"Tikanga Tango" (Whakamutu): He Kōwhiringa Whakaora Whānau Whai Hua Tēnei?

Kua rongo pea koe i te "tikanga tango," kei te whakamahia rānei e kōrua ko tō hoa. E mōhiotia ana ko te coitus interruptus, ko tēnei tikanga me tango katoa e tō hoa tana ure i tō tara i mua tonu i te putanga mai o te ure. He māmā noa te whāinga: kia kore ai e uru te purapura ki roto i tō tinana, kia kore ai e tae te purapura ki te hua manu.

He pēhea te mahi a te "Tikanga Tango"?

Hei mārama ki te mahi a tēnei, me titiro tātou ki te koiora o te haputanga. Kia puta ai te haputanga, me tomo te parāoa ki roto i tō tara, me haere ake mā roto i tō kōpū, me te whakamomona i te hua manu ki roto i tētahi o ō ngongo whooping. E mōhiotia ana tēnei tukanga koiora ko te whakamomona.

Mā te tikanga hutihuti, ka hutihuti tō hoa i tana ure i roto i tō tara i mua i tana putanga mai . E ai ki te ariā, ki te kore te purapura e tomo ki roto i tō tara, kāore e taea e te purapura te haere ki roto i ō ngongo fallopian, ā, ka kore ai e puta te whakatō.

He pēhea te whai huatanga o tēnei tikanga? Ka taea e ia te ārai i te hāputanga?

Koinei te pātai tino nui. I te ao tūturu, e 80% noa iho te whai huatanga o te tikanga tango. Ko te tikanga tēnei, tata ki te 1 i roto i te 5 ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakawhirinaki ana ki tēnei tikanga anake ka pāngia e te hāputanga kāore i te whakaarohia i roto i te tau kotahi.

Ki te whakaritea ki ētahi atu kōwhiringa ārai hapūtanga—pērā i ngā taputapu ā-roto (IUD), ngā pire ārai whānau, ngā ure rānei—he iti ake te pono o te tango i te ure. Haunga tēnā, ahakoa he pai te tiaki a ngā ure i ngā mate tuku iho (STI), kāore rawa he tiaki a te tikanga tango i te ure i ngā mate tuku iho.

Heoi anō, he pai ake te whakamahi i te tikanga tango i te pēpi i te kore whakamahi i te ārai whānau, nā te mea ka whakaitihia te tūponotanga o te haputanga. Heoi anō, me mahara koe ehara i te mea he tikanga ārai whānau tino whai hua.

Ahakoa ka puta tō hoa i te wā tika i ia wā, ka kore tonu e angitu tēnei tikanga. Tērā pea kua maha ngā tau e whakamahia ana e koe tēnei tikanga, kāore he raruraru, ā, e whakaaro ana koe he haumaru. Heoi, kāore te angitu o mua e whakamana i ngā hua ā muri ake nei—he hapa iti noa iho, he āhuatanga ohorere rānei ka puta ai te haputanga.

He aha i tino teitei ai te auau rahunga o te Tikanga Tango?

Ko te whakamahi tino tika i tēnei tikanga me tino whakahaere, ā, kāore he wāhi e puta ai he hapa. Me titiro tātou ki ngā take matua e kore ai e angitu te tango moni.

Te uaua ki te wā tino tika

Koinei te arai nui rawa atu. He tino uaua te matapae tika i te wā tika o te whakaputanga. He mahi whakaoho te whakaputanga e puta ana i te tihi o te ahuareka o te moepuku, i te tīmatanga tonu o te orgasm. I ngā wā o te whakaoho nui, he tino uaua te whai i te aroaro o te hinengaro me te mana whakahaere tinana kia puta i te mirihekona tika.

• Mena he iti ake te wheako o tō hoa ki te moepuku, kāore pea ia i te tino mārama ki ngā tohu whakatūpato o tōna tinana i mua i te putanga mai o te ihu .
• Ahakoa mō ngā hoa mahi kua roa e mahi tahi ana, ka taea e ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te ahotea , te ngenge, te inu waipiro rānei te whakararu i te mana whakahaere i a koe anō, ā, ka arahi atu hoki ki ngā hapa.

Nō reira, he nui, he pumau hoki te mōrearea o te whakawhirinaki ki te wā tino tika.

Kei roto te parāoa i mua i te putanga mai (i mua i te putanga mai o te ira tangata)

Ahakoa ka puta pai mai tō hoa i te wā tika, ka taea tonu e te parāoa te tomo ki roto i tō tinana. Pēnei te mahi: i mua i te putanga mai o te ure, ka tukuna maoritia e te tinana o te tāne te wai i mua i te putanga mai o te ure (e kiia ana ko te pre-cum) . Ahakoa ehara tēnei wai i te pūtake mai i ngā testes, ka taea e ia te kohi i te parāoa hohe e toe ana i roto i te urethra mai i ngā putanga mai o mua. Mēnā ka tomo tēnei wai i mua i te putanga mai o te ure ki roto i tō tenetene, ka taea tonu te hapu.

I maringi te purapura purapura tata ki te tara, ki te Vulva rānei

Hei tāpiritanga, ki te maringi te purapura ki ō huha, ki hea rānei e tata ana ki tō ira tangata o waho (vulva), he iti tonu te mōrearea o te haputanga. Kia maumahara, he kaha te kauhoe o ngā pūtau parāoa. Ki te mea he ara makuku e hono ana i te purapura i maringi ki te pūaha o te tara, ka taea e te parāoa te kauhoe ki runga ki roto i te tara, ka arahi pea ki te whakatōnga.

He aha ngā ngoikoretanga o te tikanga tango?

E mōhio ana tātou ināianei ehara tēnei i te tikanga ārai hapūtanga tino pono. Haunga ngā mōrearea koiora, he maha atu anō ngā ngoikoretanga hei whakaaroaro:

• Ko te kawenga katoa o te ārai whānau kei runga i tō hoa rangatira: I roto i tēnei whakaritenga, kāore he mana whakahaere māu (te hoa e mōrearea ana ki te haputanga) mō te putanga. Mena he hapa tā tō hoa rangatira i te wā tika, kāore rānei i taea te whakamutu i te whānautanga nā te werawera o te wā, ko koe te tangata me aro ki ngā hua o te haputanga kāore i whakamaheretia.
• Ka tino taumaha te whanaungatanga: Mā te manukanuka tonu, "Ka puta mai ia i te wā tika?" ka tino whakaiti i te whanaungatanga me te harikoa. He maha ngā wā ka puta he ahotea hinengaro i roto i tēnei manukanuka mō ngā hoa e rua.
• Kāore e whakakorea te hiahia mō ngā kōwhiringa tārua: Mena he hapa, he whakapae rānei kua uru te purapura ki roto i te tara, me rapu koe i te ārai hapūtanga ohorere (pēnei i te pire ārai hapūtanga ohorere ) . He iti ake te ahotea o te whakamahi i tētahi tikanga tuatahi pono mai i te tīmatanga.
• Kāore he parenga mai i ngā Mate Tuku Iho ( STI ): He mea nui tēnei hei whakaaroaro mā te hauora. Kāore i rite ki ngā ure tāne, kāore te tango i te ure tāne e ārai i te horapa o ngā STI pēnei i te Trichomoniasis, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea rānei, e horapa ana mā te pā o te ira tangata me ngā wai i mua i te putanga mai o te ira tāne.

Ki te whiriwhiri koe ki te whakamahi i te tikanga tango, he mea nui kia tuwhera, kia pono hoki kōrua ko tō hoa ki te kōrero mō ngā mōrearea me ngā kawenga e pā ana.

He aha te take e whakawhirinaki tonu ai te tini o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te tikanga hutihuti?

Ahakoa ngā mōrearea nui, he maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakamahi tonu ana i tēnei tikanga. He maha ngā take e pā ana ki tēnei:

• He kare ā-roto o te mangere , te mangere rānei ki te rangahau me te tiki i ngā tikanga ārai whānau pono ake.
• Te kore mōhiotanga ki ngā kōwhiringa tino whai hua pēnei i ngā tikanga ārai hapūtanga roa-mahi (LARC) (pēnei i ngā IUD me ngā mea tāpiri) me ngā pire ārai hapūtanga o ia rā.
• He whakarihariha ki ngā taputapu haumanu, ki ngā pire o ia rā, ki ngā werohanga, ki ngā pāti homoni rānei.
• Ko te hiahia ki te pupuri i te āhua tūpono o te moepuku, me te kore e tatari ki te kimi, ki te whakamahi rānei i ngā ārai ārai pēnei i te ure tāwharau.
• Te hiahia ki te karo i ngā pānga taha kāore e pā ana ki te ārai hapūtanga e pā ana ki ngā ārai hapūtanga homoni (pēnei i te huringa o te wairua, te piki me te heke o te taumaha, me ētahi atu).
• Te whakamahi hei tārua ina warewarehia, kua ngaro rānei tētahi atu tikanga ārai hapūtanga.

Hei tāpiri, ka whakamahia e ētahi tāne me ngā wāhine te tikanga tango pēpi me tētahi atu tikanga ārai whānau hei tāpiri atu i te haumaru.

Me pēhea te whakanui ake i te angitū o te tikanga tango?

Mena ka whiriwhiri koe me tō hoa ki te whakamahi i tēnei tikanga, anei ētahi huarahi hei whakaiti i tō tupono me te whakapai ake i tōna angitu whānui:

• Me hono tonu ki tētahi tikanga tārua: Koinei te rautaki pai rawa atu. Mā te whakakotahi i te tikanga tango me tētahi atu momo ārai whānau ka tino whakaiti i te tūponotanga o te hāputanga.
• Neke atu i te 99% te whai huatanga o ngā ārai hapūtanga roa-te-mahi (LARC)—pērā i ngā taputapu ā-roto o te kōpū (IUD) me ngā mea tāpiri ārai hapūtanga.
• E 96% te whai huatanga o ngā pire ārai whānau o ia rā mēnā ka whakamahia noa (me te 99% mēnā ka whakamahia tika).
• E 85% te whai huatanga o ngā ure ā-waho mō te whakamahinga noa i te ao tūturu.
• Mā te whakamahi i ngā patu parāoa, i ngā kirimi ārai hapūtanga rānei i te taha o te tango i te pēpi ka tino whakaiti i te tūponotanga o te whakatō tamariki.
• Kaua e whakamahi i tēnei tikanga i roto i tō matapihi momona ( whakatō hua ): Ka tino piki tō tupono ki te hapu i ngā rā i mua atu i te rā o te whakatō hua, tae atu ki te rā o te whakatō hua. Mō te nuinga o ngā wāhine, ka puta te whakatō hua i waenganui o te huringa paheketanga (e rua wiki pea i mua i tō paheketanga e whai ake nei). Whakaarohia te whakamahi i tētahi maramataka whakatō hua, i tētahi taupānga aroturuki rānei hei tautuhi i ō rā momona. I roto i tēnei matapihi mōrearea nui, kaua e whakawhirinaki ki te tikanga tango hua.
• Me mimi tō hoa i mua i te moe tāne: Mā te mimi ka horoia te toenga o te parāoa mai i te urethra i mahue mai i te putanga o mua, ka whakaiti i te noho mai o te parāoa hohe i roto i te putanga i mua i te putanga. Ahakoa ehara i te mea he tino haumaru, he mea āwhina hoki hei ārai i te mate.
• Kia mau tonu te ārai whānau ohorere: Ki te whakawhirinaki koe ki te tango i te pēpi, me rite koe mō te korenga e angitu. He mea tupato te whai i tētahi pire ārai whānau ohorere (e kiia ana ko te pire ata-muri) ki te kāinga. Ina tangohia i roto i ngā haora 72 ki te 120 o te moe tāne kore ārai, he tino whai hua ki te aukati i te hāputanga.

Te Karere Kawe-ki-te-Kāinga

Ahakoa he pai ake te tikanga tango i te pēpi i te kore whakamahi i te ārai whānau ina ngana ana koe ki te karo i te hāputanga, he mea nui te mārama ki ngā mōrearea kei roto i a ia hei whakatau whai whakaaro mō tō hauora uri.

Kia maumahara, ki te whakawhirinaki noa koe ki te tango i te rongoā me te kore he tikanga ārai whānau tārua, ka tūpono koe ki te hapu i ia tau, 1-i roto-i-te-5 (20%). Hei tāpiri, me whakamahi koe i tētahi tikanga ārai pērā i te ure tāwharau hei tiaki i a koe mai i ngā Mate Tuku Iho (STI).

Hei paunatia tika ngā painga me ngā huakore o te tango i te pēpi ki te whakataurite ki ētahi atu tikanga ārai hapūtanga, ko te kōrero ki tētahi tohunga hauora te mea pai rawa atu. Ka taea e rātou te āwhina i a koe me tō hoa rangatira ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi tikanga pono, kore ahotea e hangai ana ki tō momo noho me ō whāinga hauora.