bomzimba wakho.
- Umntwana utshintshela kwindawo engaqhelekanga ngexesha lokubeleka .
- Umlomo wesibeleko awuvuleki ngokwaneleyo (umlomo wesibeleko awuvuleki).
Iingozi zotyando lwe-C-section azikho zero, kodwa ziphantsi kakhulu. Ukuba ugqirha wakho uthi kuyimfuneko ukuze ubeleke kakuhle, ungakhathazeki ngaloo nto.
Uhambo oluya esibhedlele
Ukuba ngumntwana wakho wokuqala, kusenokufuneka ulinde ixesha elide kunokuba ucinga. Ngoko ke ungakhathazeki ngokuba nomntwana eteksini okanye evenkileni. Amathuba okuba oko kwenzeke mancinci kakhulu. Kodwa kungcono ukulungiselela kwangaphambili.
- Yilungiselele ibhegi yakho yesibhedlele ubuncinane iiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba umntwana abelekwe.
- Yenza isicwangciso esicacileyo sendlela oza kufika ngayo esibhedlele emini nasebusuku (imoto, umqhubi).
- Ukuba lo ngumntwana wakho wesibini okanye wesithathu, lungiselela kwangaphambili ukuba kubekho umntu oza kunyamekela abanye abantwana ngelixa wena usiya esibhedlele.
Xa ukuqaqanjelwa kwakho kuqalisa ukuza rhoqo , oko kuthetha ukuba ixesha eliphakathi kokuqaqanjelwa liba lifana, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka ufowunele ugqirha wakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kuqhelekile kakhulu ukoyika ukuzala. Awuwedwa ovakalelwa ngolu hlobo.
- Endaweni yokwenza 'isicwangciso esikhulu sokubeletha', thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho malunga noloyiko lwakho kwangaphambili .
- Musa ukoyika iintlungu. Ngezonyango zanamhlanje, zininzi iindlela ezikhuselekileyo zokulawula iintlungu .
- Ukuba kuyimfuneko ukwenza utyando lwe-C-section, lwenziwa ngenxa yokhuseleko lwakho nolomntwana wakho. Themba oogqirha ngelo xesha.
- Awusoze ube wedwa esibhedlele. Abasebenzi bezonyango abanamava bahlala bekulungele ukukunceda.
- Endaweni yokuzama ukulawula yonke into, zama ukuphumla uze uthembe umzimba wakho kunye nogqirha wakho.











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