Enye yenjabulo enkulu yokuba ngumama okhulelwe ukubona isisu sakho sikhula usuku nosuku. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, kuvamile kakhulu ukuba nemibuzo efana nokuthi, "Kungani isisu sami singakabonakali?" noma "Ingabe yisisu sami kuphela esikhula ngokushesha kangaka?". Akumangazi ukuthi ucabanga ngalokhu njengomama ozayo. Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kuhlukile. Ngakho isikhathi esithathayo ukuze isisu sakho sibonakale singase sihluke kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho komngane wakho. Ake sixoxe ngakho konke lokhu namuhla.
Kusukela nini uqala ukubukeka "ukhulelwe"?
Esikhathini esiningi, isisu sakho ngeke sibonakale phakathi nekota yokuqala yokukhulelwa kwakho. Ngisho noma umzimba wakho udlula ezinguqukweni eziningi ngaphakathi, ingane yakho isencane kakhulu. Njengethambo elincane. Ngakho ngeke ubone umehluko omkhulu ngaphandle. Kodwa cishe uzowubona umehluko ngenxa yokungakhululeki okuzwayo ngaphakathi kanye nezifiso zokudla okungajwayelekile.
Ngokuvamile, isisu sakho siqala ukuphuma kancane futhi sibonakale kwabanye ngesikhathi se-trimester yesibili . Okusho ukuthi, phakathi kwamasonto angu-16 no-20. Ngalesi sikhathi, isibeletho sesikhule kancane futhi siqala ukuphakama ngaphezu kwamathambo esinqe. Yilapho isisu siqala khona ukuhamba kancane. Ngalesi sikhathi, uzoqala nokuzwa ukunyakaza okuncane kwengane.
Kodwa khumbula, abanye omama bangase bangaboni kahle isisu sabo kuze kube sekupheleni kwekota yesibili, noma ngisho nasekuqaleni kwekota yesithathu . Lokho kuvamile ngokuphelele.
Kungani abanye abantu besheshe baphume isisu?
Kunezizathu eziningana ezenza izisu zomama abathile zivele ngaphambi kwesikhathi kunezinye. Cabanga nje, ngesikhathi umngane wakho ekhulelwe ingane yakhe yesibili, wamangala ukubona isisu sakhe sivela ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbili.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukungaqhathanisi ukukhulelwa kwakho nabanye. Wonke umzimba kanye nokukhulelwa ngakunye kuhlukile.
| Izizathu zokuthi kungani ungabona isisu sakho ngokushesha | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Ukukhulelwa kwesibili noma kwesithathu | Ngemva kokubeletha umntwana wakho wokuqala, imisipha yesisu sakho kanye nemisipha ebamba isibeletho sakho endaweni yayo inwebeka kancane. Kufana nebhande lerabha, futhi kulula ukulidonsa okwesibili, akunjalo? Ngokufanayo, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili, njengoba isibeletho sakho sikhula, isisu sakho siqhubekela phambili ngokushesha okukhulu. |
| Ubuthakathaka bemisipha yesisu | Uma imisipha yakho engaphakathi ingaqinile ngokwanele, kuzoba nokumelana okuncane kokubamba isibeletho njengoba sikhula, ngakho isisu sakho sizoqala ukubonakala ngokushesha. |
| Ubudala | Imisipha yabesifazane asebekhulile ayinakunwebeka kwemvelo okungavamile, ngakho-ke izisu zabo zingase zibonakale ngokushesha. |
Ingabe zikhona izizathu ezenza isisu sibonakale sekwephuzile?
Yebo, nakanjani. Abanye omama ababoni ingxenye enkulu yesisu sabo kuze kube yi-trimester yesithathu. Kunezizathu eziningana zalokho.
- Ukukhulelwa kokuqala: Uma lona kungumntwana wakho wokuqala, imisipha yakho yesisu ingaba namandla kakhulu, ngakho-ke ingabamba isibeletho njengoba sikhula.
- Ukuphakama nesimo somzimba: Uma umude, isibeletho sakho sinendawo enkulu yokukhula esiswini sakho, ngakho-ke kuthatha isikhathi ukuthi isisu sakho sibonakale.
- Isisindo somzimba : Kwabesifazane abakhuluphele kancane, kungathatha isikhathi ukuthi isisu sibonakale siyindilinga ngenxa yokukhulelwa. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukuma kwesisu kungashintsha ngenxa yamafutha emzimbeni kunokukhula komntwana. Ngakho-ke, kungathatha kuze kube yi-trimester yesithathu ukuba kuvele "iqhubu lomntwana" elicacile.
Kunini lapho kufanele sikhathazeke ngalokhu?
Lena yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, akuyona inkinga ukubona isisu sakho sekwephuzile. Kodwa-ke, uma usesigabeni sesithathu sokukhulelwa (ngemuva kwamasonto angama-28) futhi ungaboni kukhula esiswini sakho noma uma unokungabaza, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngakho. Udokotela wakho angaqinisekisa ukuthi ingane ikhula kahle ngokusebenzisa amaskeni kanye nokulinganisa.
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukungakwazi ukubona isisu sakho kungaba uphawu lwenkinga yempilo.
1. Umfutho wegazi ophakeme: Umfutho wegazi ophakeme ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ikakhulukazi i-preeclampsiaUma lokhu kwenzeka, kungaphazamisa ukunikezwa kwegazi esibelethweni. Lokhu kungabangela ukuthi umntwana akhule kabi futhi abe mncane ngosayizi. Ngisho nalapho, isisu sakho ngeke sibukeke sikhulu kangako.
2. Isisindo Esiphansi Sokukhulelwa: Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ayikhuli kahle esibelethweni. Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yezizathu eziningana. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ingane incane futhi ayikhuli esibelethweni. Lokhu kuyingozi nakumntwana. Isibonelo, ngemva kokuzalwa, kungaba nzima ukulawula izinga lokushisa lomzimba, ukuba nomfutho wegazi ophansi, kanye nobunzima bokuphefumula.
3. Isisindo somzimba esiningi: Uma ukhuluphele ngokweqile, kungaba yingozi kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Isibonelo, kwandisa ingozi yesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa , ukuphuphuma kwesisu, kanye nokuhlinzwa okuphuthumayo kokuhlinzwa .
Khumbula, ungesabi lutho lwalokhu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uye emitholampilo ngesikhathi futhi ucele iseluleko kudokotela wakho ngokushesha uma unezinkinga.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Isikhathi lapho isisu sakho siqala ukubonakala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa siyahlukahluka kakhulu kuye ngomuntu nomuntu. Ungakhathazeki ngakho.
- Ungalokothi uziqhathanise nanoma ubani omunye, ngisho nokukhulelwa kwakho kokuqala. Lonke uhambo lusha.
- Kuvamile ukuthi isisu sivele ngokushesha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesibili noma okulandelayo.
- Lokhu kuthinteka ubude bakho, isisindo, kanye namandla emisipha.
- Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi umntwana ukhula kahle yini esibelethweni. Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuya emitholampilo yezokwelapha ngezinsuku ezihleliwe.
- Uma unokungabaza noma inkinga encane kakhulu, ungalibali ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngayo.
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